Gayer than them explaining the fuked up when the shoe is on the other foot.
gayer than just keeping internet friends and only having acquaintances in real to avoid this conflict... so when you di their chicks you just say to yourself " he wasnt that close of a friend to me"
gayer than not telling ron to get rid of it or else
Gayer than mentioning it to Ron and him deleting the thread out of spite.
gayer than being hit on by cougars and being too scared to do anything about it