gayer than this is all I needed to read: "There are no absolute rules on how to conduct correctly" 
I knew it was a BS job!!!! 
And according to your statements, being any kind of social worker (like a teacher) = also a bullshit job, along with many others. Brutal implications when your statement = checked for the demand of consistency.

Ps: Music ain't an art that works in absolute rules

Meltdown complete.