Gayer than bringing up a topic that was discussed Tuesday night at the bar and thought this may fill up a few pages here (just trying to catch the truce thread)...
Ok gayer than the subject-
A married woman with children ok/happy/just fine in her relationship and a married guy with children (probably not planning on leaving his wife...he's just a guy) have an affair...
One, what constitutes an "affair" (romance? sex? positive attention?)
Two, what is the woman there for if she's just "fine" in her life?
Three, what exactly does the guy want?
Gayer than wanting the gayer than folks opinion!!!!
One = any of which you mention can describe an affair
if someone's attention is swayed in a way that causes them to pay as much attention to a person other than their "spouse" or when they are "wanting" attention from that other person
Two = being "just fine " doesn't mean happy and fulfilled
Three = basically the guy wants to get off ( somehow ).. no matter what
if it ain't with "her" it'll be with someone else

oh yeah
gayer than that's my opinion