Gayer than respecting women.
gayer than me trying to be nice to a group of 4 or 5 girls at college so as they were coming out of a building (i was going in) i held the door open for them, to which 2 responded with a perky "thank you!" and one of them that didnt say thank u said " he didn't open the door for us".
gayer than seriously considering going on a yelling tirade to her after that.