Seeking ladies knowledge about a problem

[bonedoc]

I recently ran into my ex's best friend and had a lenghty conversation.  The past couple of days have dredged up old memories and the best friend also had to mention the my ex is still very interested in me. have been apart for around 5 yrs.  What is up with this situation? oh by the way this is the first i have heard from either of them in the 5 yr span.

[chaos]

I recently ran into my ex's best friend and had a lenghty conversation.  The past couple of days have dredged up old memories and the best friend also had to mention the my ex is still very interested in me. have been apart for around 5 yrs.  What is up with this situation? oh by the way this is the first i have heard from either of them in the 5 yr span.

Go get some, what are you waiting for

[Laura Lee]

I recently ran into my ex's best friend and had a lenghty conversation.  The past couple of days have dredged up old memories and the best friend also had to mention the my ex is still very interested in me. have been apart for around 5 yrs.  What is up with this situation? oh by the way this is the first i have heard from either of them in the 5 yr span.

Why is she an ex?

[jaejonna]

if you let something go and it comes back to you then its yours forever.

[w8m8]

Why is she an ex?

good question   

plus a few more I'm pondering :

Have you been thinking of her more now that this happened ?
Are you tempted to see her ?
Were the the dumper or dumpee ?
You trust the "friend" ?
Where the five years of separation good for you ?
What were they like for her ?


Sometimes after we discover the grass isn't greener we long for what we don't have anymore

Sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie

Then again it may be something to delve into a little deeper

if you let something go and it comes back to you then its yours forever.

jj  you say some sweet things   

[smoothasf]

Point 1
History
I'm in the exact same postion as you though fast forward 2 months.  The girl im seeing now was my first ever real g/f, we went out for 3 and a half years.

Point 2
Reason we finished (important)
Being my first gf i hadnt really grown up or had another relationship to compare it to, this intern always had me thinking what else was out there. Towards the end i wanted to see what else there was and she got tired of my lack of williness to settle down which slowly ended us.  No bitterness or big row, just went seperate ways.

Point 3
Now
I didnt see her at all, not even to bump into for a chat in 5 years, then, ol' facebook came along and we we instant chatting for a bit, having a bit of a joke around about out sex life (it was never bad...ever).  I never thought of anything deeper though.  We decided to go to a drink to catch up.  We both got on as if we never had a day apart and now 5 years on we are both confident, settled in ourselves and really comfortable round each other.  Been back together about 6 weeks and though in most relationships this is the 'honeymoon period', this is not we've been through all this before and can honestly say for the first time ever this is where i belong.


Point:
If you were happy before and nothing tore you apart that could leave a life long bitterness or resentment, you owe it to yourself to find out where it could go otherwise you'll spend your entire life wondering 'What if?'   ....................

[24KT]

Point:
If you were happy before and nothing tore you apart that could leave a life long bitterness or resentment, you owe it to yourself to find out where it could go otherwise you'll spend your entire life wondering 'What if?'   ....................

I think most people will agree that our biggest regrets come not from what we've done, but from what we failed to.
Those what if's, ...or what could have been if only we had tried can kill ya.

[drkaje]

Things didn't work out for a reason, Bro.

Leave well enough alone.

[chaos]

if you let something go and it comes back to you then its yours forever.

And if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it.

[w8m8]

And if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it.

place the body in lime or a pond full of leeches

don't use a gun or a knife

wear latex gloves
and burn them when you're done
 

[Playboy]

I'm no lady here but i'll give you my 2 penies. Move on. She is an EX for a reason. Her buddy could be playing you. Guaranteed she ran back to your EX telling her about your meeting. Remember, if it didn't work the first time around then it won't work the second. She is an EX for a reason. Move on and meet some fresh new people. Leave the negitive past in the past. Lots of beautiful, intelligent, articulate women out there that will be more than happy to give your heart a home. 

[chaos]

  All this "advice".........


You're way overthinking the situation, just hit it for old times sake, and get out before she attaches herself to you.

[IrishMuscle84]

if you let something go and it comes back to you then its yours forever.

YUP.

[calmus]

Maybe she's finally ready for you to PIIMB.

[bonedoc]

thanks for all the posts

[Playboy]

All this "advice".........


You're way overthinking the situation, just hit it for old times sake, and get out before she attaches herself to you.

Hitting it would make him look hurting. It would give the impression that he can't pick up any women and he has to resort to "the past".

[chaos]

Hitting it would make him look hurting. It would give the impression that he can't pick up any women and he has to resort to "the past".

I have to disagree, hitting it would only make him look like a horny guy that is willing to put his weiner in a familiar wet spot, don't over think this and don't put the putty on a pedestal.

[Playboy]

I have to disagree, hitting it would only make him look like a horny guy that is willing to put his weiner in a familiar wet spot, don't over think this and don't put the putty on a pedestal.

It would make him look like he can't grab anything and has to resort to tapping the past. Guy's who can play the field grab new blood all the time and do it easily and don't even think twice about a past flame.