Why men cheat

[parsnip1965]

Don't you agree.  Men cheat because of their character.  That was the point.

No, I don't agree.  Some men cheat...I don't.  Because of my character.  I want to cheat, of course, but I just don't.

[Deicide]

How about a thread about women cheating. It would be a lot better. This 'man cheating topic' is overdone.

[Hereford]

How about a thread about women cheating. It would be a lot better. This 'man cheating topic' is overdone.

Agreed.

[Deicide]

Agreed.

Seriously, this shit is so played out and fuels the anti-male propaganda that women take full advantage of...it's a fucking joke. Time for women to get some payback.

[drkaje]

Women cheat for more attention.

[Deicide]

Women cheat for more attention.

Women don't even know why they fucking cheat; totally irrational creatures, don't even understand themselves.

[drkaje]

Women don't even know why they fucking cheat; totally irrational creatures, don't even understand themselves.

Women generally cheat for attention.

Knowing why or why not is irrelevant because it always comes back to the same reason.

Men are more likely to chat for non-relationship reasons like sex, ego boost, immaturity or availability.

[Hereford]

Are we talking in the biological sense or social sense?

I have seen numerous women cheat due to their immaturity and availability as well.

[drkaje]

Are we talking in the biological sense or social sense?

I have seen numerous women cheat due to their immaturity and availability as well.

From a social standpoint it almost always comes back to a feeling of needing more attention than they are getting.

If you're talking biology it generally has to do with one guy having good DNA and the other being a better provider. Guys make new DNA all the time but women have a time limit. Outside that window, the chances of healthy children goes down pretty substantially. A 32yof has a 28% of having a child with some sort of developmental issue. Sure, 78% have no issue at that age but it definitely gets worse as time goes by. Some british guy did a ton of really great research on this.... he then promptly attempted writing something entertaining with his wife and created a piece of pure garbage called "Sperm Wars", proving once and for all that PhDs can't write sexy stuff.

[Deicide]

From a social standpoint it almost always comes back to a feeling of needing more attention than they are getting.

If you're talking biology it generally has to do with one guy having good DNA and the other being a better provider. Guys make new DNA all the time but women have a time limit. Outside that window, the chances of healthy children goes down pretty substantially. A 32yof has a 28% of having a child with some sort of developmental issue. Sure, 78% have no issue at that age but it definitely gets worse as time goes by. Some british guy did a ton of really great research on this.... he then promptly attempted writing something entertaining with his wife and created a piece of pure garbage called "Sperm Wars", proving once and for all that PhDs can't write sexy stuff.

It seems that we have two choices: deal with their insanity or disengage from them. I find both quite difficult.

[drkaje]

It seems that we have two choices: deal with their insanity or disengage from them. I find both quite difficult.

I love women and feel God put them here to make men better.... through constant testing, LOL!

[Deicide]

I love women and feel God put them here to make men better.... through constant testing, LOL!

I like women too but in a certain way I hate them as well. Sometimes I would just like to have a situation such as: hey, I like you, me too; let's hang out and enjoy each other's company; I'm having a good time with you. Everything is cool.

Instead of...

Having to go to the police to get restraining orders and pressing charges for attempted murder. Dealing with multiple personalities that change every 10 minutes. Lying about (consciously or not) about how you feel and then 'changing' your mind all of a sudden, etc.

[tu_holmes]

I like women too but in a certain way I hate them as well. Sometimes I would just like to have a situation such as: hey, I like you, me too; let's hang out and enjoy each other's company; I'm having a good time with you. Everything is cool.

Instead of...

Having to go to the police to get restraining orders and pressing charges for attempted murder. Dealing with multiple personalities that change every 10 minutes. Lying about (consciously or not) about how you feel and then 'changing' your mind all of a sudden, etc.

Man, as long as you date women, you can forget the top part... It will always be lying, conniving and restraint orders.

[Deicide]

Man, as long as you date women, you can forget the top part... It will always be lying, conniving and restraint orders.

Super depressing. In fact I think it is one of the most depressing things in the world.  I really do.

[tu_holmes]

Super depressing. In fact I think it is one of the most depressing things in the world.  I really do.

It's simple... you're a rational thinking man.

MAN.

She's a woman... emotional and problematic.

Women are crazy dude... just crazy... Sorry to have to break it to you.

We can cry together.

[Deicide]

It's simple... you're a rational thinking man.

MAN.

She's a woman... emotional and problematic.

Women are crazy dude... just crazy... Sorry to have to break it to you.

We can cry together.

I know they are crazy. It's just that I love them so much and so am forced to deal with them; when I don't deal with them I get depressed but dealing with their insanity depresses me as well. It's a lose/lose situation anyway you look at it.

[tu_holmes]

I know they are crazy. It's just that I love them so much and so am forced to deal with them; when I don't deal with them I get depressed but dealing with their insanity depresses me as well. It's a lose/lose situation anyway you look at it.

That's why we keep the launch codes for ourselves... We gotta maintain some way to get us out of the funk.

[Deicide]

That's why we keep the launch codes for ourselves... We gotta maintain some way to get us out of the funk.

 

[drkaje]

I typed this slow: we're all frigging crazy in some way!!

As far as I know, God has never seen fit to make a perfect person.

Find a woman with the kind of crazy that works with your own and be happy.

Life's way to short and it's probably your attitude towards women that's attracting all the crazies. WTF!? I'm reading like Stella and Cheri, LOL! Really better check my test levels.

[Deicide]

I typed this slow: we're all frigging crazy in some way!!

As far as I know, God has never seen fit to make a perfect person.

Find a woman with the kind of crazy that works with your own and be happy.

Life's way to short and it's probably your attitude towards women that's attracting all the crazies. WTF!? I'm reading like Stella and Cheri, LOL! Really better check my test levels.

You sound like a chick...I have no idea. Hopeless.

[tu_holmes]

I typed this slow: we're all frigging crazy in some way!!

As far as I know, God has never seen fit to make a perfect person.

Find a woman with the kind of crazy that works with your own and be happy.

Life's way to short and it's probably your attitude towards women that's attracting all the crazies. WTF!? I'm reading like Stella and Cheri, LOL! Really better check my test levels.

You want a chick that's crazy enough to do what you want in bed, but not so crazy as to stab you in the neck with a pencil because you looked at some boobs.

It's a fine line.

[Deicide]

Are women insane?
Some time back, I was counseling with a gentleman who was having troubles with the lady in his life. In exasperation, he finally said, “They are insane!”

“Who is insane?” I inquired.

“Women,” he replied. “All women are insane.”

A few weeks ago, I was talking with another man who found his relationship with a certain female confusing. I said, “Well, one person I talked to said that it was his opinion that all women are insane.”

He pondered a moment and said, “I think I agree with that.”

“Really!” I replied. “So you think that men should treat all women as though they are mentally ill?”

“Probably,” he mused.

As we were standing outside the church on a Sunday morning, I decided to get a few opinions from the gentler sex. The first person I approached was a young mom with three children, two of whom are teenagers. After I explained the conversations that occurred, I asked if she thought the men had a valid point.

“They probably do,” she answered.

Surprised, I asked, “So you think that men would be better off if they just assumed that women were insane and acted as such?”

“Yep, probably.”

My next contact was with a mother of four small children. Again, I explained the situation and asked the lady’s thoughts.

“It’s probably true from a man’s point of view. I always want my husband to tell me what I want to hear and to do what I want him to do. I can see how he might think that’s crazy.”

Now, let me just state for the record that both the man with me, and I, were very surprised by the way these conversations were going. I’ve read “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: The Classic Guide for Understanding the Opposite Sex,” by John Gray, so I’ve understood for years that we come from different places and see things from a different perspective, but two women saying that the two men had a valid point left me — confused.

In essence, the two women were saying that the two men were — gasp! — right. Men are not accustomed to be being told they are right, especially by the women in their lives.

So, we decided to approach a professional, a lady who has served as a registered nurse for a number of years. When told what had been proposed, she said, “Oh, I don’t believe that at all! I don’t think that women are insane. I know I’m not insane.”

So, I asked her, “Do you think that most insane people know that they are insane?”

“Probably not,” she said.

“So,” I proffered, “you could actually be insane and not be aware of it, couldn’t you?”

I received “the look” that all women, from the day of their birth, are able to give men to chill their blood, and then she went into the church.

A few days later, I approached a college student, a young lady I have known all her life. I told her all about this and, looking for a more modern, progressive voice, I asked her if women were insane.

Without hesitation, she replied, “Oh, absolutely!”

So, do I think that all women are insane? Well, it certainly would explain a great many mysterious ways that have baffled men from the beginning of time.

All I can say is that, based on my limited survey, 100 percent of men surveyed say, “Yes”; 75 percent of women polled say, “Probably” or “Absolutely”; and 25 percent of women polled say, “No,” but they could be insane and not know it.

Who am I to argue with the polls? I’m not crazy.

[w8m8]

I like women too but in a certain way I hate them as well. Sometimes I would just like to have a situation such as: hey, I like you, me too; let's hang out and enjoy each other's company; I'm having a good time with you. Everything is cool.

Instead of...

Having to go to the police to get restraining orders and pressing charges for attempted murder. Dealing with multiple personalities that change every 10 minutes. Lying about (consciously or not) about how you feel and then 'changing' your mind all of a sudden, etc.

I think you pick crazy

or you are crazy

or the both of you are crazy and they don't mesh well

whatever .. I just cannot think of charges for attempted murder and not think :

WOW THAT'S CRAZY

why is it so many people think you must be with someone to be OK and content , when they try and fail so many times so quickly so easily 

If you can't be at peace with being alone in between , it's not really cool to keep going on to the next , and the next , and so on

[Deicide]

I think you pick crazy

or you are crazy

or the both of you are crazy and they don't mesh well

whatever .. I just cannot think of charges for attempted murder and not think :

WOW THAT'S CRAZY

why is it so many people think you must be with someone to be OK and content , when they try and fail so many times so quickly so easily 

If you can't be at peace with being alone in between , it's not really cool to keep going on to the next , and the next , and so on

I don't necessarily think that I have to be with someone to be content; that ex who tried to kill me was almost 10 years ago. Still I have been single for 4 years now; if you you were always alone for 4 years and were getting older, wouldn't it bother you? First 2 years were ok, after 3 it started to get old. I can assure you I am not crazy, though maybe I am too lonely...which could be a problem as well.

[w8m8]

I don't necessarily think that I have to be with someone to be content; that ex who tried to kill me was almost 10 years ago.

sorry such a thing happened to you .. really

No one will ever be arrested for attempted murder .. for "trying" to kill me .. I'd either be dead or they would be .. simple as that .. that's just not anyplace I hope I ever have to go

yes that's saying I'm crazy .. I can live with that

Still I have been single for 4 years now; if you you were always alone for 4 years and were getting older, wouldn't it bother you? First 2 years were ok, after 3 it started to get old.

I'm with you 1000% .. but I really won't ever take the chance on being with somebody else again unless I know "everything" .. first .. no games .. no stroking each other with nicey nicey crap .. yeah it's gets very old and very lonesome ..but if I can't enjoy myself somehow everyday ..I won't be any better with someone else

I can assure you I am not crazy, though maybe I am too lonely...which could be a problem as well.

we are almost all crazy in some way ... not mental house rubber room NUTS .. but more than half of us have things that others would see as more than just odd