What happens if they run out of food. (i gotta think about that) Do you take work off too. Is this considered sick days or do you lose your salary too. Shiva doesn't sound good to me.
When my Mom's sister passed away last year, her brother came in from Israel, and the family sat shiva for seven days. I didn't take off work, I have a family, and that is priority. But we made sure, as is customary, that my Mom, her brother, and others who mourn had all the food that was needed, and friends also came and brought cooked items for us.
My dad wound up going and making sure the business was good. He didnt take off either. Sometimes you cannot.
I would up coming in the evening to the house, when I could.
With friends and family bringing things, there was more food there then 30 people could eat.