I'm crushed lovemonkey.
But anytime you want to discuss the facts and have your absurd notions blown up, I'm happy to help. 
LOL. Concerning gay marriage, there is not much to discuss. Give them right to be able to marry at the courthouse. It's understandable if the church doesn't want to marry them and that's something I'm ok with. Church doesn't even deserve it anyhow, so...
But to deny people marriage whether straight or gay is outright discrimination.
I just don't see how it would affect you if a gay couple were to marry each other, Bum? It's nobodies business but theirs.