I was 21 and was coming back to lift after 7 months off. I got 135 stuck on my chest benching on the 7th rep and had to roll it off. It was embarrassing. 
something similar happened to me after a long lay off.
i was in a rugby club - real monsters all around, etc
i was trying out the bench ( in a safety cage - thankfully) to see how it felt after the lay off - i started with 1 45lb plate each side, did around 10 then failed, it was on my chest and i simply did not have an ounce of strength left, i tried bouncing it off, but each bounce got smaller and smaller. The whole time i'm doing this, 2 monsters were just sitting watching me, not saying a thing. i was too embarassed and prideful to ask for help, so i evenutually just sat the bar on my chest, after around 30 sec i tried to bounce it again, and it didn't move an inch, finally one of the monsters asked if i needed a hand, i sheepishly said if you don't mind - he lifted it with one hand and wasn't even looking at the bar

i walked out as fast as i could, and still havn't returned

one day though, one day i will go back and show him
