Bear in mind there a more then just a few women who like the drama and try and make men jealous to justify themselves.
DrKaje is so very correct in this thread (minus the stables) with his advice.
With the information in this thread if I had to choose one of you I would choose him.
He is showing enough confidence to pique my interest.
"Analysts" appear wimpy and unappealing. Good looking women get hit on all the time and we have to filter the "wimps" out. I can only comment on myself, but if you are not confident enough to take a chance I am not interested in you.
No offense meant here, I am just trying to explain things... I apologize if this comes across a little harsh.
Not at all. I'd much rather read the unfettered thoughts of a woman than anything posted from a cyber-geek.
I think I have not been clear on few things --- and let us not forget the amount of bravado that is used on internet -- a lot of the male contributions here are typical of any forum full of guys living out a fantasy version of themselves. I am not doing so
I am well-educated, reasonably solvent and have very good looks. I have never been short of women who are interested in me and make that clear (you'll have to take a leap of faith here and trust me that this is the truth and not internet gusto
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I have no problem understanding a women in a certain environment that young singles meet... making it clear she wants to be approached - bars, parties, clubs etc...
I also notice that throughout my day I will have maybe five or six lesser interactions - smiles, prolonged eye contact etc - with women in situations where interaction is at best difficult and at times impossible. My only real interest here is what the women of this board make of these situations and what they feel they are trying to communicate to a male in these said situations if they also have them. I am honestly only interested in a woman's perspective.
