In NC here, the age of consent is 16. You can be 68 or whatever and have sex with a 16 year old. There is no "five year rule" here. Most states it is 16 or 17. It is solely up to the state.
www.legalmatch.comWhat is the Age of Consent in Hawaii?
In Hawaii, the legal age of consent to have sex is 16 years old. A person who is 14 or older can legally consent to sex with a person who is 19 or younger.
There is no statutory age of consent for homosexual acts in Hawaii. Hawaii had a law making homosexual conduct illegal, but such laws, as applied to consensual, private conduct between adults, have been declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Court. Because of this, it is unclear what the age of consent for homosexual conduct is in Hawaii. It seems probable that a Hawaiian court would defer to the age of consent for heterosexual conduct, until and unless the state legislature clarifies the issue.
In Hawaii, it is illegal to have sex with a person under the age of 14 under any circumstances. However, it is legal to have sex with a person between the ages of 14 and 16, provided that the older party is no more than 5 years older that the minor.