
That's what you dont get, and what most minorities I have met mistakenly believe. "Whites" are not a monolithic group of people who all think "white". Its typical nonsense that I hear from blacks and hispanics all the time that makes me think they are just as much part of the problem as are racist whites. The Italo-american from the Bronx like myself, has NOTHING in common with with the Mormon from UTAH. I have far more in common with the Puerto Rican or Dominican from Washington Heights than I do a southern white guy from Alabama, despite my skin color.
There is no such thing in America as a typical "white" person. That only exists in the minds of minorities with their own set of racist stereotypes.
For example - I am of Italo heritage. Do you think WASPS from Greenwich or Jews from Scarsdale consider me just like them??? I get stereotyped in all the same ways you claim whites do to minorities. No one is crying for me, and I dont want, expect, or like other people of my heritage whining like other groups over stereotypes. Its embarassing.
Instead, I prefer to be judged by my own accomplishments and doings and let that speak for itself. This is why asians and indians get a ton of respect in this country, and deservedly so. Asians dont cry like little whiny bitches over every little sterotype, they just move forward, advance, excel, and command respect for their actions and achievments.
Do you even for a second think an italo-American from the Bronx is welcome at a WASP country club in Bronxville? Do you think Russians, Albanians, Portugese, or other ethnic whites are included in these upper elite country clubs or social circles? No, its not about skin color.
Let me tell you something, I graduated law school top of my class, editor of the law review, and did all the right things. I tried very hard to get into the elite law firms down NYC. Most of these firms were run by WASPS & Jews. Do you think I even got an interview despite my academic record? No.
I was unemployed for 9 months after law school and worked at Bally Total Fitness as a trainer until I had a shit job making $12.00 an hour until I eventually opened up my own business doing what I do now. I was not going to let those miserable assholes determine my future and worth. Looking back, I am glad I made the choices I did since I now call my own shots and am not told by anyone what or how to do my job.
The issues in our society are more about wealth and social status, not race. Those who are always focused on race dont understand that they are keeping themselves down by focusing on that instead of personal and individual advancement.