Israel isn't interested in going to the table either man... They've pretty much made that clear recently.
Both sides have. However, I don't see Israel consistently lobbing rockets into civilian hot spots with the sole intent of killing civilians. Unless, of course, you think Hamas is trying to accomplish something else by firing rockets at towns with no military presence or significance.
I find it hard to give a shit about a group of people that used the last fighting as a cover for killing a large number of political opponents in Gaza.

The best solution would be for Egypt to take control of Gaza and for Jordan to take the West Bank. However, because the entire Muslim world despises and wouldn't mind seeing the Palestinians dead, that has zero chance of happening.