most people use it as a whole social experience, as its either sit in a pub, sit in with the wife/gf... or sayin this is getbig,bf.. or, its training 4 or so times per week... as i keep saying, u only live once for fucks sake
just cos u dont talk to anyone or grunt like a girl doesnt make u hardcore, just means your a anti social weirdo
and if i were single, you bet id be eyeing up all the fanny, and making an effort in gym attire, the holey T-shirts and old shorts would be dropped pronto......