I think both are right, cooter is cooter, but easy cooter doesn't feel like cooter earned
As far as the date, get her talking, that's why i like picnics, they are cheeap, and the women typically feel uninhibited due to not being in a environment that forces them to put on a front. And if lucky, you get to not only glimpse the cooter--but have that and a fellatio topping as well for dessert.