Okay, so I messed up in my relationship with my ex. A GREAT fucking catch she is. She took me on vacations, is hot, smart, successful and laid back. After we broke up I didn't pull the standard pussy bullshit of pleading and begging, etc. I acted cool with her decision and admitted that I messed up (I was too jealous, controlling and critical of her when we dated).
Anyways, it's been several months since the breakup and she only recently got herself on a single chat line. I thought she was going to stay single forever...haha. Anyways, she met this guy she really likes about 3-4 weeks ago. They've been on a few dates and yeah, I know where that's headed. She's reeling him in with her charm and he's biting.
NOW, the reason her and I haven't hooked back up since, is because whenever we got close, she got scared. She thought I'd pull the same shit again that I did when we dated and so her walls came up and she tested. I passed some tests and failed some of them. I passed enough to stay in her life, but not enough for her to want to chase my ass..
I was at her place for supper last Saturday night (being the friend...but being cool and trying to seduce in an indirect manner) and I was getting somewhere, but when she realized she was letting go, she started crying and pulled back. She told me this new guy who she met a month ago is really nice and they started dating. SO, instead of being cool, I made a dick out of myself and got a bit jealous on her ass...
OKAY, here's the question and this is directed at the BIG PLAYERS on this board. The guy's who know their SHIT. I have never had a problem seducing a girl who is IN a relationship. I've had many girls break up with their bf's, fiance's and even husbands for me, but this situation is different. My ex KNOWS me. I'm not NEW like this guy she just met. He gets full access to her. She's OPEN to him.
HOW do I, seeing I still have access to her mind and thoughts (seeing she hasn't canceled me out of her life yet), SABOTAGE her relationship with this new guy who she likes. I'm talking about manipulative tactics. REAL UNDERHANDED SHIT that WORKS??? I realize it could take time, but WHAT WORKS?? How do I get her to want to see me (behind his back) and make HIM jealous of the fact that she is still in touch with her ex? How can I work that angle? How can I make her see him in a bad way? How can I turn things in my favor? DON'T be telling me to go NO CONTACT. That shit doesn't work. I'm open to ALL suggestions. Even a series of moves. Like a phone call saying this or that or asking her this or that to throw her off and then do something else and finally, she'll feel TORN and realize that even though this new guy is nice and exciting, she can't let me GO.
Alright guys, give me your best.
