How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.'
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.