I missed it.
True about shallowness. But, we as a culture, are becoming on the whole far more shallow and narcissistic.
I mean, imagine you were witnessing some guy trying to impress a girl and in the bathroom he was pumping up and rolling up his sleeves, unbuttoning part of his shirt...
Most guys would think, "What a tool." And even when guys do that they use to do it in private so nobody would see them. I had a friend who use to do dips in the handicap stall in clubs. Nowadays you sometimes see guys doing it opening. They're no longer ashamed and embarrassed.
I've read a lot of your posts. You have a great personality. You're already way ahead of the pack. Being in such great shape will just be an added surprise and shock when you get down to "bizness."