when you have Kids your life changes, it isnt over, they basically become the priority and focus, i have two, no doubt me and my wifes relationship isnt what it once was, but weve adapted, I dont get to bodybuild anymore, i still train daily but i made that choice before having them, i knew i could go start a family and pursue finacial security, or i could keep bodybuilding as my proiority, to me it was a no brainer, the sports a hobby that some fools let rule their life, put the same level of dedication and time into buisness and you will get finacial security, something you wont get from bodybuilding unless your in the top few guys.