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Title: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 22, 2009, 08:46:57 AM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: johnnynoname on November 22, 2009, 08:47:48 AM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss

no

you wait till they turn 18 and then you fuck their legal aged friends


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jaejonna on November 22, 2009, 08:48:47 AM
truth, pack it in....you dont want to be some kids dad and the current peice of shit you are now


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: wavelength on November 22, 2009, 08:50:01 AM
I know people who have kids and are still alive


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 22, 2009, 08:50:55 AM
i feel sorry for some friends of mine who have their first kid, they never go out anymore, only do boring stuff.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jpm101 on November 22, 2009, 08:52:20 AM
You could ask your parents. If not already.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: johnnynoname on November 22, 2009, 08:53:23 AM
actually, me being born didn't affect my dad's life- he just left

it did, however, affect my mom's life


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 22, 2009, 10:05:27 AM
actually, me being born didn't affect my dad's life- he just left

it did, however, affect my mom's life

x2. My mom did hunt my father down for child support and bought me new clothes every week with his child support check.   8) My dad did come back and buy me clothes, technology, stuff and still buys me stuff but we never talk.  :D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: spinnis on November 22, 2009, 10:06:49 AM
both my parents died in a fire when I was 4 years old.

I was sleeping over at a friends house.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 22, 2009, 10:07:10 AM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss
Its over when that happens mars


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 22, 2009, 10:09:15 AM
Women have kids.  Men have cigars.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: johnnynoname on November 22, 2009, 10:10:40 AM
My dad did come back and buy me clothes, technology, stuff and still buys me stuff but we never talk.  :D

lol mine too



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: affeman on November 22, 2009, 10:17:08 AM
I wouldn't say your life is over, I would say it's "different" (if you wanna be a good dad of course).

Definately a decision which should be made thoroughly.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Brixtonbulldog on November 22, 2009, 10:17:19 AM
I don't have kids but from what I've seen your life being over largely depends on the life you lead before you have kids.  If you go out every night and party until 3 am then, yeah, it's prolly over.  If you're like me and you go to work, take one college class and then spend most of your time at home (having a gym at home is a plus) then I think your life isn't over at all.

My guess is the worst is right after they learn to walk all the way up until they can talk and hold a conversation.  Babies are too dependent to seek out real trouble on their own and once kids can understand "no" and learn how to behave then your schedule can open up a little bit.  What would you say, between 1 year and 5 years?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: 240 is Back on November 22, 2009, 10:17:45 AM
yes and no.

your free time is gone.  being able to drop a deuce without being interrupted - gone.  being able to watch a football game, nap, check your email, eat, etc... all limited in those first few years when they're all over you 24/7.

but life is so much better with a rugrat once you have one.

Just wait until you're 28 or 30.  Doing it at 20 would be damn near impossible.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: spach23 on November 22, 2009, 12:04:56 PM
My son is 9 months old and in some ways I feel like my life has just begun :)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lovemonkey on November 22, 2009, 12:15:02 PM
both my parents died in a fire when I was 4 years old.

I was sleeping over at a friends house.

Holy shit, really? Geez that sucks man, sorry to hear.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: kyomu on November 22, 2009, 12:29:24 PM
Lie.

I asked about it to my mom when I was a kid.
She said she wanted to say thanx to me for giving new life and experience to her.
For example, she has never been to fishing until i went with her.
And she has been crazy for going to fish everyday becuase of me.
Only person who has prejudice dont see it.
Becoming adult with full of prejudice shits is a sad thing.
Stay young forever, my getbig friends.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lovemonkey on November 22, 2009, 12:32:47 PM
Lie.

I asked about it to my mom when I was a kid.
She said she wanted to say thanx to me for giving new life and experience to her.
For example, she has never been to fishing until i went with her.
And she has been crazy for going to fish everyday becuase of me.
Only person who has prejudice dont see it.
Becoming adult with full of prejudice shits is a sad thing.
Stay young forever, my getbig friends.

Awesome for you and your mom but you also gotta realize that it's not the same for everyone. Some people really have dysfunctional families.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: kyomu on November 22, 2009, 12:40:30 PM
Awesome for you and your mom but you also gotta realize that it's not the same for everyone. Some people really have dysfunctional families.
Thanx.
Because those familys mom and dad are those "sad" adults full of prejudice who live in the hell.
Our world is same. But, each people change into what they like.
This is a interesting story for you.

There was a guy who died in an error and he shouldnt have died. Then an admisitrator of other side say 'Hey, sorry for this, i will revive you. But before, any wish do you have?'
The guy answered 'Mmmm Yeah. Before, reviving, i want to see the heaven and the hell. Can I?'
The administrator said yes and he took this guy to the hell at first.
There, there was a table and many delicious look foods are there. Then the guy thought' Wow is it really hell?Looking good though..'.
Then those deads entered with their pale face and bad skinny look. And they sat down and picked up their own chop stick of each and tryed to eat those foods...But They couldnt eat those foods! Why? Cus their chopsticks were about 90cm and nobody of them could controled those long chopsticks to bring those foods into their own mouth.
And the time has past, nobody of them could eat any food and they must finish their dinner.....
The guy thought 'Yeah.... This is certainly hell.'

Now this time,The administrator of the other side took this guy to the heaven.
And The guy were flipped out. There were same table and same foods and same LONG CHOP STICKS!!
Then later, those deads came in. But this time, those deads have good face and looked healthy and all of them are chatting and laughing. Soon they sat and started dinner.
The guy was watching out carefuly what happened. Then Those deads used those long chop sticks and tryed to bring those foods into each others mouth! They ate a lot and shared their happiness and looked like they enjoyed their dinner a lot.

The guy realized. The difference between the hell and the heaven is in our mind and totaly we creat both of them.
Its total spiritual matter.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Purple Aki on November 22, 2009, 12:43:07 PM
I saw a friend in town shopping with his kids recently. His kids were screaming and crying, and due to sleep deprivation/losing the will to live didn't realise that he had dried baby sick on his top until I pointed it out to him.

Children are definitely part of the axis of evil.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MP on November 22, 2009, 12:51:31 PM
Yeah, if you have a kid in your 20s, your party life is pretty much over. Get the partying out of your system in your 20s and bang as many broads as you can.

I didn't have my first kid until I was 35. I have two kids and it really is one of the best things ever. Sure, it's work, but anything worth having usually is. The kids really give you a new perspective on every thing you do.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Wiggs on November 22, 2009, 12:55:19 PM
punk ass little bastards...They are def some cockblockers >:(


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 22, 2009, 12:56:52 PM
I saw a friend in town shopping with his kids recently. His kids were screaming and crying, and due to sleep deprivation/losing the will to live didn't realise that he had dried baby sick on his top until I pointed it out to him.

Children are definitely part of the axis of evil.

x2 everytime I am around kids I want to smash there heads in, so fucking annoying yelling and screaming out of control, fuck they are the worst.  I can't image ever having to endure that, life is too short to put yourself though that torture.  

both my parents died in a fire when I was 4 years old.

I was sleeping over at a friends house.

wtf seriously?  You must be pretty independent then I assume?  How has that affected you?





Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ironneck on November 22, 2009, 12:56:55 PM
i want 4 kids


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: johnnynoname on November 22, 2009, 12:59:27 PM
kids are awesome....when they're not yours

every time i see my 9 year old nephew (I can't wait to see the editing on this quote, btw) i put him into figure four leg locks and give him ric flair- type chops...and the little fucker sells them like a wrestler too


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: funk51 on November 22, 2009, 01:00:46 PM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss
            don't have kids, they fuck up your shit, eat your food than plug up the toilets, as they get older they take over your weightroom and spit on you when you sleep. kids bad idea just like marriage buy a dog at least there loyal as long as you feed them.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 22, 2009, 01:05:53 PM
A few month ago I would have agreed with you - but even with my baby not born I have changed my perception a lot - I possibly never will be a "look I'm a dad and I am so proud" type of father.
But... something happens when you know you have fathered a child, I kind of look at babies in a different way - its possibly some ancient racial memory that makes sure you take care of you child but I cannot wait to have a go at the little guy/girl and teach him some of he hard lessons I had to learn myself.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: BayGBM on November 22, 2009, 01:08:16 PM
Every time I think about having kids, I think about how much it costs and I get scared.  I don’t know how my parents did it?  Between the two of us, we make $400-500K and I swear I feel like it’s not enough.  Housing and costs of living are always going up…  saving for college, private schooling, activities, cars, clothes, toys.  Ahhh!  I’m scared!  No kids for me (yet).   :-\

For now,  I'll just spoil my nieces and nephews.  They give me all the fun of being a parent without any of the responsibilities.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 22, 2009, 01:10:40 PM
Every time I think about having kids, I think about how much it costs and I get scared.  I don’t know how my parents did it?  Between the two of us, we make $400-500K and I swear I feel like it’s not enough.  Housing and costs of living are always going up…  saving for college, private schooling, activities, cars, clothes, toys.  Ahhh!  I’m scared!  No kids for me (yet).   :-\

For now,  I'll just spoil my nieces and nephews.  They give me all the fun of being a parent without any of the responsibilities.

When you have children all that becomes important is that they have it good. 500k not enough get over it lol - there are parents that make it with way way waaay less, children don't need diapers made out of gold or every present under the sun.
I believe it is enough if you can give them unquestionable love and support.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 22, 2009, 01:14:01 PM
Its a lie for some, truth for others. The ones who say their life is over are the ones who haven't grown up and are not ready for the responsibility and are so self-centered that they would rather put themselves first. Nothing like having kids, I would change my life for anything, I have missed out on anything!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: BayGBM on November 22, 2009, 01:29:30 PM
When you have children all that becomes important is that they have it good. 500k not enough get over it lol - there are parents that make it with way way waaay less, children don't need diapers made out of gold or every present under the sun.
I believe it is enough if you can give them unquestionable love and support.

I know it sounds irrational—especially given what we were raised on as kids, but having children is as much an emotional decision as a rational one.  Unlike many people, I would not become an accidental parent—it would be a deliberate, careful, conscious, and an expesive choice.  So, how much would be enough?  I’ve been asked that before.  I know many couples—even singles--who do it with a whole lot less.  But if I were to do it with confidence, we would both need to make something like $400k.  And maybe have one of those crazy Wall Street bonuses in the bank.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ironneck on November 22, 2009, 01:30:18 PM
you're a homo man


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: bigdumbbell on November 22, 2009, 01:33:04 PM
I've never thought that but then lucky to have been resourceful sufficiently to afford a nanny when they were infants.  the deal today is as long as they stay in school and off drugs/alcohol i'll take care of things....


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 22, 2009, 01:39:55 PM
maybe there comes a time i think different about it but now i only think i havent partied enough to settle down yet.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 22, 2009, 01:47:07 PM
I know it sounds irrational—especially given what we were raised on as kids, but having children is as much an emotional decision as a rational one.  Unlike many people, I would not become an accidental parent—it would be a deliberate, careful, conscious, and an expesive choice.  So, how much would be enough?  I’ve been asked that before.  I know many couples—even singles--who do it with a whole lot less.  But if I were to do it with confidence, we would both need to make something like $400k.  And maybe have one of those crazy Wall Street bonuses in the bank.

x2 kids are a huge burden.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MP on November 22, 2009, 04:52:01 PM
Unlike many people, I would not become an accidental parent...
Isn't that pretty much a lock for you?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: JimmyJam1974 on November 22, 2009, 04:56:23 PM
Life chnges for sure and it is good. My son turns 5 moths old Tuesday.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 05:09:57 PM
Its a lie for some, truth for others. The ones who say their life is over are the ones who haven't grown up and are not ready for the responsibility and are so self-centered that they would rather put themselves first. Nothing like having kids, I would change my life for anything, I have missed out on anything!

X2

Instead of watching a fucking Football game I'll forget about 2 seconds after it's over, I took my daughter on a bike ride.

We went up to the Starbucks on the corner, i got a coffee, she got a hot chocolate, and then we rode to the park. Spent the day riding around the lakes, I showed her how to skip stones on the water...and then we went home.

 Yeah....I really regret not zoning out in front of the TV all afternoon  ::) ::)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 22, 2009, 05:16:52 PM
i want 4 kids

That's pretty ambitious.  It's much easier to go one at a time or the first ones just keep escaping.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 05:20:15 PM
That's pretty ambitious.  It's much easier to go one at a time or the first ones just keep escaping.

I think 2 is the max. after that you can't play man- to-man defense...you have to switch to the zone, and that causes problems.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 22, 2009, 05:24:28 PM
I think 2 is the max. after that you can't play man- to-man defense...you have to switch to the zone, and that causes problems.

He doesn't even have a van.  Guy's a total noob.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 05:24:40 PM
I find this thread interesting...

in the early 90's, "over population" seemed to be a concern;

then came "econimics" based control... "kids are a burden"... not when you live on 150 acre ranch.

The richer can afford to "procreate" the middle class can't; the poor allways will as they are too stupid to birth control anyway; but it's all good; it provides cheap labor / spare parts to the 1%ers....

Illuminatis in action brothers...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Earl1972 on November 22, 2009, 05:33:33 PM
if you're going to be a good parent, i'd say your life is over as you currently know it

good parents put their child ahead of themselves

i don't think many guys want kids or just don't understand what being a father is

it's been ingrained in their head since they were a young child that "you're going to be a father some day" so they mindlessly go along with that



E


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: BayGBM on November 22, 2009, 05:36:09 PM
if you're going to be a good parent, i'd say your life is over as you currently know it

good parents put their child ahead of themselves


i don't think many guys want kids or just don't understand what being a father is

it's been ingrained in their head since they were a young child that "you're going to be a father some day" so they mindlessly go along with that

E

QFT


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 05:38:36 PM
if you're going to be a good parent, i'd say your life is over as you currently know it

good parents put their child ahead of themselves
E

This explains why gays and bodybuilders rarely have kids.. well the later is biology 101 with shitsmell but you get my point...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: daddy8ball on November 22, 2009, 05:44:41 PM
Nah...it's like being a kid all over again, only this time you have money!

I love my two sons. Hell, buying my oldest son an xbox 360 with Halo 3 (when it came out) and seeing the look on his face was priceless.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: che on November 22, 2009, 05:48:07 PM
if you're going to be a good parent, i'd say your life is over as you currently know it

good parents put their child ahead of themselves

i don't think many guys want kids or just don't understand what being a father is

it's been ingrained in their head since they were a young child that "you're going to be a father some day" so they mindlessly go along with that



E

I disagree ,I started enjoying other things in life , I enjoy when my kid play sports ,I enjoy going  to the park and play with him , seeing my kid laughing  and having a good time ,feels better than any other shit I ever did in my life.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 05:48:59 PM
Nah...it's like being a kid all over again, only this time you have money!

I love my two sons. Hell, buying my oldest son an xbox 360 with Halo 3 (when it came out) and seeing the look on his face was priceless.

That's the fuckign spirit bro.. that's how our dad acted with us...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 05:49:01 PM
I know it sounds irrational—especially given what we were raised on as kids, but having children is as much an emotional decision as a rational one.  Unlike many people, I would not become an accidental parent—it would be a deliberate, careful, conscious, and an expesive choice.  So, how much would be enough?  I’ve been asked that before.  I know many couples—even singles--who do it with a whole lot less.  But if I were to do it with confidence, we would both need to make something like $400k.  And maybe have one of those crazy Wall Street bonuses in the bank.

Having a shitload of money is no guarantee that you will be a good parent, or that your kids will lead a fulfilling life. i know PLENTY of guys that were born with a platinum spoon in their mouths that are miserable fuckup junkies.

And to quote the tired cliche...you're never "ready" to have a kid.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: che on November 22, 2009, 05:50:49 PM
Having a shitload of money is no guarantee that you will be a good parent

QFT


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 05:51:06 PM
I disagree ,I started enjoying other things in life , I enjoy when my kid play sports ,I enjoy going  to the park and play with him , seeing my kid laughing  and having a good time ,feels better than any other shit I ever did in my life.

BONG.

Yes......"Your life as you know it is over.." it gets better


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: mass 04 on November 22, 2009, 05:51:43 PM
Lucky for me, i'm not sexually attractive.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: che on November 22, 2009, 05:52:21 PM
Lucky for me, i'm not sexually attractive.

I disagree .


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: daddy8ball on November 22, 2009, 05:52:25 PM
That's the fuckign spirit bro.. that's how our dad acted with us...

Hell yeah! And, seeing the look in his eyes when he saw the ocean for the first time...money can't buy that.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brent2741 on November 22, 2009, 05:53:15 PM
in all honesty your life just begins. You realize (for the most part) how trivial all the day to day stuff was before you had kids.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 22, 2009, 05:53:45 PM
Lucky for me, i'm not sexually attractive.

I ab stain sometimes.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 05:53:57 PM
A few month ago I would have agreed with you - but even with my baby not born I have changed my perception a lot - I possibly never will be a "look I'm a dad and I am so proud" type of father.
But... something happens when you know you have fathered a child, I kind of look at babies in a different way - its possibly some ancient racial memory that makes sure you take care of you child but I cannot wait to have a go at the little guy/girl and teach him some of he hard lessons I had to learn myself.

stfu cocksocket, first no one cares and second you should've never procreated in the first place... shit I wish we could get a pic the thing that let you cum inside of her.. she must be quite a catch  ::)  ::)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Grape Ape on November 22, 2009, 05:57:04 PM
X2

Instead of watching a fucking Football game I'll forget about 2 seconds after it's over, I took my daughter on a bike ride.

We went up to the Starbucks on the corner, i got a coffee, she got a hot chocolate, and then we rode to the park. Spent the day riding around the lakes, I showed her how to skip stones on the water...and then we went home.

 Yeah....I really regret not zoning out in front of the TV all afternoon  ::) ::)

x3.  It gets even better when they WANT to watch the game with you.

Plus, if your wife is cool and you still enjoy banging her, you're not missing a fucking thing.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: kiwiol on November 22, 2009, 06:15:36 PM
stfu cocksocket, first no one cares and second you should've never procreated in the first place... shit I wish we could get a pic the thing that let you cum inside of her.. she must be quite a catch  ::)  ::)

LOL @ cocksocket


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: pedro01 on November 22, 2009, 06:32:45 PM
I've got a 7 year old & a 3 week old.

Granted - the 3 week old is putting some restrictions on regular activities.

I think a lot depends on your wife - my wife is Asian so she is very understanding. Right now, as the baby is quite noisy & I have a company to run (like all Getbiggers), she sleeping with the baby in another bedroom. Of course, she does come in and give me a goodnight BJ before I sleep - unless of course, I'm out with the boys having a few beers until late, in which case, I get one whilst I'm out.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Earl1972 on November 22, 2009, 06:49:03 PM
I disagree ,I started enjoying other things in life , I enjoy when my kid play sports ,I enjoy going  to the park and play with him , seeing my kid laughing  and having a good time ,feels better than any other shit I ever did in my life.

what do you disagree with?

E


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 06:51:04 PM
I've got a 7 year old & a 3 week old.

Granted - the 3 week old is putting some restrictions on regular activities.

I think a lot depends on your wife - my wife is Asian so she is very understanding. Right now, as the baby is quite noisy & I have a company to run (like all Getbiggers), she sleeping with the baby in another bedroom. Of course, she does come in and give me a goodnight BJ before I sleep - unless of course, I'm out with the boys having a few beers until late, in which case, I get one whilst I'm out.


So.....one of the boys takes care of you?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: leadhead on November 22, 2009, 06:55:34 PM
in all honesty your life just begins. You realize (for the most part) how trivial all the day to day stuff was before you had kids.

QFT

I thought when my wife told me she was pregnant that my life as I know it was over, but it hasn't changed for the worst like I thought. It only gets better everyday, honestly.

We 'planned' to have a child in our early 30s but it happen earlier. I was 26 when my daughter was born and I thought I was way too young to be a father and quite scared before my daughter's birth.

When I come home now she greets me at the door, hugs me, and tells me she loves me and it makes me forget all the BS at the office and reminds me of what really matters in life- my family.  


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: pedro01 on November 22, 2009, 06:58:58 PM

So.....one of the boys takes care of you?

LOL !

Sometimes, things don't read the way you intended them when you wrote them...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 07:02:29 PM
LOL !

Sometimes, things don't read the way you intended them when you wrote them...

 ;D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 22, 2009, 07:16:11 PM
How does the sex life change?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: che on November 22, 2009, 07:24:33 PM
How does the sex life change?
When my wife was pregnant , doctor put her in bed rest ,I couldn't bang her for 2 months , when my son was born (after seeing all the blood, shit and eveything else ) I didn't fuck  her for about 4 months .
Now we fuck at least 4 -5 times a week.



my wife.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 07:25:18 PM
When my wife was pregnant , doctor put her in bed rest ,I couldn't bang her for 2 months , when my son was born (after seeing all the blood, shit and eveything else ) I didn't fuck  her for about 4 months .
Now we fuck at least 4 -5 times a week.
my wife.

....On my bike  >:(






;D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The_Leafy_Bug on November 22, 2009, 07:25:26 PM
This statement has 2 views. Some people might think life begins when you have churrens. I personally feel (from my selfish perspective) that life ends when you have children because then you must devote yourself to raising them. Every person i work with who has children is overweight, haggard, and lifeless. It is a sad sight to see people so young already married and baring the weight and responsibilities of adulthood. I am still a child at heart in many ways and probably won't reproduce. If i ever did choose to do such a thing id wait until i was much older (40's) and make sure i was financially stable and willing to dedicate all my time and energy to them.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 07:30:01 PM
This statement has 2 views. Some people might think life begins when you have churrens. I personally feel (from my selfish perspective) that life ends when you have children because then you must devote yourself to raising them. Every person i work with who has children is overweight, haggard, and lifeless. It is a sad sight to see people so young already married and baring the weight and responsibilities of adulthood. I am still a child at heart in many ways and probably won't reproduce. If i ever did choose to do such a thing id wait until i was much older (40's) and make sure i was financially stable and willing to dedicate all my time and energy to them.

Leafy, I think the VAST majority of those people just use their kids as an excuse for their laziness.  I dealt with them all the time who acted like they couldn't find 30 minutes or an hour a day to improve their health or quality of life.  Oh, you can't swap off babysitting for workout time with a neighbor.....but you can go out to eat, and it takes over an hour to do.....ok, yeah....


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 22, 2009, 07:39:26 PM
Leafy, I think the VAST majority of those people just use their kids as an excuse for their laziness.  I dealt with them all the time who acted like they couldn't find 30 minutes or an hour a day to improve their health or quality of life.  Oh, you can't swap off babysitting for workout time with a neighbor.....but you can go out to eat, and it takes over an hour to do.....ok, yeah....

Hitting the nail on the head as usually show... excuses are fun to use...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: johnnynoname on November 22, 2009, 07:41:24 PM
very nice, che

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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 07:42:19 PM
Hitting the nail on the head as usually show... excuses are fun to use...

Everybody has some stupid excuse.......never enough time, yet they spend countless hours watching TV, etc.....  Then you have the flipside, like one of my friends who worked 10hr days, w/1hr commute both ways......still NEVER missed training and had a very strict diet.....


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The_Leafy_Bug on November 22, 2009, 07:43:07 PM
Leafy, I think the VAST majority of those people just use their kids as an excuse for their laziness.  I dealt with them all the time who acted like they couldn't find 30 minutes or an hour a day to improve their health or quality of life.  Oh, you can't swap off babysitting for workout time with a neighbor.....but you can go out to eat, and it takes over an hour to do.....ok, yeah....
No, we are talking about seeing 2 parents being forced to work a night shift and take their kids all over town to school while they are sleep deprived when they time could be better invested elsewhere. I am speaking of the poor who have to work very hard to maintain a making ends meet life status. I myself have trouble squeezing in my workouts but i get them done.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 07:45:28 PM
No, we are talking about seeing 2 parents being forced to work a night shift and take their kids all over town to school while they are sleep deprived when they time could be better invested elsewhere. I am speaking of the poor who have to work very hard to maintain a making ends meet life status. I myself have trouble squeezing in my workouts but i get them done.

Honestly man, it doesn't make any difference.....poor or not.....manual labor or white collar.....kids or not.....if someone makes it a priority, there is always a way.  Don't let them sob story you to death.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The_Leafy_Bug on November 22, 2009, 07:49:42 PM
Honestly man, it doesn't make any difference.....poor or not.....manual labor or white collar.....kids or not.....if someone makes it a priority, there is always a way.  Don't let them sob story you to death.
I agree that if there is enough love for something time will be made for it. I currently work at a very crappy place but im about to get a new job (hopefully) here in the next week. I don't think i work with stupid people but people who have made very stupid life decisions like having unprotected sex, etc. Irresponsibility has led most of them to their current situations. I know guys who are only 27 and have to make multiple child support payments leaving them with nothing and having to pick up more hours.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 22, 2009, 07:52:36 PM
I agree that if there is enough love for something time will be made for it. I currently work at a very crappy place but im about to get a new job (hopefully) here in the next week. I don't think i work with stupid people but people who have made very stupid life decisions like having unprotected sex, etc. Irresponsibility has led most of them to their current situations. I know guys who are only 27 and have to make multiple child support payments leaving them with nothing and having to pick up more hours.

Yeah, hope you get outta that situation....and those people seldom just make a single mistake.....its a continuous thing.....one after the other for their whole life.  And then they complain about it!  I can understand somebody making one and then working to get their life on track, but they seldom do.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: uberman09 on November 22, 2009, 07:57:10 PM
if only this thread could convince most of you not to reproduce ....


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 09:32:09 PM
This statement has 2 views. Some people might think life begins when you have churrens. I personally feel (from my selfish perspective) that life ends when you have children because then you must devote yourself to raising them. Every person i work with who has children is overweight, haggard, and lifeless. It is a sad sight to see people so young already married and baring the weight and responsibilities of adulthood. I am still a child at heart in many ways and probably won't reproduce. If i ever did choose to do such a thing id wait until i was much older (40's) and make sure i was financially stable and willing to dedicate all my time and energy to them.

Catch 22 right there son.

When you have kids when you are young, you may not have the money you will later in life, but you have a shitload more energy to deal with caring for an infant...it is draining for the first couple of years

Plus you have more quality years with your child when you have them young. how fair is it to a kid that when he's a teenager his father is fucking pushing 60?

I had my kid at 33 and i wish i had her younger than that. as far as money goes...you do what the fuck you have to, just because you are a parent doesn't mean you won't progress in your career and make more money. it's not the end of your life.

Yeah it would be nice to have millions in the bank and never have to worry about a thing, but Getbiggers aside  ::)  that's not reality for 95% of all people


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: honest on November 22, 2009, 09:43:59 PM
when you have Kids your life changes, it isnt over, they basically become the priority and focus, i have two, no doubt me and my wifes relationship isnt what it once was, but weve adapted, I dont get to bodybuild anymore, i still train daily but i made that choice before having them, i knew i could go start a family and pursue finacial security, or i could keep bodybuilding as my proiority, to me it was a no brainer, the sports a hobby that some fools let rule their life, put the same level of dedication and time into buisness and you will get finacial security, something you wont get from bodybuilding unless your in the top few guys.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The_Leafy_Bug on November 22, 2009, 09:49:04 PM
Catch 22 right there son.

When you have kids when you are young, you may not have the money you will later in life, but you have a shitload more energy to deal with caring for an infant...it is draining for the first couple of years

Plus you have more quality years with your child when you have them young. how fair is it to a kid that when he's a teenager his father is fucking pushing 60?

I had my kid at 33 and i wish i had her younger than that. as far as money goes...you do what the fuck you have to, just because you are a parent doesn't mean you won't progress in your career and make more money. it's not the end of your life.

Yeah it would be nice to have millions in the bank and never have to worry about a thing, but Getbiggers aside  ::)  that's not reality for 95% of all people
My dad had me when he was 40 and kept up just fine. Our quirks and insecurities/ problems as adults can usually be attributed to our parents. I feel i was raised as best i could be. The only thing i lack in is life experiences which i am actively trying to create for myself now. What many people don't understand is if a child misses a stage of mental development or a parent doesn't allow for it to be developed correctly then the child will be screwed up for life. I feel as a younger parent you do not have the knowledge nor experience to raise a child correctly. Many young parents still drink/ smoke pots, etc and raise their children incorrectly. There are always exceptions to the rule though.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: TrapsMcLats on November 22, 2009, 10:56:06 PM
I can't stand kids, never have and never will.  My girl and I both don't want kids, and we love the idea of having two incomes and no children.  we aren't partyers, but we love our time.  we both agree that having dogs is a huge responsibility, and those are nothing compared to kids. 

once you have children, whether or not you enjoy it, you are no longer living for yourself, you are living to provide for your children.  that means that your life is over.  I see people with children, and they all look dead tired all the time, regardless of income level. 

we are happily selfish, and we don't plan on changing that.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 11:16:39 PM
My dad had me when he was 40 and kept up just fine. Our quirks and insecurities/ problems as adults can usually be attributed to our parents. I feel i was raised as best i could be. The only thing i lack in is life experiences which i am actively trying to create for myself now. What many people don't understand is if a child misses a stage of mental development or a parent doesn't allow for it to be developed correctly then the child will be screwed up for life. I feel as a younger parent you do not have the knowledge nor experience to raise a child correctly. Many young parents still drink/ smoke pots, etc and raise their children incorrectly. There are always exceptions to the rule though.

Fair enough L.B.

refreshing to have a differing opinion with someone here and we're not calling each other a cock-biter


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 22, 2009, 11:22:18 PM
One thing is for sure is that if i ever do have kids......the bastard will have a golf club in his hand from day one. Kids gotta earn his keep.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lovemonkey on November 22, 2009, 11:26:53 PM
One thing is for sure is that if i ever do have kids......the bastard will have a golf club in his hand from day one. Kids gotta earn his keep.

Also make sure that he's half black, you can't dominate the sport of golf without being at least mulatto ;D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 22, 2009, 11:29:49 PM
One thing is for sure is that if i ever do have kids......the bastard will have a golf club in his hand from day one. Kids gotta earn his keep.

Webcke....are you a man with muscles yet?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 22, 2009, 11:30:12 PM
I'd rather my kid be an Aryan bum rather than a half cast.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: gordiano on November 22, 2009, 11:30:54 PM
Very nice.....

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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 22, 2009, 11:32:03 PM
This quoting problem is really fucking me around here. Anyway.....

Dear Groink,

I would say that right now i am a young man with a little bit of muscle. Not yet a fully fledged man with muscles......but give it time.

Sincerely,
webcke



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: nzmusclemonster on November 22, 2009, 11:40:18 PM
I'm not having kids until I'm 35.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 22, 2009, 11:55:28 PM
This quoting problem is really fucking me around here. Anyway.....


Huh.  That's weird.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 22, 2009, 11:57:17 PM
I along with the rest of humanity celebrate the fact that I never reproduced.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: nzmusclemonster on November 23, 2009, 12:03:44 AM
I along with the rest of humanity celebrate the fact that I never reproduced.

Maybe you and twila should have a baby?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 23, 2009, 12:04:32 AM
Yes, young tapey.......it is weird.  :-\


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 23, 2009, 12:07:08 AM
Yes, young tapey.......it is weird.  :-\

Who me? 

It's probably that oversized monitor of yours.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 23, 2009, 12:07:54 AM
Maybe you and twila should have a baby?

i dont even live in the same city anymore


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: nzmusclemonster on November 23, 2009, 12:09:09 AM
She had a meltdown?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 23, 2009, 12:09:49 AM
She had a meltdown?

I left--I took the poker show on the road--either gonna go pro or fail---no in between


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 23, 2009, 12:13:33 AM
Most women in their 30s should cut the bs and just wear an INSEMINATE ME NOW! shirt.  Or not be an offputting nutjob that sends a man running for the hills.  Either way.

Are you fully on the road Av or you got a base of operations?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 23, 2009, 12:18:28 AM
Most women in their 30s should cut the bs and just wear an INSEMINATE ME NOW! shirt.  Or not be an offputting nutjob that sends a man running for the hills.  Either way.

Are you fully on the road Av or you got a base of operations?

I have a base. I'm actually just going to play online in the same city where my staker lives. We will be going to occasional live tournaments. Most of the play is 3 of us in a room on multiple monitors


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: nzmusclemonster on November 23, 2009, 12:26:12 AM
I left--I took the poker show on the road--either gonna go pro or fail---no in between

Living the dream!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 23, 2009, 12:27:37 AM
Living the dream!

ya I can actually say I am
Fucking cut my  throat if I was stuck with kids and a mortgage and that 9-5 bullshit. I have no fucking clue how anyone can do that


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 23, 2009, 12:38:16 AM
I'm not having kids until I'm 35.
just had my first kid and i'm 38...

glad I waited and had fun and travelled first though...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 12:58:46 AM
i probably dont want to grow up


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: disturbia on November 23, 2009, 01:00:25 AM
just had my first kid and i'm 38...

glad I waited and had fun and travelled first though...

did it the right way   gjgj


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 03:28:43 AM
when you have Kids your life changes, it isnt over, they basically become the priority and focus, i have two, no doubt me and my wifes relationship isnt what it once was, but weve adapted, I dont get to bodybuild anymore, i still train daily but i made that choice before having them, i knew i could go start a family and pursue finacial security, or i could keep bodybuilding as my proiority, to me it was a no brainer, the sports a hobby that some fools let rule their life, put the same level of dedication and time into buisness and you will get finacial security, something you wont get from bodybuilding unless your in the top few guys.

I have a lot of respect for you - smart man


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 03:32:17 AM
stfu cocksocket, first no one cares and second you should've never procreated in the first place... shit I wish we could get a pic the thing that let you cum inside of her.. she must be quite a catch  ::)  ::)

Hi Alex,

If I be you I be extremly angry as well - shooting blanks is not a nice thing and it must hurt like fuck to know
that the only option you have is to either adopt (as you have said so before here at getbig you and your wife are getting ready to adopt) or to have no kids at all - sucks to be you my man.
Furthermore it must suck like hell to know that all the money you make will not help you to father a child :)

All the shit roids you have taken must really haunt you now ::)

Have a good one sport.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 03:34:16 AM
stfu cocksocket, first no one cares and second you should've never procreated in the first place... shit I wish we could get a pic the thing that let you cum inside of her.. she must be quite a catch  ::)  ::)
oh and I think if you are banned alex we should also ban your gimmicks ;) reported  :-*


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lax on November 23, 2009, 05:13:45 AM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss

I have none
however
all my friends with kids echo your statement


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lax on November 23, 2009, 05:16:47 AM
both my parents died in a fire when I was 4 years old.

I was sleeping over at a friends house.

shit...is that true? Unreal.

a recent survey revealed 80% of women would not have kids again if able to do it again


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lax on November 23, 2009, 05:18:53 AM
Leafy, I think the VAST majority of those people just use their kids as an excuse for their laziness.  I dealt with them all the time who acted like they couldn't find 30 minutes or an hour a day to improve their health or quality of life.  Oh, you can't swap off babysitting for workout time with a neighbor.....but you can go out to eat, and it takes over an hour to do.....ok, yeah....

correct

there are plenty of people with kids (young ones, too) who are in great shape and have relatively balanced lives....but, relatively speaking, not too many


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on November 23, 2009, 05:25:43 AM
I think I've fucked up enough 'ruining my life-wise' already this year by getting married


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 05:48:05 AM
I think I've fucked up enough 'ruining my life-wise' already this year by getting married

Its real sad to hear that, I got married two years ago and It was the best decission I have made so far in my life - both my wife and myself have a great time and we continue to do so.
Its sad when I hear people say they have made the wrong decission when they got married.
Did she or you change when you got married?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 05:49:01 AM
Did a black person start the fire because that would explain a lot.

report - stupid and I mean incredible stupid post - hope you be put in timeout.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 23, 2009, 07:18:39 AM
Majeeb said out loud something that more than a few were probably thinking. No one asked Swede! about his parents and he put it out there. If they're dead, I offer my condolences. Still, this wasn't a Batman thread, so his post was superfluous at best.

Swede! says loads of racist shit. Majeeb asked a question that was possibly relevant. Don't hate!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ironneck on November 23, 2009, 07:20:27 AM
my sons will be named atakan and attilah


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: CalvinH on November 23, 2009, 07:35:07 AM
I like to go visit my friend who have kids.I load the kids up with sugar then leave :)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 07:35:13 AM
we all have our demons - both of my biological parents are dead too - they were extreme heroin addicts and pretty much left me in the apartment to starve to death which did not happens since a small kid of 3 is not dying neccesarily by not having food for 5 or more days, there is tons of worries I have since I am now hopefully becoming a father - worries - and doubts if I be able to do the job since I dont want to make the same mistake my parents have made.

I have great parents since the age of 6 who adopted me and gave me all the love and understanding they could - how much I only see now since I was and still am at times seriously complicated and hard to deal with (go figure) I mean think of this when I was 4 years old I had to sleep on the floor because I never sleept in a bed and thought it was strange.
Try to bring a child like that up and I have every little bit of respect for people like that -my parents as in my adopted parents saved my life and I am forever greatful for that.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Tapeworm on November 23, 2009, 07:37:45 AM
Majeeb said out loud something that more than a few were probably thinking. No one asked Swede! about his parents and he put it out there. If they're dead, I offer my condolences. Still, this wasn't a Batman thread, so his post was superfluous at best.

Swede! says loads of racist shit. Majeeb asked a question that was possibly relevant. Don't hate!

Swede has said before that he lives with his old man and they don't get along well.  He's just fucking around I think.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on November 23, 2009, 08:35:00 AM
Its real sad to hear that, I got married two years ago and It was the best decission I have made so far in my life - both my wife and myself have a great time and we continue to do so.
Its sad when I hear people say they have made the wrong decission when they got married.
Did she or you change when you got married?
No she is great,totally but I came out of a 6yr relationship 3yrs ago and within 2 weeks I was dating my wife-to-be
So 2weeks of being single since im 18yrs old and cos now im married and plan on being faithful,my days of random sex are over


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 08:42:18 AM
No she is great,totally but I came out of a 6yr relationship 3yrs ago and within 2 weeks I was dating my wife-to-be
So 2weeks of being single since im 18yrs old and cos now im married and plan on being faithful,my days of random sex are over

Yeah was the same for me - I had a slightly longer time single but I did not enjoy it too much - I'm just a person that likes to be with somebody - don't get me wrong the occasional one night stand was fun and after being with somebody on off for a long time it was great to be by yourself but I knew that as soon as I saw my now wife that I wanted to be with her.
I mean consider yourself lucky there are thousand of people out there that desperatly trying to find somebody they can share their life with - remember that guy who went into the gym and shot a couple of people - he stated as well that he was so fucking sick of being alone.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 08:43:10 AM
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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on November 23, 2009, 09:05:34 AM
Yeah was the same for me - I had a slightly longer time single but I did not enjoy it too much - I'm just a person that likes to be with somebody - don't get me wrong the occasional one night stand was fun and after being with somebody on off for a long time it was great to be by yourself but I knew that as soon as I saw my now wife that I wanted to be with her.
I mean consider yourself lucky there are thousand of people out there that desperatly trying to find somebody they can share their life with - remember that guy who went into the gym and shot a couple of people - he stated as well that he was so fucking sick of being alone.
Good points there


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 23, 2009, 09:14:23 AM
Part of becoming an adult is learning how to live for other people i.e. a wife, your kids, your family.  Self absorbed, narcissistic, bodybuilding teenagers have no clue what that means hence they are not adults yet.  You can be 21 or you can 40.  Age doesn't make you an adult.  It's a mindset, a state of mind, and a stage of life that never goes away.  Once you get married and start a family you should be an adult for the rest of your life, handle your shit and take great care of those you are responsible for.  Getbig is full of grown up adolescents.  A real man who works hard and takes care of his family and wife doesn't have time to eat 6 times a day, workout for hours on end and spend worthless amounts of time stepping up on stage competing in bikinis for plastic trophies and a Hummer. 

The rewards of entering adulthood and having kids and watching those kids grow up to be responsible and capable adults is worth more than anything, especially achieving something as trivial as a 500lb bench or 20 inch arms. 


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 09:29:51 AM
i think i will never grow up


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: zwide on November 23, 2009, 09:37:09 AM
Part of becoming an adult is learning how to live for other people i.e. a wife, your kids, your family.  Self absorbed, narcissistic, bodybuilding teenagers have no clue what that means hence they are not adults yet.  You can be 21 or you can 40.  Age doesn't make you an adult.  It's a mindset, a state of mind, and a stage of life that never goes away.  Once you get married and start a family you should be an adult for the rest of your life, handle your shit and take great care of those you are responsible for.  Getbig is full of grown up adolescents.  A real man who works hard and takes care of his family and wife doesn't have time to eat 6 times a day, workout for hours on end and spend worthless amounts of time stepping up on stage competing in bikinis for plastic trophies and a Hummer. 

The rewards of entering adulthood and having kids and watching those kids grow up to be responsible and capable adults is worth more than anything, especially achieving something as trivial as a 500lb bench or 20 inch arms. 

XXX 2

Truth of the matter is life changes and its does also change your focus in life - you are still able to mantain your healthy lifestyle sometimes including your kids - thx to Goodlife Canada that have a daycare in the gym .. lol

But with my son its nice to see the little brat grow up and ask nice and annoying questions - going running with him while he is biking -
 ;D :D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 09:40:31 AM
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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: mass 04 on November 23, 2009, 09:44:14 AM
I'd marry Mars.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Bodybuilding Related on November 23, 2009, 09:44:46 AM
Lie.

I asked about it to my mom when I was a kid.
She said she wanted to say thanx to me for giving new life and experience to her.
For example, she has never been to fishing until i went with her.
And she has been crazy for going to fish everyday becuase of me.
Only person who has prejudice dont see it.
Becoming adult with full of prejudice shits is a sad thing.
Stay young forever, my getbig friends.

LOL


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ironneck on November 23, 2009, 09:45:22 AM
Part of becoming an adult is learning how to live for other people i.e. a wife, your kids, your family.  Self absorbed, narcissistic, bodybuilding teenagers have no clue what that means hence they are not adults yet.  You can be 21 or you can 40.  Age doesn't make you an adult.  It's a mindset, a state of mind, and a stage of life that never goes away.  Once you get married and start a family you should be an adult for the rest of your life, handle your shit and take great care of those you are responsible for.  Getbig is full of grown up adolescents.  A real man who works hard and takes care of his family and wife doesn't have time to eat 6 times a day, workout for hours on end and spend worthless amounts of time stepping up on stage competing in bikinis for plastic trophies and a Hummer. 

The rewards of entering adulthood and having kids and watching those kids grow up to be responsible and capable adults is worth more than anything, especially achieving something as trivial as a 500lb bench or 20 inch arms. 

says the man with 12 inch arms


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 09:49:46 AM
(http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/MSNBC/Components/Photo/_new/090807-charles-manson-hmed-.hmedium.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 23, 2009, 09:52:49 AM
i think i will never grow up

And thats good so as well - I think so as well that there is part of me that will always be a boy :D and thats ok - actually I think that is very important.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: uberman09 on November 23, 2009, 09:56:18 AM
we re not meant to be alone anyway. Our brain develops itself biologically being in contact with others. In chimps and humans and any kind of animal life the brain physically stops growing if it isnt in contact of external social stimulis from other individuals wether they are parents, family or strangers. Now these stimulis can be either good or bad that's fore sure, but we re not going into this debate here.

Also our modern societies are destroying family and other fundamental values so you d better keep away from TV, medias as a whole, and get people you know to do the same. Our modern societies build  empty and deeply unhappy minds industrially daily. Dont get trapped in the illusions, addictions, the best way not to be fooled is to stay away from all the sources of suffering, even (especially) if they are extremely seductive.

The environment affects our mind, but our mind can also affect our environment.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 23, 2009, 09:58:39 AM
says the man with 12 inch arms

  Always one dumbass trying to be funny.  Thanks for proving my point.  


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MCWAY on November 23, 2009, 11:48:31 AM
Everybody has some stupid excuse.......never enough time, yet they spend countless hours watching TV, etc.....  Then you have the flipside, like one of my friends who worked 10hr days, w/1hr commute both ways......still NEVER missed training and had a very strict diet.....

Plus, most health clubs/gyms have child-care centers. My 5-year old daughter sometimes asks, if she can go to the gym with me. Now, she's become my little gym buddy.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: The Showstoppa on November 23, 2009, 11:50:57 AM
Plus, most health clubs/gyms have child-care centers. My 5-year old daughter sometimes asks, if she can go to the gym with me. Now, she's become my little gym buddy.

Very cool.  Now if only you can get her to give you a hard time when you want to skip a day.....haha


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MCWAY on November 23, 2009, 12:05:44 PM
Very cool.  Now if only you can get her to give you a hard time when you want to skip a day.....haha

Well, Wednesday is my day off. She only gives me a hard time, because that is date night with Mommy and she (my little girl) wants to go with us.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 23, 2009, 12:32:30 PM
I disagree ,I started enjoying other things in life , I enjoy when my kid play sports ,I enjoy going  to the park and play with him , seeing my kid laughing  and having a good time ,feels better than any other shit I ever did in my life.

you mean you start living vicariously through your children, not actually doing anything yourself ??? now that sounds like life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 23, 2009, 12:41:41 PM
Part of becoming an adult is learning how to live for other people i.e. a wife, your kids, your family.  Self absorbed, narcissistic, bodybuilding teenagers have no clue what that means hence they are not adults yet.  You can be 21 or you can 40.  Age doesn't make you an adult.  It's a mindset, a state of mind, and a stage of life that never goes away.  Once you get married and start a family you should be an adult for the rest of your life, handle your shit and take great care of those you are responsible for.  Getbig is full of grown up adolescents.  A real man who works hard and takes care of his family and wife doesn't have time to eat 6 times a day, workout for hours on end and spend worthless amounts of time stepping up on stage competing in bikinis for plastic trophies and a Hummer. 

The rewards of entering adulthood and having kids and watching those kids grow up to be responsible and capable adults is worth more than anything, especially achieving something as trivial as a 500lb bench or 20 inch arms. 

omg you can't be serious?  you mean everybody should have a burden and raise kids and stop living for themselves at a certain age?  Your description of an adult is part of societies description, probably not your own, cause society wants you to have a family marriage all that shit to help it sustain, people who don't have kids, are self absorbed narcissistic don't help society any.  I think your thinking it more of what society wants, not what individuals want.




Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MCWAY on November 23, 2009, 12:54:16 PM
Part of becoming an adult is learning how to live for other people i.e. a wife, your kids, your family.  Self absorbed, narcissistic, bodybuilding teenagers have no clue what that means hence they are not adults yet.  You can be 21 or you can 40.  Age doesn't make you an adult.  It's a mindset, a state of mind, and a stage of life that never goes away.  Once you get married and start a family you should be an adult for the rest of your life, handle your shit and take great care of those you are responsible for.  Getbig is full of grown up adolescents.  A real man who works hard and takes care of his family and wife doesn't have time to eat 6 times a day, workout for hours on end and spend worthless amounts of time stepping up on stage competing in bikinis for plastic trophies and a Hummer. 

The rewards of entering adulthood and having kids and watching those kids grow up to be responsible and capable adults is worth more than anything, especially achieving something as trivial as a 500lb bench or 20 inch arms. 

I wouldn't go that far. A real man does, in fact, work hard and take care of his family. Does that mean he can't become a successful bodydbuilder? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!

Men like Bill Pearl and Lee Haney are prime examples of that. Pearl was known for training as early as 3 a.m., in order to have the time for training WITHOUT sacrificing that precious time for his wife, kids, and business.

If anything, he curtailed certain extracirricular activities, to prioritize his goals.

Haney's reputation for being the ultimate champion bodybuilder and family man is well-known and respected.

Yes, a real man focuses on his family (although in Haney's case, he'd probably state that he puts the Lord first, his family second, and himself and bodybuilding last); but, if you can do that and get your swole on, I say "Go for it!!"

 ;D



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: bears on November 23, 2009, 12:59:23 PM
omg you can't be serious?  you mean everybody should have a burden and raise kids and stop living for themselves at a certain age?  Your description of an adult is part of societies description, probably not your own, cause society wants you to have a family marriage all that shit to help it sustain, people who don't have kids, are self absorbed narcissistic don't help society any.  I think your thinking it more of what society wants, not what individuals want.




you may not agree with his post but there is a lot of truth in it.  its not a truth that many people care to hear.  if you are going to have kids this IS the mentality you need to have.  it doesn't mean that you shouldn't take time to do the things that make YOU happy.  it just means that by choosing to have kids you are taking on a responsibility that is bigger than you.  You are not the number one priority. your child is now your number one priority.  A lot of parents in this day and age forget that.  if you don't agree with me then in my opinion you should not have kids.  and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that either.  i think that is where society has placed undue pressure on people.  There is this notion that everyone HAS to have kids.  i disagree.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: caseyviator on November 23, 2009, 01:01:07 PM
well im 44 and my dad is absolutly my best friend and is the absolute best person i actually know!!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 01:13:06 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UIvf1ascmk


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 23, 2009, 01:18:52 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GX0RwYlLVSk


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 23, 2009, 02:58:25 PM
you may not agree with his post but there is a lot of truth in it.  its not a truth that many people care to hear.  if you are going to have kids this IS the mentality you need to have.  it doesn't mean that you shouldn't take time to do the things that make YOU happy.  it just means that by choosing to have kids you are taking on a responsibility that is bigger than you.  You are not the number one priority. your child is now your number one priority.  A lot of parents in this day and age forget that.  if you don't agree with me then in my opinion you should not have kids.  and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that either.  i think that is where society has placed undue pressure on people.  There is this notion that everyone HAS to have kids.  i disagree.

No I totally agree with you, but what he was saying is that in order to be an adult you have to have a family, have kids etc etc to be considered an adult, which I think is totally false.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Earl1972 on November 23, 2009, 03:08:01 PM
No I totally agree with you, but what he was saying is that in order to be an adult you have to have a family, have kids etc etc to be considered an adult, which I think is totally false.



I agree and "bears" is right, too many people having kids only because everybody else is hence the bad parenting

E


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 23, 2009, 03:32:33 PM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss
mars has a bitch pregnant thats why he's asking


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 23, 2009, 08:23:18 PM
http://www.nokidding.net/ (http://www.nokidding.net/) - the site for the childfree!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Adam11 on November 23, 2009, 08:38:53 PM
mars has a bitch pregnant thats why he's asking

Agreed.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Brixtonbulldog on November 23, 2009, 08:51:25 PM
http://www.nokidding.net/ (http://www.nokidding.net/) - the site for the childfree!

hahaha... just checked out the baltimore chapter.  dear lord, what a bunch of mutants and losers.  hahahah, no thanks!!!!! ;D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Thin Lizzy on November 23, 2009, 09:09:41 PM
This thread reminds me of a Sam Kinison bit in which he talked about seeing guys pushing strollers and having a look on their faces that says, "Somebody please shoot me!!!!"


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 24, 2009, 12:31:46 AM
This thread reminds me of a Sam Kinison bit in which he talked about seeing guys pushing strollers and having a look on their faces that says, "Somebody please shoot me!!!!"

Yeah as if that stupid fat fuck was a real winner. 


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 24, 2009, 12:36:57 AM
No I totally agree with you, but what he was saying is that in order to be an adult you have to have a family, have kids etc etc to be considered an adult, which I think is totally false.



Bullshit.  I never said you have to have kids to be an adult.  I said growing into an adult usually means you end up living your life "for someone else".  I.e. a wife, kids, family, etc.  It's about responsibility.  Selflessness etc.  That doesn't mean you are some sort of slave that never does anything for yourself or doesn't live life to the fullest.  It just means life becomes less about "you" and "me" and more about others.  You have a lot of growing up to do yourself it sounds like kid.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 24, 2009, 12:59:00 AM
(http://bustyparade.com/mature/mature1/3tv587/m6o77w/3.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 24, 2009, 05:04:02 AM
(http://www.momhotspot.com/Elli151109/pict/pictelli_3_1024_004.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 24, 2009, 05:18:44 AM
(http://www.momhotspot.com/Elli151109/pict/pictelli_3_1024_038.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: io856 on November 24, 2009, 06:14:06 AM
(http://flashrob.com/mrgb2/dw08/FDB.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 24, 2009, 08:48:45 AM
This thread came up at a most appropriate time.....just found out this morning my wife is pregnant 8)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 24, 2009, 09:03:03 AM
Congratulations braah!!

Thanks 8)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 24, 2009, 09:12:52 AM
Make sure he eats enough protein from early days and let him watch macho movies so he can slay lots of pussy.

Edit: If its a girl and turns out to be attractive dont get pissy, she will get dick no matter what you do so just don't think about it.

Thanks.......I feel much better, you have a way with words :-\


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: IrishMuscle84 on November 24, 2009, 10:04:17 AM
i feel sorry for some friends of mine who have their first kid, they never go out anymore, only do boring stuff.
Yup. I have a buddy who had a kid at 18 and my other buddy had a kid 2 years ago. All they do is work then sit at home.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 24, 2009, 10:27:50 AM
Congrats, JME! It couldn't have happened to another better guy! :)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 24, 2009, 02:07:20 PM
Bullshit.  I never said you have to have kids to be an adult.  I said growing into an adult usually means you end up living your life "for someone else".  I.e. a wife, kids, family, etc.  It's about responsibility.  Selflessness etc.  That doesn't mean you are some sort of slave that never does anything for yourself or doesn't live life to the fullest.  It just means life becomes less about "you" and "me" and more about others.  You have a lot of growing up to do yourself it sounds like kid.

you act like being considered an Adult by you is this holy of holy's that everyone should want to achieve, only to die in the next 40 years.  What is the fuckin deal with becoming an adult to musclemcmannus's terms?  Who gives a fuck, we all die, after you die it won't matter if you lived your version of becoming an adult or not.



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Thin Lizzy on November 24, 2009, 02:33:30 PM
Yeah as if that stupid fat fuck was a real winner. 


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrllCZw8jiM


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: myt1 on November 24, 2009, 04:47:59 PM
Yup. I have a buddy who had a kid at 18 and my other buddy had a kid 2 years ago. All they do is work then sit at home.

So they sit at home with their significant other and enjoy the entertainment, affection, and pride that their kids provide?

Sucks ass when they could be out dealing with morons and whores at some shit hole bar huh?  RIP to their "lives" ::)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: myt1 on November 24, 2009, 04:49:35 PM
This thread came up at a most appropriate time.....just found out this morning my wife is pregnant 8)

Congratulations man!!!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 24, 2009, 05:11:51 PM
Thanks bro, I really appreciate it.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: drkaje on November 24, 2009, 05:14:10 PM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss

Lie.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: uberman09 on November 24, 2009, 05:16:49 PM
so much ignorance and sheer stupidity in this thread.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 24, 2009, 05:19:55 PM
Kids =  life over


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: kiwiol on November 24, 2009, 05:22:26 PM
Children are the orgasm of life


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 24, 2009, 05:32:43 PM
LOL I knew it was only a matter of time before it came up! Good on you!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 24, 2009, 05:41:42 PM
Congrats Coach....good for you.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Gino30 on November 25, 2009, 01:15:41 AM
i want 4 kids

great, another 4 ugly Turks in this world


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: WillGrant on November 25, 2009, 01:40:54 AM
Children are the orgasm of life
haha where is that fat fucka


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 25, 2009, 02:16:22 AM
How old are you, coach?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: kiwiol on November 25, 2009, 02:29:48 AM
haha where is that fat fucka

Beats me. Do you think he still lurks here?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 25, 2009, 02:53:05 AM
haha where is that fat fucka
Who was that guy he sent the microphone to? He may know


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Ex Coelis on November 25, 2009, 05:55:39 AM
I look forward to starting a family


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: big L dawg on November 25, 2009, 06:13:52 AM
could u imagine being a senior citezen and raising a new born.....or being a chaperon for your kids Jr highschool dance.....other kids would be askin your kid why they brought there grandpa & not there dad...

haha I remember we had field day in jr high were the dad and his kid was on teams....The one kid told his pops not to come because they had came in last 2 years in a row & if they did it again they would break the school record.....poor kid was like 11 years old and his pops was like 62 or some shit...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 25, 2009, 06:14:31 AM
(http://i49.tinypic.com/hvndjn.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 25, 2009, 12:48:28 PM
God, sweet baby Jesus...why?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 25, 2009, 12:57:01 PM
never seen a dick bruiser?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 25, 2009, 05:24:15 PM
why not just get a vasectomy and never tell your girlfriend, say you must be infertile lol.  kids are disgusting and take too much time.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 25, 2009, 05:24:33 PM
never seen a dick bruiser?
its over mars you have kids on the way


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Special Ed on November 25, 2009, 07:05:07 PM
(http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2009/03/lulu.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: brooklynbruiser on November 25, 2009, 08:06:48 PM
I hate those feel-good, empty saying motivationals. Sounds like something a girl'd spout after hearing on Oprah.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ChristopherA on November 25, 2009, 08:14:21 PM
why not just get a vasectomy and never tell your girlfriend, say you must be infertile lol.  kids are disgusting and take too much time.

Your clueless


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 26, 2009, 03:11:31 AM
Your clueless

jtsunami was molested as a kid.  Clinically speaking people with his attitude towards kids usually are.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 26, 2009, 06:57:40 AM
(http://www.sxc.hu/pic/l/f/fl/flaivoloka/1153853_68778473.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: big L dawg on November 26, 2009, 07:22:29 AM
damn....that looks good^^^^^


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 26, 2009, 07:52:39 AM
jtsunami was molested as a kid.  Clinically speaking people with his attitude towards kids usually are.

lol daddy muscles trying to hit all the low spots to piss me off, no sorry I wasn't, can't accept people don't want kids like you and hate the little fucks?



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 26, 2009, 08:20:59 AM
damn....that looks good^^^^^

you damn right it does.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ironneck on November 26, 2009, 08:28:09 AM
great, another 4 ugly Turks in this world

your daughter would love to get fucked by my future sons


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mr Nobody on November 26, 2009, 08:40:28 AM
your daughter would love to get fucked by my future sons
turks took the greeks right or did greeks take the turks ? I get confused


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: MuscleMcMannus on November 26, 2009, 08:53:09 PM
lol daddy muscles trying to hit all the low spots to piss me off, no sorry I wasn't, can't accept people don't want kids like you and hate the little fucks?



Hate kids?  Even if you don't like them how can you "hate the little fucks".  You're a fag with serious issues.  


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 27, 2009, 02:48:34 AM
my daughter is 7 weeks old and i'm very glad we had her...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 27, 2009, 02:50:16 AM
Monster arms on that kid.  ::)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 27, 2009, 02:57:00 AM
Monster arms on that kid.  ::)
she does chinups every morning on my fingers :)

my advice is to have a kid with a cool chick who can handle pressure well (mine is an MD). forget having a kid with a flake.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 27, 2009, 02:58:32 AM
Is childbirth as disgusting as it seems? I mean, yes it's your kid being born.........but still, yucky.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 27, 2009, 03:08:52 AM
Is childbirth as disgusting as it seems? I mean, yes it's your kid being born.........but still, yucky.
wasn't as bad as I expected but blood doesn't phase me... the placenta is pretty interesting to check out.

the girl is in serious pain though if she doesn't get an epidural (our kid came really fast so there was no time for one).

the instant bonding between mom and child is special to witness too...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 03:30:00 AM
the thing that would bother me the most is the doctors seeing my wifes pussy.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 03:43:16 AM
(http://www.sxc.hu/pic/l/c/ck/ckforjc/292268_5569.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: cross-of-iron on November 27, 2009, 03:57:57 AM
Is childbirth as disgusting as it seems? I mean, yes it's your kid being born.........but still, yucky.


It's only disgusting if you're at the end of the bed. I didn't see a thing...I mean I could see blood but it wasn't like I was looking into the eye of the storm. it was fucking intense man. She didn't use drugs and was screaming, I felt helpless and sick to my stomach.  I was holding her hand with my left hand and fanning her with a magazine with a right. After a while my arm got tired and I slowed down and she looked at me like she was going to kill me and said in a demon like voice,
"Don't stop fucking fanning me!!!"  Good times. 8)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 04:16:37 AM
imagine your wife is farting while pushing the baby out :-X :-X i think i would divorce her.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: webcake on November 27, 2009, 04:34:37 AM
aparently some women shit themselves cause they push so hard. I would vomit on her.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 06:25:57 AM
aparently some women shit themselves cause they push so hard. I would vomit on her.

yeah how could you ever look at her again without that popping up in your head.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Bobby on November 27, 2009, 06:48:42 AM
the thing that would bother me the most is the doctors seeing my wifes pussy.

hahahahha


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 06:51:01 AM
(http://i47.tinypic.com/cn407.jpg)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Palpatine Q on November 27, 2009, 06:55:22 AM
Awwwwww.  look at that little munchkin

That's great man

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=307367.0;attach=348247;image)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 07:00:20 AM
im too cold to ever love a kid.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Stark on November 27, 2009, 09:39:06 AM
wasn't as bad as I expected but blood doesn't phase me... the placenta is pretty interesting to check out.

the girl is in serious pain though if she doesn't get an epidural (our kid came really fast so there was no time for one).

the instant bonding between mom and child is special to witness too...


Did you eat it? I hear it makes an excellent post workout meal - loads of iron and protein - I bet you
could also blend that shit up easy with some extra whey protein.

Let me know your thoughts....


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: big L dawg on November 27, 2009, 09:43:29 AM
word is tom cruise ate it...thats a strange cat...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2009, 11:15:07 AM
Is childbirth as disgusting as it seems? I mean, yes it's your kid being born.........but still, yucky.

No, it the most beautiful thing in the world. When my son was born, we had a mid-wife. He was an underwater birth, I delivered him (the mid-wifes hands were under mine..just in case) I was the first to hold him, cut his cord and weigh him. Nothing in the world like it!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 27, 2009, 11:18:10 AM
stop being such a pussy


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2009, 11:20:56 AM
stop being such a pussy

Did you forget what site this was?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Ex Coelis on November 27, 2009, 05:15:14 PM
women must exercise modesty in all public places

hospitals are no exception

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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 27, 2009, 09:00:24 PM
No, it the most beautiful thing in the world. When my son was born, we had a mid-wife. He was an underwater birth, I delivered him (the mid-wifes hands were under mine..just in case) I was the first to hold him, cut his cord and weigh him. Nothing in the world like it!

OMG puke!!!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: trustnoone on November 27, 2009, 09:03:50 PM
imagine your wife is farting while pushing the baby out :-X :-X i think i would divorce her.
You'll never look at your old mans mangina the same.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 27, 2009, 09:11:32 PM
lol daddy muscles trying to hit all the low spots to piss me off, no sorry I wasn't, can't accept people don't want kids like you and hate the little fucks?



Hate kids? That is just wrong. The good thing is that you will never have any kids since you hate them.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: pedro01 on November 29, 2009, 02:44:47 AM
my daughter is 7 weeks old and i'm very glad we had her...

LOL ! She's a beauty... my second was 1 month yesterday. At that age, they don't do much - about 3 months is where they start to come out a bit more and you start to see the first inklings of a personality. Her big brother is 7 years old - now that's an age at which they are just heaps of fun.

A son is a real blessing for a guy - it really does allow you to do stuff you couldn't really do on your own and not have people looking at you as if you are a lunatic.

My second is a girl - I still have to see how that plays out...



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 29, 2009, 02:57:14 AM
I wouldn't trade her for the world now... ask me that in 16 years!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: pedro01 on November 29, 2009, 03:11:46 AM
Aaah - you'll be fine - 16 year old girls are a breeze....  ;)

Mine's already thumbprint signed a contract to say she won't have sex until she's 50.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Matterhorn on November 29, 2009, 03:40:23 AM
my daughter is 7 weeks old and i'm very glad we had her...

congrats. looks very sweet.

thinking about going into "production mode" myself next year.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Sherief Shalaby on November 29, 2009, 03:44:26 AM
i dont agree with the title!!.. on the contrary, kids FORCE you to be better in everything!!.. 


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on November 29, 2009, 03:47:26 AM
cant believe i started this baby thread.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Matterhorn on November 29, 2009, 04:33:56 AM
cant believe i started this baby thread.

can't believe I participate in a baby thread...

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Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: SweetGeez on November 29, 2009, 07:53:51 AM
x2 everytime I am around kids I want to smash there heads in, so fucking annoying yelling and screaming out of control, fuck they are the worst.  I can't image ever having to endure that, life is too short to put yourself though that torture.  

wtf seriously?  You must be pretty independent then I assume?  How has that affected you?




thank god you're a homo right?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 29, 2009, 01:31:02 PM
i dont agree with the title!!.. on the contrary, kids FORCE you to be better in everything!!.. 

too bad the point is FORCED, when your forced to do something like it or not, most of the time you will not like it.  FORCED to pay their bills, FORCED to take care of them, FORCED to buy them food, FORCED to clean up their shit, FORCED to stay up at night listening to their bullshit screams.  Put em up for adoption or get em aborted geeez.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: SweetGeez on November 29, 2009, 01:45:44 PM
too bad the point is FORCED, when your forced to do something like it or not, most of the time you will not like it.  FORCED to pay their bills, FORCED to take care of them, FORCED to buy them food, FORCED to clean up their shit, FORCED to stay up at night listening to their bullshit screams.  Put em up for adoption or get em aborted geeez.

I  agree....Your Dad should have forced your mother to have had an abortion..


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 29, 2009, 03:33:50 PM
I  agree....Your Dad should have forced your mother to have had an abortion..

not like I would have cared, i wouldn't even know :)



Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Sherief Shalaby on November 29, 2009, 09:18:03 PM
too bad the point is FORCED, when your forced to do something like it or not, most of the time you will not like it.  FORCED to pay their bills, FORCED to take care of them, FORCED to buy them food, FORCED to clean up their shit, FORCED to stay up at night listening to their bullshit screams.  Put em up for adoption or get em aborted geeez.


a lazy person always needs something to PUSH him and to FORCE him to improve.. so to have a kid is a good thing if you are lazy!..


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 29, 2009, 10:30:05 PM
I  agree....Your Dad should have forced your mother to have had an abortion..

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA  ;D ;D ;D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jr on November 29, 2009, 10:33:27 PM
a lazy person always needs something to PUSH him and to FORCE him to improve.. so to have a kid is a good thing if you are lazy!..

Or you could end up with neglected children in this case.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Sherief Shalaby on November 30, 2009, 12:56:08 AM
Or you could end up with neglected children in this case.

no i meant a lazy good guy not a lazy asshole :D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: uberman09 on November 30, 2009, 06:38:09 AM
no i meant a lazy good guy not a lazy asshole :D
looks like you have absolutely no idea what you re talking about. Quite worrying at your age.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Sherief Shalaby on November 30, 2009, 06:55:37 AM
looks like you have absolutely no idea what you re talking about. Quite worrying at your age.

what is your problem,.. was you neglected by your parents or something :-X


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on November 30, 2009, 09:41:21 AM
mods please move this thread, off topic from bodybuilding.

jt


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 30, 2009, 12:12:30 PM
what is your problem,.. was you neglected by your parents or something :-X
was you neglected by your english teacher or something?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lmaciver on November 30, 2009, 12:26:59 PM
Is that the truth or a lie?

Discuss
Absolutely not.  I have two kids, ages 5(almost 6) and 4.  Besides working full-time I still have time to hit the gym, train jiu-jitsu, and have somewhat of a social life(although I can really care less about going out and spending money nowadays!). Top it all off with a happy, healthy marriage. Having kids is SO rewarding...those who have them KNOW!!!!


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: trustnoone on November 30, 2009, 01:45:40 PM
Absolutely not.  I have two kids, ages 5(almost 6) and 4.  Besides working full-time I still have time to hit the gym, train jiu-jitsu, and have somewhat of a social life(although I can really care less about going out and spending money nowadays!). Top it all off with a happy, healthy marriage. Having kids is SO rewarding...those who have them KNOW!!!!
Oh brother! another MMA/BB bad ass ::)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Sherief Shalaby on November 30, 2009, 08:49:50 PM
was you neglected by your english teacher or something?

do you know who is your father?..


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Doug_Steele on November 30, 2009, 09:16:20 PM
do you know who is your father?..

Maury Povich  ;D :D


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Bodybuilding Related on November 30, 2009, 10:09:30 PM
the thing that would bother me the most is the doctors seeing my wifes pussy.

LOL


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jwb on November 30, 2009, 10:13:35 PM
do you know who is your father?..
yeah and my parents weren't even cousins...


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: ManBearPig... on December 01, 2009, 02:42:03 AM
the thing that would bother me the most is the doctors seeing my wifes pussy.

at that point it's so huge and disgusting, you'll be happy someone else is looking at it.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Mars on December 01, 2009, 03:20:19 AM
at that point it's so huge and disgusting, you'll be happy someone else is looking at it.

but aint that a good sign you should get yourself some other pussy?


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: lmaciver on December 01, 2009, 06:51:08 PM
Oh brother! another MMA/BB bad ass ::)
No, I'm definitely not like that Mars!  I simply do it for fun....it's a great cardio workout too!  I'm way too OLD to think of myself as any type of badass!!  :)


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: Pikapi on December 01, 2009, 07:52:17 PM
Thanx.
Because those familys mom and dad are those "sad" adults full of prejudice who live in the hell.
Our world is same. But, each people change into what they like.
This is a interesting story for you.

There was a guy who died in an error and he shouldnt have died. Then an admisitrator of other side say 'Hey, sorry for this, i will revive you. But before, any wish do you have?'
The guy answered 'Mmmm Yeah. Before, reviving, i want to see the heaven and the hell. Can I?'
The administrator said yes and he took this guy to the hell at first.
There, there was a table and many delicious look foods are there. Then the guy thought' Wow is it really hell?Looking good though..'.
Then those deads entered with their pale face and bad skinny look. And they sat down and picked up their own chop stick of each and tryed to eat those foods...But They couldnt eat those foods! Why? Cus their chopsticks were about 90cm and nobody of them could controled those long chopsticks to bring those foods into their own mouth.
And the time has past, nobody of them could eat any food and they must finish their dinner.....
The guy thought 'Yeah.... This is certainly hell.'

Now this time,The administrator of the other side took this guy to the heaven.
And The guy were flipped out. There were same table and same foods and same LONG CHOP STICKS!!
Then later, those deads came in. But this time, those deads have good face and looked healthy and all of them are chatting and laughing. Soon they sat and started dinner.
The guy was watching out carefuly what happened. Then Those deads used those long chop sticks and tryed to bring those foods into each others mouth! They ate a lot and shared their happiness and looked like they enjoyed their dinner a lot.

The guy realized. The difference between the hell and the heaven is in our mind and totaly we creat both of them.
Its total spiritual matter.



No, we don't. God creates everything, not we. Making yourself imbibe a false truth, as in the law of attraction, is but deceiving yourself.


Title: Re: When you have kids your life is over
Post by: jtsunami on December 04, 2009, 09:26:02 PM
Mods please move this thread.