You need to let the girl know whats up right away, delay and welcome to the "Friend zone" i mean do you really want this bitch to talk you about other guys she likes? let her know that if you guys are going to dine and watch flix together there has to be fucking, hold her hand while watching the movie, do something to show her and make her feel "he wants to fuck me" "or he wants to get in my pants" and thats a good thing,
you will be the first guy she calls when the self esteem takes a dip. then you can dip ur cock in her.
you cannot take girls out and play nice then 5 dates later try make out with her, you come across as a idiot/loser.
Let the girl know she turns u on, dont be "nice" because your body language will show one thing and your face will show another.
atleast if you try get with her on the first night and she pulls aways you didnt really waste that much time, you can figure it out with one date.
dont get over dressed either, before you go out with her have the mindset "I dont give a fuck" seriously girls sense desperation.
Romance works, 100% fucken guaranteed, kiss there hand, massage it, sounds corny to you, but gets them horny.
ask her questions, put her on the spotlight, dont give opinions, no one cares about, you may talk yourself out the pussy, so limit what u say.