both , personality more so . example I know a girl who got married , fiance' bought her a 1.5 karat diamond sent him back because it wasn't 3 karats , it a takes a TON of work to keep them happy not as much return on your part of the investment
last gfnothing ever tasted good...could have been jacques pepin as the cook, did not matterNo movie was ever enjoyable...could have been Titanicetc, etc
high maintenance = constant reassurance
This explains much.
Sounds likes Days of our Lives
Like sands through the hourglass, bro. Titanic!? Oh brother.