the problem with gyms is that most people in there are just messing around "training chest" and there are some serious members... so that gap in ability creates a uneven perception of superiority... however they should compare themselves with other bodybuilders and serious trainers because the other guys don't give a shit... so get on stage or compete in a meet for your reality check... in sport you have teams play of similar ability and desire... in gyms you have every type of person...