It happens to the best of us, I know when I'm with my cousins and shit for family functions I think ...hey wouldn't it be cool to have my son/daughter just hanging out with all their cousins playing and what not... then (most of the time) I think about when I go home from work, thinking ..thank God , I don't have some wife wondering why I'm working late ( cause I have to) thinking I'm fucking some other girl, or having a kid asking if Daddy is home yet or not being able to vacation somewhere far away and get plastered with dudes names 'X-factor' from the internet or even just lighting up a blunt in the living room while I check my tube8 updates from 240. Having a kid is great, but one needs to be prepared to leave all the other 'stuff' behind....