Author Topic: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage  (Read 11831 times)

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listen, marriage is AGAINST the law of Nature

fact of this matter is this.....


GOD (or, whatever controls the galaxies and planets) created "us" (human beings) as animals that can reason

However, we are animals none the less

As animals, our job (when you get down to the basics) is to go around a spread our seed as many times as we can AND NOT BE HELD DOWN

Now, around the dark ages, i think there was a shortage of people and morals went down (or some shit) and the church decided that it was time to use "GOD" as their "Enforcer".  That is, "if you don't get married, GOD will be mad at you!!!"

fact of the matter is that: GOD DOESN'T CARE IF YOU GET MARRIED OR NOT!!!

marriage is nothing more than a business contract
so, you don't have to marry for "Love"....just marry for money
thank you

it's up to you to stay at the level of the animal and not want to become something more evolved, as known as a human (just so you know, animals have underdeveloped brains compared to ours, but we have an EVOLVED, more developped brain). People with absent fathers, coming from dysfunctional families and with a poor or 0 education are more prone to be seduced by their impulses. Funny isnt it?

There are reasons why you can have multiple partners in one life, but there are also reasons why you should/can focus on just one and the kids you have with her TOO. Ill let you find out by yourself what are these good reasons.



Just because you can have several partners doesnt mean you have to.
Like just because you could kill anyone doesnt mean you should/have to...

Do you control your impulses, cognitions, and behaviors, or are you their slave?


There are benefits from being committed... and a father. But not having a father yourself pretty much reduced the chances you could figure these benefits to 0. Absent fathers dont teach their kids the benefits of being a present, involved father or mother that's for sure.

Hopefully another father figure will replace what you lack and restart your underdevelopments stuck in the past and in ignorance.

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I support gay marriage because I think they deserve to be as miserable as the rest of us :)

Seriously, marriage is awesome but sucks sometimes too.  it's great to have a partner but you do miss the solo runs too. 

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it's up to you to stay at the level of the animal and not want to become something more evolved, as known as a human (just so you know, animals have underdeveloped brains compared to ours, but we have an EVOLVED, more developped brain). People with absent fathers, coming from dysfunctional families and with a poor or 0 education are more prone to be seduced by their impulses. Funny isnt it?

There are reasons why you can have multiple partners in one life, but there are also reasons why you should/can focus on just one and the kids you have with her TOO. Ill let you find out by yourself what are these good reasons.



Just because you can have several partners doesnt mean you have to.
Like just because you could kill anyone doesnt mean you should/have to...

Do you control your impulses, cognitions, and behaviors, or are you their slave?


There are benefits from being committed... and a father. But not having a father yourself pretty much reduced the chances you could figure these benefits to 0. Absent fathers dont teach their kids the benefits of being a present, involved father or mother that's for sure.

Hopefully another father figure will replace what you lack and restart your underdevelopments stuck in the past and in ignorance.
hi virgin

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I support gay marriage because I think they deserve to be as miserable as the rest of us :)

Seriously, marriage is awesome but sucks sometimes too.  it's great to have a partner but you do miss the solo runs too.  

just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, neither do the kids, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kept coming back years later because you didnt face em.  

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years, which shaped the development of your cognitions and behaviors unconsciously until now.


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just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kepy coming back years later because you didnt face em. 

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years.


haha ... sounds like your boyfriend dumped you

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just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, neither do the kids, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kept coming back years later because you didnt face em.  

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years, which shaped the development of your cognitions and behaviors unconsciously until now.



I'm not sure that's what 240 meant.  My wife sometimes makes me miserable.  Specially during that special time of the month when all logic and reason goes out the window and her latin temper takes over.  I try to time my business trips around that time, but it doesn't always work.  All you can do is hunker down, ride out the storm and wait for the sun to pierce through the clouds  ;D
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I'm not sure that's what 240 meant.  My wife sometimes makes me miserable.  Specially during that special time of the month when all logic and reason goes out the window and her latin temper takes over.  I try to time my business trips around that time, but it doesn't always work.  All you can do is hunker down, ride out the storm and wait for the sun to pierce through the clouds  ;D
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lol
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I only regret my first 3.

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just when you think you've seen it all.  Sorry, but I have to delete this.  Feel free to repost on the porn board.
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comeon man ...don't delete it ...

look this is without nudity

" Hey Mindspin...maybe you should be more faithfull to her"


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I for one am happily married and have been for a number of years now.    :)

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