listen, marriage is AGAINST the law of Nature
fact of this matter is this.....
GOD (or, whatever controls the galaxies and planets) created "us" (human beings) as animals that can reason
However, we are animals none the less
As animals, our job (when you get down to the basics) is to go around a spread our seed as many times as we can AND NOT BE HELD DOWN
Now, around the dark ages, i think there was a shortage of people and morals went down (or some shit) and the church decided that it was time to use "GOD" as their "Enforcer". That is, "if you don't get married, GOD will be mad at you!!!"
fact of the matter is that: GOD DOESN'T CARE IF YOU GET MARRIED OR NOT!!!
marriage is nothing more than a business contract
so, you don't have to marry for "Love"....just marry for money
thank you
it's up to you to stay at the level of the animal and not want to become something more evolved, as known as a human (just so you know, animals have underdeveloped brains compared to ours, but we have an EVOLVED, more developped brain). People with absent fathers, coming from dysfunctional families and with a poor or 0 education are more prone to be seduced by their impulses. Funny isnt it?
There are reasons why you can have multiple partners in one life, but there are also reasons why you should/can focus on just one and the kids you have with her TOO. Ill let you find out by yourself what are these good reasons.
Just because you can have several partners doesnt mean you have to.
Like just because you could kill anyone doesnt mean you should/have to...
Do you control your impulses, cognitions, and behaviors, or are you their slave?
There are benefits from being committed... and a father. But not having a father yourself pretty much reduced the chances you could figure these benefits to 0. Absent fathers dont teach their kids the benefits of being a present, involved father or mother that's for sure.
Hopefully another father figure will replace what you lack and restart your underdevelopments stuck in the past and in ignorance.