How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?

[devilsmile]

bench

... I disagree... women aren't sluts just because they spread their legs to gazillion men... they are sluts allready by trying to look their best to make men want to put their slong inside them  ,

seriously, don't tell me you're one of these dudes who think like that

women should be encouraged to be more "slutty" in my oppinion

[Palpatine Q]

don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"

call her when you want

Didn't read the whole thread .... JNN has it right here

If it's mutual she will be happy to hear from you.

Did you give the the "had a really good time" text a little while after she left?

That's what pimps do

[Parker]

I agree with JNN & DS.

Also I try not to think of women as whores if they have had sex with many guys. I try to reframe it in my head and think "If they are not sleeping with many men, they are prudes." When you think of their endless options it makes sense.

Western men are used to not being the first at the door, we just don't how many have wiped their feet.

As I said before, would you pay full price for a 2010 Mercedes SL550 that had 100K on the clock? No, you would not. Chicks who sleep around invariably have tons of issues, and their self esteem is tied to their "mileage". DS is 19, but once he sees the same girls at 28-33, and they are high mileage chicks, he will see, the "don't buy, walk away quicky signs".

Dealing with these women is odd, yet predictable, they want a square who will solve all their problems, take care of their baggage and their out of wedlock kids, pay for their therapy bills, while in their youth, they wanted the guy who wanted to test drive the hell out of them.

Men, by nature, every 75 days produce new sperm, women have a set number of eggs...its set that way, because women must be selective in who they have kids with, whereas men, are suppose to sow their oats  

[johnnynoname]

Didn't read the whole thread .... JNN has it right here

If it's mutual she will be happy to hear from you.

Did you give the the "had a really good time" text a little while after she left?

That's what pimps do

the fact that you agree with what i said confirms its validity

btw, i need to back track on my "easy come, easy go" theory.  
i don't want guys to become modern day "bezerkers".  


Be bold but don't be stupid

[Palpatine Q]

the fact that you agree with what i said confirms its validity

btw, i need to back track on my "easy come, easy go" theory.  
i don't want guys to become modern day "bezerkers".  


Be bold but don't be stupid

You have it figured out JNN.

PS i went to a club in Scottsdale called the "W'  that you would have cleaned up at...all very thin,very stylish, very pretty people parading around with "fuck you....but please look at me"  expressions on their face   

[devilsmile]

Western men are used to not being the first at the door, we just don't how many have wiped their feet.

As I said before, would you pay full price for a 2010 Mercedes SL550 that had 100K on the clock? No, you would not. Chicks who sleep around invariably have tons of issues, and their self esteem is tied to their "mileage". DS is 19, but once he sees the same girls at 28-33, and they are high mileage chicks, he will see, the "don't buy, walk away quicky signs".

Dealing with these women is odd, yet predictable, they want a square who will solve all their problems, take care of their baggage and their out of wedlock kids, pay for their therapy bills, while in their youth, they wanted the guy who wanted to test drive the hell out of them.

Men, by nature, every 75 days produce new sperm, women have a set number of eggs...its set that way, because women must be selective in who they have kids with, whereas men, are suppose to sow their oats  

You're right...

 but trust me, I'm not gonna fall inlove too quickly anymore... tomorrow I'm gonna go to this girls place I just hooked up with, she seems very intelligent and I feel like I can talk anything with her and act however I want, we joked alot and talked about everything and we felt rly passionate... but...
I won't buy it... it's gonna collapse... I have a bit of a cold heart... after sex I have allways felt kinda akward... even the girl's are good looking.

[johnnynoname]

PS i went to a club in Scottsdale called the "W'  that you would have cleaned up at...all very thin,very stylish, very pretty people parading around with "fuck you....but please look at me"  expressions on their face   

that club sounds like a dream (after you deal with all the stuck up people that is)

in a situation like that, I wouldn't put the pussy on the pedestal and just, simply, talk to girls.  Like everything with women, you have to be bold but you have to feel out the situations. 

[Parker]

You're right...

 but trust me, I'm not gonna fall inlove too quickly anymore... tomorrow I'm gonna go to this girls place I just hooked up with, she seems very intelligent and I feel like I can talk anything with her and act however I want, we joked alot and talked about everything and we felt rly passionate... but...
I won't buy it... it's gonna collapse... I have a bit of a cold heart... after sex I have allways felt kinda akward... even the girl's are good looking.

That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only wanted sex. You see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next,  but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want what they provide...

[bigmikecox]

If the date is a success she will be making you breakfast in the morning and won't need to call

[benchmstr]

That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only anted sexYou see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next,  but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want they provide...

like charlie sheen said "i dont pay them for sex. i pay them to leave after sex"...

bench

[Palpatine Q]

that club sounds like a dream (after you deal with all the stuck up people that is)

in a situation like that, I wouldn't put the pussy on the pedestal and just, simply, talk to girls.  Like everything with women, you have to be bold but you have to feel out the situations. 

I was there with my GF...but yup, that's what i do...just open your fucking mouth..what's the worst that can happen?

PS  I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job

[benchmstr]

Nothing beats the new pussy feeling though.

the new pussy taste is better sometimes....

bench

[johnnynoname]

PS  I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job

i'm not asskissing but i'm willing to bet you always get that

[devilsmile]

That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only anted sexYou see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next, but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want they provide...

true true, sometimes the sex lasts for days but... you know....

I've had a one year love relationship with a 9 years older woman, she even has 2 kids and we were rly spiritually bond, also with the kids, hence it was rly special that a "waaay tooo young dude" has such a deep and motional relationship with a woman who has prety much seen it all... i have never  met a person that is such a mirror reflect of my self, we loved each other very much but.... it's in the past... and it's rly good it is 

anyhuu....  I looooove sex... alot... I love it... but having sex with the same girl you don't like, as you said,  is not rly worth it, and you just don't see her hot anymore.

[Parker]

the new pussy taste is better sometimes....

bench

Taste, feel, touch...I wish that thir could be a "new pussy" experience that one could experience in VR, or before one goes to work. ON DEMAND.

[Croatch]

Nothing beats the new pussy feeling though.

Unless it's a wide one.

I was there with my GF...but yup, that's what i do...just open your fucking mouth..what's the worst that can happen?

PS  I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job

I guess all the drug use finally paid off.  Nothing like getting praise from club bouncers.

[240 is Back]

Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.

You go and pick her up for the date.

You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom?  "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?

Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out?  I'd love to take the edge off".  Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.


At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl.  If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever.  If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later.  If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.

So that's my advice.  START every date by receiving a BJ.  Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off.  I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.

[danielson]

Just call her whenever you want.
If she reject you because of it, totaly no worth to be with her.

x2, except I would say it in English.

[Palpatine Q]

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Best reply ever


PS Croatch i am a lifetime natty.....unlike you

[Croatch]

Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.

You go and pick her up for the date.

You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom?  "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?

Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out?  I'd love to take the edge off".  Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.


At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl.  If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever.  If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later.  If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.

So that's my advice.  START every date by receiving a BJ.  Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off.  I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.

Sounds good.  When is your dating book coming out?  Funny thing is, you're probably right here.  A girl knows pretty quick if she wants your dick or not.  Nothing you say will really improve your standing.

[Croatch]

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Best reply ever


PS Croatch i am a lifetime natty.....unlike you

Impressive.  I stand corrected.
9x out of 10, that comment works.

[Parker]

sometimes the sex lasts for days but... you know....

I've had a one year love relationship with a 9 years older woman, she even has 2 kids and we were rly spiritually bond, also with the kids, hence it was rly special that a "waaay tooo young dude" has such a deep and motional relationship with a woman who has prety much seen it all... i have never  met a person that is such a mirror reflect of my self, we loved each other very much but.... it's in the past... and it's rly good it is  
anyhuu....  I looooove sex... alot... I love it... but having sex with the same girl you don't like, as you said,  is not rly worth it, and you just don't see her hot anymore.

Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.

But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.

[Hulkotron]

Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.

You go and pick her up for the date.

You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom?  "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?

Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out?  I'd love to take the edge off".  Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.


At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl.  If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever.  If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later.  If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.

So that's my advice.  START every date by receiving a BJ.  Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off.  I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.

This is a very exciting theory!

[Croatch]

Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.

But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.

I say no thanks to that, as well.  We got it, you got fucked without a rubber, I'm not impressed or really want to hear about that kid all the time.
When will these women get it, take it in the butt.  It may hurt, but will certainly save you 20 years of going back and forth arguing over child payments.

[240 is Back]

"Sounds good.  When is your dating book coming out?  Funny thing is, you're probably right here.  A girl knows pretty quick if she wants your dick or not.  Nothing you say will really improve your standing."

I think it would immediately take the poon off the pedestal.  She's an equal at that point.  She has the ability to say no... at which point she risks letting the boldest, most confident man she's ever met walk right out of her apartment.  She might just do it out of shock.  She might love a guy who takes charge - most girls do.

So that's my theory.  life's too short.  If I"m single again, I will try this on the first 20 girls I date, and I'll report the findings to getbig.  We'll see if it works.