Author Topic: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date? (Read 28299 times)

devilsmile · « **Reply #150 on:** May 18, 2010, 04:43:29 PM »

Quote from: Parker on May 18, 2010, 04:39:20 PM

Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.

But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.

yeah well.... we reaaaally loved eachother... the kids weren't a problem for me at all.... ofocurse I didn't see them in first 4-5 weeks but then... and then it was like a one happy family we were together constantly so no problem...

but it's in the past... when you fall inlove you don't care... you're blind. And it's kind of an illusion because you think your partner is this godly being...

240 is Back · « **Reply #151 on:** May 18, 2010, 04:46:50 PM »

Epic wanting to be single again, haha.

Brutal only a fool gets married

Hulkotron · « **Reply #152 on:** May 18, 2010, 04:47:17 PM »

You could test-drive this theory on Mrs. 240.

240 is Back · « **Reply #153 on:** May 18, 2010, 04:49:36 PM »

lol...

Q: Why does a woman smile as she walks down the aisle at her wedding?

A: She knows she has given her last blowjob.

benchmstr · « **Reply #154 on:** May 18, 2010, 04:53:43 PM »

Quote from: 240 is Back on May 18, 2010, 04:46:50 PM

Epic wanting to be single again, haha.

Brutal only a fool gets married

i'll drink to that

bench

Palpatine Q · « **Reply #155 on:** May 18, 2010, 05:02:00 PM »

Dating when kids are involved is a whole nother ballgame....it gets tricky real fast.

In my case that goes both ways because I have a kid too. what happens more often tban not is the woman im dating gets jealous of my daughter, because i make it very clear that they are number 2 on the food chain.l
They say they "respect that you are a good father" but once they realize that you really are and it wasnt just lip service, they start whining they never see you

Danimal77 · « **Reply #156 on:** May 18, 2010, 05:14:07 PM »

Quote from: bigmikecox on May 18, 2010, 04:22:22 PM

If the date is a success she will be making you breakfast in the morning and won't need to call

BECAUSE I liked her, I wasn't angling for her to sleep over. Taking my time at this man.

newmom · « **Reply #157 on:** May 18, 2010, 05:43:38 PM »

Quote from: Danimal77 on May 18, 2010, 05:14:07 PM

BECAUSE I liked her, I wasn't angling for her to sleep over. Taking my time at this man.

good for you danimal

Danimal77 · « **Reply #158 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:19:08 PM »

Quote from: newmom on May 18, 2010, 05:43:38 PM

good for you danimal

Thanks New Mom..

Looks like my thread has been hijacked by a bunch of big talkers. Real men don't need to talk. They just act.

Kind of puts this all into perspective for me...

New Mom and Mesomorph have been the most helpful in this thread. All these so called big time players are just trying to impress and outdo each on here. In the real world if you tell a chick to suck your dick before the date begins, it's just....hahaha...Anyways, no comment.

newmom · « **Reply #159 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:20:05 PM »

Quote from: Danimal77 on May 18, 2010, 06:19:08 PM

Thanks New Mom..

Looks like my thread has been hijacked by a bunch of big talkers. Real men don't need to talk. They just act.

Kind of puts this all into perspective for me...

New Mom and Mesomorph have been the most helpful in this thread. All these so called big time players are just trying to impress and outdo each on here. In the real world if you tell a chick to such your dick before the date begins, it's just....hahaha...Anyways, no comment.

I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy

benchmstr · « **Reply #160 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:21:33 PM »

Quote from: newmom on May 18, 2010, 06:20:05 PM

I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy

which is why it will never work

bench

newmom · « **Reply #161 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:24:38 PM »

Quote from: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 06:21:33 PM

which is why it will never work

bench

dont piss me off again

Danimal77 · « **Reply #162 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:26:17 PM »

Quote from: newmom on May 18, 2010, 06:20:05 PM

I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy

I wonder at what point during our short afternoon outing I should bring up wanting to take her out on an "official" second date? If it's going well, I wonder if it will be too much too soon to ask her out for this weekend? If this were a real proper date, I wouldn't be asking this question. Also, should the subject of what she's doing and who she's doing it with later on that night be brought up at all?

Danimal77 · « **Reply #163 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:28:50 PM »

Quote from: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 06:21:33 PM

which is why it will never work

bench

Yeah, you're right. I've never gotten a woman in my life. I'm not in your league bro.

benchmstr · « **Reply #164 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:29:37 PM »

Quote from: Danimal77 on May 18, 2010, 06:28:50 PM

Yeah, you're right. I've never gotten a woman in my life. I'm not in your league bro.

settle down tiger....its only the internet

bench

Palpatine Q · « **Reply #165 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:29:47 PM »

the important thing is when do finally get in her drawers, you have to give her a thourogh boning...if you don't "brings the ruckus" as my main man Leon says, you are toast....if you are saddled with a small penis this can be tough

benchmstr · « **Reply #166 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:32:54 PM »

Quote from: Groink on May 18, 2010, 06:29:47 PM

the important thing is when do finally get in her drawers, you have to give her a thourogh boning...if you don't "brings the ruckus" as my main man Leon says, you are toast....if you are saddled with a small penis this can be tough

this is true....he might have to become proficient in "fisting"...

bench

newmom · « **Reply #167 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:33:33 PM »

Quote from: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 06:29:37 PM

settle down tiger....its only the internet

bench

go eat a gummy bear

newmom · « **Reply #168 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:34:23 PM »

Quote from: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 06:32:54 PM

this is true....he might have to become proficient in "fisting"...

bench

to you and Groink

Hulkotron · « **Reply #169 on:** May 18, 2010, 06:34:59 PM »

Quote from: Danimal77 on May 18, 2010, 06:26:17 PM

should the subject of what she's doing and who she's doing it with later on that night be brought up at all?

Ask yourself what you gain by knowing this information. Anything? I would say no. If she's like "oh I've got a date" which is likely the case, you're just going to fret about it. Or she'll make up some bullshit and you'll go in circles trying to analyze it. Why stress yourself? Just enjoy your get-together, and hopefully plan your own date.

Does it bother you that she's dating other people? I generally don't bother with girls that aren't into me enough to immediately make me their top choice.