my two cents:
it's probably easier to be a big dude because there is too much stress from women when you are ripped
Indeed.
Being ripped is the key to attracting women with your body.
Whether you're a ripped 140 or a ripped 280.
Cuts, veins and rock hard muscles are what the skanks like.
If you have a lot of bodyfat, regardles of muscle underneath it. The ladies won't be into it.