A strong fatass, or small and lean? What's better?

[Azure]

Sprinters and wrestlers do have great body and it's functional!   Usually women who don't like any muscle are very insecure about their own bodies or are out of shape.

[devilsmile]

Playboy, if you only knew....

and women who don't like muscle guys is not allways because they feel insecure, it's because they are proud also and don't want men to be strong because thatä's the stigma what society has put among women and men, men have to be bitches and women can be bitches AND men at the same time...

it can also be because women consider muscular men self centered homo's and limp dicks, this is also true, it's not from ONE reason.

untill the muscular guy opens his mouth, but even then..

[Azure]

Playboy, if you only knew....

and women who don't like muscle guys is not allways because they feel insecure, it's because they are proud also and don't want men to be strong because thatä's the stigma what society has put among women and men, men have to be bitches and women can be bitches AND men at the same time...

it can also be because women consider muscular men self centered homo's and limp dicks, this is also true, it's not from ONE reason.

untill the muscular guy opens his mouth, but even then..

Valid points,  there is never ONE reason for most things.  It's just a general observation.

Women carry a lot of insecurities about their bodies.  Many times women assume a guy that is in great physical condition wants a woman that is in perfect shape.  That's not true at all.  Most pro BB's are not married to fitness models...many are married to regular women with average to fit bodies.

[˛oklis]

YES THEY DID

Yesterday I watched that movie http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1231587/( it`s about Four guy friends, travel back to their respective 1986 year heydays thanks to a time-bending hot tub. Thought you would give up everything for that hot tube  

[big14]

True, usually, an out of shape woman is reluctant to have
a very fit man as a boyfriend.

On Getbig
Pudzi at between cycles drugtested 273 lbs is more attractive than

than a 175lbs twink like this:

[newmom]

That's because I work out myself.  It's just as hard for women committed to a healthy lifestyle.  when i've dated people not into working out, they think I go to the gym too much.  Why don't I eat McDonald's and Jack in the Box?

Dont that fucking piss you off, I know it pisses me off..

Yes I always considered a "thick" girl and did prefer the bigger boys, albeit now that Im a skinny fat chick..230NUP

[Azure]

Dont that fucking piss you off, I know it pisses me off..

Yes I always considered a "thick" girl and did prefer the bigger boys, albeit now that Im a skinny fat chick..230NUP

It does. 

I resolved to never date another guy who wasn't interested in being healthy because the last time I did, I gained about 15lbs.  I was so pissed off at myself for that.  Never again.  I need someone who enjoys being active and eating clean.  Not fanatical, but it's a regular part of life.

Wow 230 and up!  You are serious...Not mad at ya though 

[newmom]

It does. 

I resolved to never date another guy who wasn't interested in being healthy because the last time I did, I gained about 15lbs.  I was so pissed off at myself for that.  Never again.  I need someone who enjoys being active and eating clean.  Not fanatical, but it's a regular part of life.

Wow 230 and up!  You are serious...Not mad at ya though 

LMAO..funny..Yea Im not saying they need to be some Big meathead or something. But if they eating shit all the time or anything, BEAT IT SHITTY and if they bitch more than a few times about me going to the gym..they can go fuck off

Yea and Im 120-125..so I like the strong alpha types. Christ when I was 263 I was a fat tub of shit

[Azure]

LMAO..funny..Yea Im not saying they need to be some Big meathead or something. But if they eating shit all the time or anything, BEAT IT SHITTY and if they bitch more than a few times about me going to the gym..they can go fuck off

Yea and Im 120-125..so I like the strong alpha types. Christ when I was 263 I was a fat tub of shit

I hear you. Lliving a healthy lifestyle means you aren't out drinking all night or eating fried everything.  I always ask people do you think that you can get into shape by eating any kind of crap?  Look it takes hard work and discipline not to let yourself go to pot and that requires sacrifice like going to the gym and eating right.

WOW!  What a big weight loss...congrats.  So inspiring.  I like your attitude.  It takes a lot of focus, discipline, and determination to make a big life change like that.

I think I am over the meathead phase.  I'm more interested in conversation now.

[newmom]

I hear you. Lliving a healthy lifestyle means you aren't out drinking all night or eating fried everything.  I always ask people do you think that you can get into shape by eating any kind of crap?  Look it takes hard work and discipline not to let yourself go to pot and that requires sacrifice like going to the gym and eating right.

WOW!  What a big weight loss...congrats.  So inspiring.  I like your attitude.  It takes a lot of focus, discipline, and determination to make a big life change like that.

I think I am over the meathead phase.  I'm more interested in conversation now.

Oh meathead is my generalization and nick of  lifters even if they arn't total dimbwits...

[Mr Nobody]

Now story here = I met a very hot girl once she was attracted to me due to musclarity after a couple of dates she said I cant be with you due to you attract more attention than me. At the time being lean just coming off a contest what does this mean its very confusing. I have never been the huge type but somewhere in between a huge guy a ripped model type.

[newmom]

Now story here = I met a very hot girl once she was attracted to me due to musclarity after a couple of dates she said I cant be with you due to you attract more attention than me. At the time being lean just coming off a contest what does this mean its very confusing. I have never been the huge type but somewhere in between a huge guy a ripped model type.

Your physique is fine Mr. Oh she was one of those...LOOK AT ME, probaly wanted her bf's to be the jealous type so she can bitch him out for being jealous

[big14]

When I hear the word twink I
think of guys looking more like this:

[newmom]

I wish I could post a picture of one true alpha male, but sigh I cannot..

but the picture made me fall of my bed

[Azure]

Now story here = I met a very hot girl once she was attracted to me due to musclarity after a couple of dates she said I cant be with you due to you attract more attention than me. At the time being lean just coming off a contest what does this mean its very confusing. I have never been the huge type but somewhere in between a huge guy a ripped model type.

Hahahhaahaaa...I bet you did. Listen I've been there before too and yes it can get annoying when you're at the grocery store or mall and chicks are all over your guy while you're standing there.  *rolls eyes*

But in the end secretly everybody likes knowing they are with someone that others find attractive.  I would never want to break up with someone for being an attention getter.  That's insecurity talking right there.

It's not confusing...many women are used to being the ones getting hit on all the time and they become addicted to praise, when the tables turnsand the guy can garner his own crowd, then they get jealous and angry.

[Mr Nobody]

Your physique is fine Mr. Oh she was one of those...LOOK AT ME, probaly wanted her bf's to be the jealous type so she can bitch him out for being jealous

Thanks for the compliment. These types confuse me, they want you one minute the next they dont but keep calling back after years, I had one that will call me like after like 3 years wanting to get together in a relationship but it never works just a one or two week thing then its over. Maybe these types are attention whores? Hey new question if you got a good looking muscular guy by your side and he gets attention from other girls does this piss you off or compliment you?

[Azure]

Hey new question if you got a good looking muscular guy by your side and he gets attention from other girls does this piss you off or compliment you?

I think it's cool except if it just goes too far and is too disrespectful then I get annoyed...not at him though.  At the other women.

[newmom]

Thanks for the compliment. These types confuse me, they want you one minute the next they dont but keep calling back after years, I had one that will call me like after like 3 years wanting to get together in a relationship but it never works just a one or two week thing then its over. Maybe these types are attention whores? Hey new question if you got a good looking muscular guy by your side and he gets attention from other girls does this piss you off or compliment you?

Good question. I remember once, someone I was with at six flags, a couple of girls said ewwwwwwwwww meaning his muscles..NOW THAT SHIT PISSED ME OFF to where I said something.
As long as its respectful, doesnt bother me, if I see phone numbers exchanged then that is another story

[Mr Nobody]

I think it's cool except if it just goes too far and is too disrespectful then I get annoyed...not at him though.  At the other women.

Yes I can see that but most times I have this it gets turned on me very confusing stuff seems some women want attractive muscular guy but then when attention from females comes they get pissed off. Now is this why some women go for a ugly fat dude I have seen this phenomomen many times.

[newmom]

Yes I can see that but most times I have this it gets turned on me very confusing stuff seems some women want attractive muscular guy but then when attention from females comes they get pissed off. Now is this why some women go for a ugly fat dude I have seen this phenomomen many times.

because most women have trust issues to say the least. Most women want to walk in the room and be center of attention and Im not sure why that is, insecurities I presume WTF knows, WE ARE NUTS

[Azure]

Good question. I remember once, someone I was with at six flags, a couple of girls said ewwwwwwwwww meaning his muscles..NOW THAT SHIT PISSED ME OFF to where I said something.
As long as its respectful, doesnt bother me, if I see phone numbers exchanged then that is another story

Really?  What part of the country was this?  That can be a factor too...Was he wearing a wifebeater cause usually I'm used to girls staring and giving a second look or saying high.  Asking can they feel his chest and arms

What did you say? 

[newmom]

Really?  What part of the country was this?  That can be a factor too...Was he wearing a wifebeater cause usually I'm used to girls staring and giving a second look or saying high.  Asking can they feel his chest and arms

What did you say? 

NEW JERSEY of all places, no wife beater, just tshirt and I said "yea and you enhaling that icecream when you already look like a telletubby is even more disgusting"

[Mr Nobody]

Good question. I remember once, someone I was with at six flags, a couple of girls said ewwwwwwwwww meaning his muscles..NOW THAT SHIT PISSED ME OFF to where I said something.
As long as its respectful, doesnt bother me, if I see phone numbers exchanged then that is another story

So these girls were actually cracking on him when reality I think they may have desired to be with him. Agreed on the phone numbers.

[Azure]

Yes I can see that but most times I have this it gets turned on me very confusing stuff seems some women want attractive muscular guy but then when attention from females comes they get pissed off. Now is this why some women go for a ugly fat dude I have seen this phenomomen many times.

I actually knew someone who was with a fat ugly dude because she said she knew he wouldn't cheat on her.  That wasn't that smart of a plan because he still treated her like crap.

Again it stems from insecurity.  Pretty women are used to getting all of the attention and showered with compliments.  They become addicted to this.  Then it's like "Why is everyone looking at him now and not me?"  I'm the hot one

if you want my opinion, get a woman who knows she can hold her own.  

[Mr Nobody]

because most women have trust issues to say the least. Most women want to walk in the room and be center of attention and Im not sure why that is, insecurities I presume WTF knows, WE ARE NUTS

Ah ha we have the answer.