Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?

[Primemuscle]

well there's nothing that I hate more than women as a specie, how their brain work etc.. more of a love/hate relationship, really, but in the end I allways lean towards hatered.
But it's little past 08:00 in the morning here and I've been up over 24h's because I'm trying to get my sleeping schedule back on track so don't mind my strange missleading sentences.

I have pretty "thick skin" so no offence taken.

I will tell you this, as my very wise stepfather used to tell me; no matter how long you live, you will never understand how a woman's mind works. I've lived quite a long time now and know my share of women (most of which I rather like and a couple I really love)and I have to say, my dad knew what he was talking about.

Strange way to get yourself on schedule. Being retired, I just sleep longer if I stay up too late. However, oversees travel is always a challenge. I don't sleep on planes....too many people to watch.

[buffdnet]

Bravo! It is good to see that people can change. Love is pretty powerful, isn't it? I take it that your love for your daughter helped you to realise what is important and what is not. Who one is attracted to is much less important than who they are as a person. Obviously, your daughter is a great person.

i humbly thank you.  the pastor at my last church cut jobs from those who could least afford it rather than start with the only logical christian move, cut himself.   at that point i had enough and gambled that god wouldn't strike me down if i told him to fuck off. so i did, then realized
I had a problem with the daughter that must be resolved.  next is to move back to be able to
accept sky daddy believers or being a bit tolerant.  that part will be the worse since i know zero christians but tons of churchgoers.  not so accepting of the churchgoers.
thanks for your words.

[devilsmile]

I have pretty "thick skin" so no offence taken.

I will tell you this, as my very wise stepfather used to tell me; no matter how long you live, you will never understand how a woman's mind works. I've lived quite a long time now and know my share of women (most of which I rather like and a couple I really love)and I have to say, my dad knew what he was talking about.

Strange way to get yourself on schedule. Being retired, I just sleep longer if I stay up too late. However, oversees travel is always a challenge. I don't sleep on planes....too many people to watch.

Well the thing is I kind of understand how women work (bold statement I know) and that's why I can't stand them... untill I get laid and get compliments ofcourse, but after that it's allways downhill straight to hell.

And as for my strange ways of getting my sleeping rythm back, I know how my head works. You see I was supposed to go out last night, but my back muscles and abs are so sore and stiff that I just fealt comfortable staying home and fix some laundry and whatever and just surf the net (getbig lol) and I realised that the time is quite late so I thought to my self that what a great opportunity to get back the "sharp in the morning, tirred in the evening" rythm back by keeping my head sober and just stay up untill it's so painfull that I have to go to sleep at six a clock at night and get a really good baby sleep and not be tirred at all during monday morning.

I'm not the one to talk about god, but I see another guy walking away from god because other people are two faced? Kind of funny. I was a dissbeliever for few years (born and raised lutherian), I started to feed my self new age sciences and theories and fed my self false information about the bible, but receantly about a year ago I got back to my faith. Not living gods way, but that's my choise lol

[Primemuscle]

i humbly thank you.  the pastor at my last church cut jobs from those who could least afford it rather than start with the only logical christian move, cut himself.   at that point i had enough and gambled that god wouldn't strike me down if i told him to fuck off. so i did, then realized
I had a problem with the daughter that must be resolved.  next is to move back to be able to
accept sky daddy believers or being a bit tolerant.  that part will be the worse since i know zero christians but tons of churchgoers.  not so accepting of the churchgoers.
thanks for your words.

I strongly suspect you know what it means to be a good person and I also suspect you are good loving person. Stick to the basics, like doing onto others as you would have them do unto you and you'll be just fine. Unfortunately, some people who call themselves good Christians are anything but. However, most all Christians, Jews, Muslims etc. are actually good folk if you just allow yourself to get to know them better.

Someone very wise once told me to give people a reputation to live up to and you won't often be disappointed. Another thing, to forgive is Divine...what is probably the most divine thing about forgiving is how good it makes you feel.

[Primemuscle]

Well the thing is I kind of understand how women work (bold statement I know) and that's why I can't stand them... untill I get laid and get compliments ofcourse, but after that it's allways downhill straight to hell.

And as for my strange ways of getting my sleeping rythm back, I know how my head works. You see I was supposed to go out last night, but my back muscles and abs are so sore and stiff that I just fealt comfortable staying home and fix some laundry and whatever and just surf the net (getbig lol) and I realised that the time is quite late so I thought to my self that what a great opportunity to get back the "sharp in the morning, tirred in the evening" rythm back by keeping my head sober and just stay up untill it's so painfull that I have to go to sleep at six a clock at night and get a really good baby sleep and not be tirred at all during monday morning.

I'm not the one to talk about god, but I see another guy walking away from god because other people are two faced? Kind of funny. I was a dissbeliever for few years (born and raised lutherian), I started to feed my self new age sciences and theories and fed my self false information about the bible, but receantly about a year ago I got back to my faith. Not living gods way, but that's my choise lol

How we live our lives is almost always about the choices we make. It can be the choice to stay up all night to get ourself back on schedule, the choice to change our feelings about women based on whether we are looking to get laid or have been or to question our faith (which most folks get from childhood religious experiences and associations). Sometimes we make good choices and sometimes not....life is trial an error.

Sometime, someday you might think about examining why you feel so differently about women before and after sex. Is your libido directing you or are you in direction of it. What about romance? Perhaps you'll think this is crazy, but men are often more romantic than women. I've heard it said that men take breakups a lot harder than most women do. Women just tend to talk about them more.

You must be in Europe. My son lives in Germany. It is nine hours later where he lives than it is here on the west coast of the U.S.

[devilsmile]

How we live our lives is almost always about the choices we make. It can be the choice to stay up all night to get ourself back on schedule, the choice to change our feelings about women based on whether we are looking to get laid or have been or to question our faith (which most folks get from childhood religious experiences and associations). Sometimes we make good choices and sometimes not....life is trial an error.

Sometime, someday you might think about examining why you feel so differently about women before and after sex. Is your libido directing you or are you in direction of it. What about romance? Perhaps you'll think this is crazy, but men are often more romantic than women. I've heard it said that men take breakups a lot harder than most women do. Women just tend to talk about them more.

You must be in Europe. My son lives in Germany. It is nine hours later where he lives than it is here on the west coast of the U.S.

Well I can't help about my natural biological needs. The problem is not physical, but it's political. You said you are retirred? Well listen, women today are so differend than women 10-20 years ago, trust me, they just are. It's cold blooded war between feminism and sovinism out there, friend.

And you're not crazy at all, pretty women know subconsciously that they can get any man they want most of the time because it's the way it is. So after a breake up, she knows that if she wanted she could have lines of men waiting for their turn. Not the case with men, because men need to grease a whole lot more. A man would never want to let go a woman no matter how hard the sittuation is, but woman will just stick around and then go. Women are more cold and actually less emotional than men. And now days when women want to do the same things as men is confusing the new genertion of kids even more. It's natural.

I love romance, but it's something you can't search. I think everyone who tries to find love is fooling themselves because you have to find yourself first and love yourself first before you can love anyone, and even then, you may never meet the perfect guy or girl but you should be happy regardless because self respect is the most imortant thing. So if in addition you will fall inlove, that's great, if not, should be happy about it anyway. And many girls now days think romantic men are boring even, with their nonsense smooth talk and crap, it's true. Not all women but more and more women don't whanna hear any pet talk because then you're a player... but if you're not romantic then you're a meathead caveman  , you know, that's how it goes.

So getting laid is not the main objective at all (even though I don't mind lol). For me more important is to connect with the girl so she can understand me where I'm coming from and if she lets me help to understand where she's coming from that would be great. But usually it goes to shit talking because women don't like men who have much stronger personality than they have.

[Primemuscle]

Well I can't help about my natural biological needs. The problem is not physical, but it's political. You said you are retirred? Well listen, women today are so differend than women 10-20 years ago, trust me, they just are. It's cold blooded war between feminism and sovinism out there, friend.

And you're not crazy at all, pretty women know subconsciously that they can get any man they want most of the time because it's the way it is. So after a breake up, she knows that if she wanted she could have lines of men waiting for their turn. Not the case with men, because men need to grease a whole lot more. A man would never want to let go a woman no matter how hard the sittuation is, but woman will just stick around and then go. Women are more cold and actually less emotional than men. And now days when women want to do the same things as men is confusing the new genertion of kids even more. It's natural.

I love romance, but it's something you can't search. I think everyone who tries to find love is fooling themselves because you have to find yourself first and love yourself first before you can love anyone, and even then, you may never meet the perfect guy or girl but you should be happy regardless because self respect is the most imortant thing. So if in addition you will fall inlove, that's great, if not, should be happy about it anyway. And many girls now days think romantic men are boring even, with their nonsense smooth talk and crap, it's true. Not all women but more and more women don't whanna hear any pet talk because then you're a player... but if you're not romantic then you're a meathead caveman  , you know, that's how it goes.

So getting laid is not the main objective at all (even though I don't mind lol). For me more important is to connect with the girl so she can understand me where I'm coming from and if she lets me help to understand where she's coming from that would be great. But usually it goes to shit talking because women don't like men who have much stronger personality than they have.

You are right, I am from a different time. I don't have any bad experiences with women either. I met my wife when I was eighteen years old. We married when I was twenty and she was twenty-one. We just celebrated our 47th wedding anniversary. We are still each others very best friend. No one knows me, warts and all, like she does and no one knows her as well as I do.

Fortunately, something rubbed off on our kids. My son married when he was twenty-two. He is forty-five and still happily married to his lovely wife. My daughter married at twenty, she is thirty-six and still happily married to her wonderful husband. My grandkids are too young to be in a serious relationship, so time will tell with them.

My good friend has had one bad relationship after another all of his adult life. Lousy women gravitate to him or he they, I am not sure which. Most of the women he's been with in the years that I've known him have been in my opinion, pretty slutty and low class. But then, my friend suffers from low self esteem and probably doesn't  believe he deserves anything better.

My mom was married three times. She and my dad were married for about five years. They fought constantly. She and my stepdad lived together for many years before they married. They fought a lot too. However, they were together for over thirty years until my stepdad died from cancer. That's when my mom married her lover. Charlie had been her lover since before she married my father and they continued to be lovers while she was married to my stepfather. I suspect my mom was the kind of woman you seem to have so imuch trouble with. She was a little nuts and definitely very self-centered.

I figured out early on that I was not going to marry a girl just like the girl that married my dear old dads. LOL! Maybe it is not so much the times as which type of women one is attracted to.

[devilsmile]

You are right, I am from a different time. I don't have any bad experiences with women either. I met my wife when I was eighteen years old. We married when I was twenty and she was twenty-one. We just celebrated our 47th wedding anniversary. We are still each others very best friend. No one knows me, warts and all, like she does and no one knows her as well as I do.

Fortunately, something rubbed off on our kids. My son married when he was twenty-two. He is forty-five and still happily married to his lovely wife. My daughter married at twenty, she is thirty-six and still happily married to her wonderful husband. My grandkids are too young to be in a serious relationship, so time will tell with them.

My good friend has had one bad relationship after another all of his adult life. Lousy women gravitate to him or he they, I am not sure which. Most of the women he's been with in the years that I've known him have been in my opinion, pretty slutty and low class. But then, my friend suffers from low self esteem and probably doesn't  believe he deserves anything better.

My mom was married three times. She and my dad were married for about five years. They fought constantly. She and my stepdad lived together for many years before they married. They fought a lot too. However, they were together for over thirty years until my stepdad died from cancer. That's when my mom married her lover. Charlie had been her lover since before she married my father and they continued to be lovers while she was married to my stepfather. I suspect my mom was the kind of woman you seem to have so imuch trouble with. She was a little nuts and definitely very self-centered.

I figured out early on that I was not going to marry a girl just like the girl that married my dear old dads. LOL! Maybe it is not so much the times as which type of women one is attracted to.

Well what you are describing is a fairy tale in todays society. Just like my parents. My parents were together 30 years before my dad died some years ago. My dad was a great businessman and allways tried to better himself and allways put us first and wanted our best interest, and my mom is like a mirror image of my father. She's still without a man, she can't phantom to actually have another man, she sayes that my dad was the only one, period and now goes on herlife in her own peacefull way. Not in man hunting, legg spreading, every other week plane tickets purchasing way, but in a good way.

But you're wrong at one thing, women now days are filthyer and slutyer than ever before and men are generally more douchy, most people don't believe in anything except money and status.

Have you seen the movie "War inc" ? Watch that movie, it's an extension of todays society.

[Xerxes]

Devilsmile I think you need to sleep some more bro 

[devilsmile]

Devilsmile I think you need to sleep some more bro  

6 more hours before I go to sleep... then I've been up, lets see.. 32 hours, so don't worry I will

[chaos]

well there's nothing that I hate more than women as a specie,

Outed.

[quadzilla456]

I hate brown people on Getbig and in real life I love them 

[Palpatine Q]

I think what Devilsmile is saying is that these women patronize the men here..act "cute" and think that every guy here is hard up and would fuck them...nothing could be further from the truth...and yes...I'm speaking for myself.  I think Booty is a FAR worse offender than NewMom...she acts like a retarded sex kitten ..Newmom is more down to earth....Although Booty has thicker skin.

[Primemuscle]

Well what you are describing is a fairy tale in todays society. Just like my parents. My parents were together 30 years before my dad died some years ago. My dad was a great businessman and allways tried to better himself and allways put us first and wanted our best interest, and my mom is like a mirror image of my father. She's still without a man, she can't phantom to actually have another man, she sayes that my dad was the only one, period and now goes on herlife in her own peacefull way. Not in man hunting, legg spreading, every other week plane tickets purchasing way, but in a good way.

But you're wrong at one thing, women now days are filthyer and slutyer than ever before and men are generally more douchy, most people don't believe in anything except money and status.

Have you seen the movie "War inc" ? Watch that movie, it's an extension of todays society.

Ones view of society today really depends on where you look. I don't know if you read what I wrote about my parents, but they definitely weren't Ozzie and Harriett. I could be wrong, but I suspect people are people, we all have flaws and imperfect lives no matter what generation we come from. Another thing, I suspect people are a lot more honest today about how they live there lives and the mistakes they make then perhaps they felt able to be in generations past.

Unfortunately, reality television and the celebrity hunger folks who spill the beans to the media about all their sexual misadventures not only skews our view of how people act today, it sort of give folks permission to act badly. This is a change from times past when folks kept their personal lives private. These days, Britney Spears meltdown minus her underware in public is viewed with a certain amount of humor and even forgiveness. I another time, this kind of public behavior would end a career instead of bolstering it. Not that I have anything against the no talent Britney Spears. Lets just say she's not my type. I like women with class.

[booty]

I think what Devilsmile is saying is that these women patronize the men here..act "cute" and think that every guy here is hard up and would fuck them...nothing could be further from the truth...and yes...I'm speaking for myself.  I think Booty is a FAR worse offender than NewMom...she acts like a retarded sex kitten ..Newmom is more down to earth....Although Booty has thicker skin.

A retarded sex kitten???     That's a first! 

[Palpatine Q]

A retarded sex kitten???     That's a first! 

.  Not that you give a fuck what I say...but you seem to have toned it down a bit lately

[booty]

.  Not that you give a fuck what I say...but you seem to have toned it down a bit lately

No I don't give a fuck but I am just surprised, that's all.  I am actually the same, it's just that maybe you are seeing different aspects to my personality.  You know, other than my retarded sex kitten side.   

[CalvinH]

I'm pretty much me

[Primemuscle]

No I don't give a fuck but I am just surprised, that's all.  I am actually the same, it's just that maybe you are seeing different aspects to my personality.  You know, other than my retarded sex kitten side.  

Retarded sex kitten, I like your sense of humor.

I guess some narrow minded folks think people can only be one thing. So if you work in the sex industry, that's all there is to say about you. Crazy, huh? Most folks I know are much more multifaceted.

My wife grew up being a "good" Catholic school girl.... all pure and innocent. One time when we were dating and on a weekend trip, she decided to go down on me while I was driving us up from West Hollywood to Santa Barbara in her 64' VW Beetle. I was shocked! How could this virginal sweatheart of mine do such a wild thing? LOL! Well she's still my sweatheart and it has been almost fifty years since she blew my mind and....well you know!

[booty]

Retarded sex kitten, I like your sense of humor.

I guess some narrow minded folks think people can only be one thing. So if you work in the sex industry, that's all there is to say about you. Crazy, huh? Most folks I know are much more multifaceted.

My wife grew up being a "good" Catholic school girl.... all pure and innocent. One time when we were dating and on a weekend trip, she decided to go down on me while I was driving us up from West Hollywood to Santa Barbara in her 64' VW Beetle. I was shocked! How could this virginal sweatheart of mine do such a wild thing? LOL! Well she's still my sweatheart and it has been almost fifty years since she blew my mind and....well you know!

You're not implying that I work in the sex industry???     

[Primemuscle]

You're not implying that I work in the sex industry???     

Guess I was. Sorry, I shouldn't assume things based on other's posts. My appologies. Not that I believe people who work in the sex industry, either male or female are any better or worse than anyone else.

[booty]

Guess I was. Sorry, I shouldn't assume things based on other's posts. My appologies. Not that I believe people who work in the sex industry, either male or female are any better or worse than anyone else.

I am a personal trainer, have been since 2001.  I have dabbled in some photographic nude modelling (legs closed) and I also work on HBC just chatting, flexing and goofing around.  I have never taken money for sex. 

[240 is Back]

In real life we can shoot people outside bars who sucker punch our short friends.

[ironneck]

devilsmile, im also 2 days awake now, you got the same reasons? 

[TrueGrit]

The sexual tension between Groink and Booty is palpable.