Good date/bad date? Call/don't call?

[GroinkTropin]

If she likes you then she likes you, if she doesnt then she doesnt , its that simple.Nothing you did at the date will fuck it up if she's in to you.

I think this is true and worked in my favor.

I hit her up earlier, and we are chilling tomorrow and watching fireworks.
I think her sister was watching her kid and probably wondering where she was at. Whoever was hitting her up she never answered, possibly baby dady Im not going to pretend I know.

Thursday at work she brough me jamba juice, she is fucking really nice and a decent person. I have a feeling for girls, I made the move to talk to her, it's happened over a month or so that I asked her out. I really do not think she would go out with me while banging someone else. I get the feeling the dude she was with and her do NOT still kick it.

Will see what happens tomorrow. Unsure how she really feels, but she's been really easy going and down to hang out, returns texts etc. Dunno. We will see.

When I say she is hot I mean she's pretty cute, not smoking hot our out of my league.

Newmom she's on my facebook already Isabel. Youc an check her out for me

[GroinkTropin]

Shes a temp I doubt she will be there long and there is ZERO interaction between us at work. In fact, I never do more than say hi and some friendly emails. We are monitored pretty closely there is zero chance she could make false claims as they would be very easy to disprove.

[GroinkTropin]

Was she married before? Because old fashion chicks don't have kids out of wedlock...

This I do not know. I haven't gone into her past all that much, I don't feel it's right to do so.

[GroinkTropin]

I'd keep looking for a non-Mexican, non-sigher, without a kid but it's any port in a storm, I guess.

Never a movie early on.  Baffles me why people who are supposed to be finding out about eachother choose to spend time in a place where they can't hold a conversation.  Did you even ask who keeps calling?  Or if the off button on her phone is broken?

Um the movie in hindsight was a bad idea. A girlfriend of mine suggested my date and I go see a funny movie after dinner. Going to have coffe much better idea but I was already so tired I couldn't think straight. I didn't want to just take her to eat and take her home you dig?

[GroinkTropin]

You guys gotta help me out here I SUUUUUUUCK at dating. My problem is that Im an only child and its verrrry tough for me to trust someone and develop a relationship. I got the feeling she wanted me to make a move or im not into her, but while I WILL make a move, im not super aggressive on a first date. My feeling is that I would be happier spending time with someone and if shit happens it does but if it doesn't it doesn't. That means I am patient and yes I WANT to bang her but I'm not going to jump on her either.

And the kid without being married thing is getting to me. She seems traditional mex? Hmm I really should ask her.

[newmom]

And the kid without being married thing is getting to me. She seems traditional mex? Hmm I really should ask her.

Why?. Doesn't make her a bad person.

[newmom]

When I say she is hot I mean she's pretty cute, not smoking hot our out of my league.

Newmom she's on my facebook already Isabel. Youc an check her out for me

Yes she is cute, cute kid too, how old is she?. Looks young to me, I'd say about 21 or so. Now listen to me. If she has you picking her up where her kid rests her head, RED FLAG IMO, if she brings that kid to watch fireworks, RED FLAG. Even if your just pals or whatever, she shouldn't IMO bring that kid around just anyone. But again she looks young. This is my opinion, you do what works for you. When I say red flag, bare in mind, I also don't think its a good idea on her part.

[Azure]

You guys gotta help me out here I SUUUUUUUCK at dating. My problem is that Im an only child and its verrrry tough for me to trust someone and develop a relationship. I got the feeling she wanted me to make a move or im not into her, but while I WILL make a move, im not super aggressive on a first date. My feeling is that I would be happier spending time with someone and if shit happens it does but if it doesn't it doesn't. That means I am patient and yes I WANT to bang her but I'm not going to jump on her either.

And the kid without being married thing is getting to me. She seems traditional mex? Hmm I really should ask her.

If you are serious then take things slow.  I like a guy who is not SUPER aggressive teh first time out.  It means that there is more of a goal than just sex. 

I think a good woman does appreciate a man who will take his time

[GroinkTropin]

Yes she is cute, cute kid too, how old is she?. Looks young to me, I'd say about 21 or so. Now listen to me. If she has you picking her up where her kid rests her head, RED FLAG IMO, if she brings that kid to watch fireworks, RED FLAG. Even if your just pals or whatever, she shouldn't IMO bring that kid around just anyone. But again she looks young. This is my opinion, you do what works for you. When I say red flag, bare in mind, I also don't think its a good idea on her part.

Early 20's maybe 23 or so? Kid is turning three. 21 is a stretch. Again age isn't something I poker around about like exes and shit. She's legal and can drink alcohol and hold good conversation despite english not being her forte so she's cool in my book.

[_bruce_]

Don't date - enjoy your time. Things unfold... sooner or later.

[GroinkTropin]

Don't date - enjoy your time. Things unfold... sooner or later.

What is this supposed to mean?

[_bruce_]

What is this supposed to mean?

Use the condom you must 

Instead of "dating" I would rather involve her in your activities. If I have interest(doesn't matter which) in a chick I invite her to activities like barbecue, squash, training, dancing, going out. She gets to know my friends and there's no one on one pressure... the rest takes care of itself.

[tallandfat]

tom leykis says no dating single moms