This is comment about Men not saying that they are frugal, its a article posted today on yahoo...
This dude's comment, just broke it down. Warning, It's fairly long, and no it's not my comment, either, Do You agree, especially in bold:
"If Kurupt gave a f*** about a B***h, I'd always be broke/I'd never have no motherf***in' indo to smoke"
I don't use drugs, but, I like his line of thinking.
Women are a drain on my emotional and financial resources and most of them are even more selfish than men. Let's be honest: Sex is the number one reason men want women. The marriage of men and women is a tradition that is primarily born of the need/desire to lock down each other's genitals for mutual exclusivity. The idea of a man and woman enjoying each other's company is something that usually happens only after they find each other sexually agreeable. The concept of "love", as Huxley expounded upon in "Brave New World" is really kind of outmoded and fallacious. It is basically a lie that we tell ourselves and is a manifestation of personal insecurity.
So, when I came to realize that I really only wanted women for sex, the whole concept of wanting some sort of relationship with them became silly to me. Here is an experiment that I would like men to try: Think of a girl/woman you are fixated on at the moment. NOW: Masturbate. When you're done, you'll most likely notice that you won't think of a woman at all for 2-14 hours or so. This told me that I was indeed not interested in an actual relationship with a woman at all, but rather merely enjoying her body. The concept of making her my girlfriend or wife was really just my desire to have her vagina in my life more regularly. In fact, after I masturbate, a woman is absolutely the furthest thing from my mind.
When I examine the horrible things I have to resign myself to do during courtship, it makes me actually hate sex. All of the capitulating and compromising...listening to her yammer incessantly about nonsense, the things expected of me..it's sickening. Somewhere along the line, the human vagina has been deified and the man has been emasculated. How is it that society has allowed the woman's genitals to somehow be recognized as more valuable in the sexual equation?
Sex is overrated, and, once you grasp this concept and are able to control yourself, you'll find that you'll be able to more easily achieve your life goals and have a sense of inner peace. You have to masturbate intermittently, but, as you become less obsessed with sex, you will find that over time, you'll need to do so less and less, generally.
There is also a great deal of societal pressure for you to have a wife or a girlfriend. If you go for an extended period of time without one or the other, people start questioning your sexuality, which, for a heterosexual, masculine identifying man, can be somewhat embarrassing. Madison Avenue and popular media usually glorify/portray people paired up, even if that coupling is homosexual: You're made to feel like you "need someone" and if you go at it alone, you're less than a man and a social outcast. So, after you tackle the difficult task of mastering your own sex drive, you need to be able to at least partially dispel/deflect the feelings you may associate with other people's skewed perceptions of you.
Aside from my philosophical objections to the mating rituals of our society, I'd like to also commend other posters for their very astute (and true) statistical observations: The divorce rate is generally 52% and that number goes up exponentially for people with lower income and less education. Marriage is a crap shoot, and, since I work very hard for the little bit of money I make, I refuse to gamble so foolishly
