I think it's becoming clear to me that the more I follow the bodybuilding industry that it would be reasonable for people to assume that I am a bender. I don't fault anyone for thinking this because as I said, I think it would be reasonable to assume that about bodybuilding fans, especially those who have been following it for a long time. Truth be told, I started working out to get girls but that didn't really work out but I just really liked working out and kind of pursued it as a hobby. Bodybuilding never worked for me mainly due to not being able to eat and since I wasn't competing, I never really tried very hard to deal with that. What is a polite way to tell someone I am not gay? The way I see it, gay people are lonely and so I don't want to be rude to them or anything.
Discuss.
Matt, in order to have to tell someone that you're not gay, you would have to be asked first and that would not occur unless you're at a gay club or a gay owned or operated place of business. You will never be approached out on the streets with that question out of the blue. I haven't that's for sure.
Then if you are asked that and you're not gay then the next question you have to ask yourself is why am I here at this dick swinging Sausagefest to begin with???
Of course, Matt you're not doing yourself any favors with that haircut you're sporting. I've had 3 ex's that have had your same hairstyle.
Overall, Matt if you ever get asked...then you're prob at a gay club.
BTW, gays certainly aren't lonely and every girl wants a gay friend to chat about and help them with clothing. For someone who's bi, it works to my advantage....
