Most women like guys that are in shape. The whole Ryan Reynolds with abs look. There are some women aka the Snookie NJ type bitches that like their men built like "gorrillas". But most of the time they are black women, maybe a few hispanic women, and short fat women who don't want their man to outshine them in the physical features department. If you think most women want to be around a big bodybuilder you're nuts. Most women DO NOT like that look. And it's not so much the size they don't like. It's all the other shit......acne, veins, bald/shaved heads, the ability to pant walking up a flight of stairs, not being able to fit into stylish clothes is a big one.
Height is probably just as important as build. You can be a lanky geek with an ugly face but if you're over 6 feet with a flirty/charming/confident personality women will eat you up. Personality probably matters more than anything..........hence one more reason why women don't like bodybuilders. Most have no personality. It's all about their appearance. If you understand women the most important skill you could ever have is the ability to make them feel special and unique and MAKE THEM LAUGH! Some of the goofiest motherfuckers I see dating the hottest chicks. Women in general are immature, simple creatures with a basic outlook on life. They like laughing at stupidity.