based on what i've seen as well as personal experience:
having a great body weather its at 180lb or 220lb or whatever, if you have a shit face you're not getting anything weather you're big or not so lets get that straight
the people who say girls hate the 240lb bb look well i got news for you, for example i know a guy who gets a shit load of girls but he's not ugly..
also if your personality and confidence are lacking then again, you won't get anything
this other friend of mine is ripped and he doesnt get anything,
what i'm trying to say is that having a good body is part of the equation and people don't seem to understand this concept they think "oh i have a good body i can get any girl"... doesn't work like that friends