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Proposed on Friday..
« on: October 19, 2010, 07:03:47 AM »
Been exclusive with my girlfriend for a year now... Her birthday was Friday. I got a  jacuzzi suite at the Drury Plaza Hotel on the Riverwalk in San Antonio.. had dinner at a local restaurant and the mariachi group sang her favorite song along with Happy Birthday. After dinner we went for a walk along the river walk. I kept looking for the perfect place to propose as it's a pretty romantic place in the evening but on Friday it was packed to the gills and every place I had in mind was just crawling with people. So we kept walking.. and walking...

We finally came to a  pedestrian bridge over the river and it seemed perfect. I started my spill...."we've been going out..." and right about there I stepped on her toes...took her about a minute to regain compusure from the pain.. by that time it seemed like someone yelled "Action!" and people came out of the woodwork walking towards us, and the moment was ruined. Fortunatley I had fake proposed to her about 20 times as in "We've been going out for a year, I think its time to take it to the next level, so I have a question to ask you... do you like diet pepsi or diet coke better?"... things like that.. So we continued walking till we came to a pretty secluded spot. I figured it was now or never so I started my proposal again... she was joking around and thought I was about to fool her again.

I did the old get on one knee thing and she started to wonder if I was serious. When she saw me pull the ring out she freaked out. I asked her to marry me and she was saying "are you serious"??, is this a joke? By that time I was a little nervous this wouldn't play out all that well as it did in my head.. but she was crying and smiling and I finally said "Hey, I need an answer here" and she said "Yes, of course I'll marry you!" I put the ring on and got back up and suddenly heard clapping. I looked around and people were standing around smiling.. I had no idea anyone had walked up.

All in all it was a pretty good weekend.

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #1 on: October 19, 2010, 07:05:48 AM »
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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2010, 07:11:41 AM »
Congrats! I just got married a month ago to a great girl. Hope everything goes well for you guys... you're in for hell with the planning and b.s btw. you're gonna be having weekly meetings w caterer, hall, photographers, film crew, centerpieces, oh man... I'll tell you this much, the reason people have a honeymoon after the wedding is not to be romantic and spend time alone, it's to get away from all the bullshit, planning, meetings, of the pre-wedding.. :)

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #3 on: October 19, 2010, 07:14:41 AM »
Congrats to you!

It won't be either of ours first wedding so we are thinking a SMALL ceremony on the beach in Playa Del Carmen next December. It's an all inclusive resort so drinks and food are included :-)  Those who want to come pay their own way otherwise it will be us, a few family members and the closest of friends.   

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #4 on: October 19, 2010, 07:16:17 AM »
Congrats! I just got married a month ago to a great girl. Hope everything goes well for you guys... you're in for hell with the planning and b.s btw. you're gonna be having weekly meetings w caterer, hall, photographers, film crew, centerpieces, oh man... I'll tell you this much, the reason people have a honeymoon after the wedding is not to be romantic and spend time alone, it's to get away from all the bullshit, planning, meetings, of the pre-wedding.. :)


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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #5 on: October 19, 2010, 07:21:53 AM »
Luv sux!  >:(

Congratulations!  :-*

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #6 on: October 19, 2010, 07:24:00 AM »
downhill...  don't fall on your ass too hard.

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #7 on: October 19, 2010, 07:28:52 AM »
Why the fuck would you do something like that?

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #8 on: October 19, 2010, 07:32:16 AM »
After only a year?Bad move.

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #9 on: October 19, 2010, 07:33:37 AM »
Why the fuck would you do something like that?

Uh...I....uh....well,,

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #10 on: October 19, 2010, 07:35:22 AM »
Agnostic, glory will follow you, but you may only be filling up some heat of the moment kind of stuff for your own selfish desires and you will get hurt if you don't back off. I looked up from my tarot card real quick.

This won't work. You will fall on your ass  so hard  :D hahahaha, another heart broke on the making.

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #11 on: October 19, 2010, 07:36:39 AM »
After only a year?Bad move.

What would you say is a good time frame? I thought about that too... For me, the engagement is the next step, not the marriage. While I fully intend to marry her, during our year long engagement we will move in together, which I think is the ultimate test of compatibility and within that time most red flags will have surfaced. So far, no red flags, but while we stay together several days of the week, it's not the same as 24/7 living arrangement  

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #12 on: October 19, 2010, 07:37:30 AM »
Agnostic, glory will follow you, but you may only be filling up some heat of the moment kind of stuff for your own selfish desires and you will get hurt if you don't back off. I looked up from my tarot card real quick.

This won't work. You will fall on your ass  so hard  :D hahahaha, another heart broke on the making.

 ::)

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #13 on: October 19, 2010, 07:39:36 AM »

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #14 on: October 19, 2010, 07:40:39 AM »
;D

good luck with your "love"  ::)

Thanks man, sincerely, thanks..  ;)

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #15 on: October 19, 2010, 07:42:31 AM »
Thanks man, sincerely, thanks..  ;)

your woman will cheat you with a black male stripper

bye  :D

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #16 on: October 19, 2010, 07:45:26 AM »
MARRIAGE leads to DIVORCE.


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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #17 on: October 19, 2010, 07:46:03 AM »
your woman will cheat you with a black male stripper

bye  :D

Let it go man.. let it go... whatever she did to you in the past, you can't continue to blame all women, it will tear you up inside and you will become a bitter lonely shriveled up old man.... just let it go..

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #18 on: October 19, 2010, 07:47:47 AM »
What would you say is a good time frame? I thought about that too... For me, the engagement is the next step, not the marriage. While I fully intend to marry her, during our year long engagement we will move in together, which I think is the ultimate test of compatibility and within that time most red flags will have surfaced. So far, no red flags, but while we stay together several days of the week, it's not the same as 24/7 living arrangement  

Is she Western? If she is Korean or Japanese then go for it, otherwise, stop before it's too late. :-\
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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #19 on: October 19, 2010, 07:47:59 AM »
MARRIAGE leads to DIVORCE.



or more accuratley,

Without marriage, there can be no divorce  

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #20 on: October 19, 2010, 07:48:52 AM »
your woman will cheat you with a black male stripper

bye  :D

Maybe "Agnostic007" is the kind of guy who would introduce his wife to the straight black stripper with ulterior motives towards him when his wife convinces the Mandingo to join a threesome?

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #21 on: October 19, 2010, 07:49:43 AM »
Is she Western? If she is Korean or Japanese then go for it, otherwise, stop before it's too late. :-\

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #22 on: October 19, 2010, 07:50:22 AM »
Maybe "Agnostic007" is the kind of guy who would introduce his wife to the straight black stripper with ulterior motives towards him when his wife convinces the Mandingo to join a threesome?

I'm getting way to much credit here..

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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #23 on: October 19, 2010, 07:52:00 AM »
Maybe "Agnostic007" is the kind of guy who would introduce his wife to the straight black stripper with ulterior motives towards him when his wife convinces the Mandingo to join a threesome?

threesome with the 3rd head being another man, greate  :-X

I know only one mirrage that has went well, and it was an ugly couple.

Good looking couples just suffer... they can't help it  :P.. love is like chocolate and red wine, that's about it... it's all about intercourse.


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Re: Proposed on Friday..
« Reply #24 on: October 19, 2010, 07:53:30 AM »
threesome with the 3rd head being another man, greate  :-X

I know only one mirrage that has went well, and it was an ugly couple.

Good looking couples just suffer... they can't help it  :P.. love is like chocolate and red wine, that's about it... it's all about intercourse.

And I thought Love is Like Oxygen