At what point in time in your relationship did you get your woman on the pill?

[Parker]

Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.

Whoa, whoa, back the fuck up partner! Slow your roll, brake them horses, haven't y'all been dating for a few months, and now you love her? And are these feelings reciprocated? Because if they were, she'd been on the pill like she was taking Flintstone vitamins...

[DK II]

Earlier women- weeks.

Now, I will not have my woman on the pill. I have discovered that they hornier and wilder while not on the pill.

NN

Yep, this is true.

[wavelength]

not my experience but probably different individually

[Bobby]

I did the pull out method for 1 year with some chick, fucking every day with no birth control and never had an accident.

 But i'm really good at pulling out a full 5 seconds before shooting a load.

 I don't think pre-cum has much spern in it. I think that's an urban legend.

me too, pray to god it keeps working. I don't think pre-cum has any sperm in it.

[w8m8]

Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.

Anything she will be given is a risk to her health in some way ... just a matter of how much .... a diaphram , spermicide , and pull out is the most safe without her taking any chemicals shot into her , taken orally or placed transdermally


Was it the heat of the moment .. or was it a long conversation beforehand that led her to give that up to you ?

after holding off for so long , with opportunities before , it's quite interesting what made her let that go instead of waiting longer or at least until she was on something for her own safety

[Hugo Chavez]

Was it a couple of months, weeks, years?

never.  She got those shots that last like 3 months a couple times but I convinced her to stop taking them.  I don't trust that shit and didn't want her getting cancer or some other crap down the road.  I like pulling out and shooting all over anyway  worked perfect for almost 10 years, then she said, "let's have a kid" less than 2 months after she said that, she was pregnant.  Pulling out worked fine for me, no pills, no shots, no bill, no worries.  We're back to the same method and no problems so far... other than missing a few times and having to change pillow cases

[Hugo Chavez]

get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...

bench

it's always worked for me just fine.  The doctors told us it was insane too, but it's worked.  If at some point it didn't, I wouldn't freak about it anyway, probably be happy as shit again.  In many ways having a kid is the biggest pain in the world, but in other ways it's the coolest shit ever.