My GF is being a dick.....

[225for70]

you re 40 y o+. Abandonned wife and daughter "but keep seeing her" - what an exemple you must be, you re daughter is going to look after a copy of your character once an adult-, lift weights to compensate for a low intelectual level, and have a "girlfriend". You re posting on a messageboard filled with teens as mature as you. You re looking for validation on the internet which proves none of the strategies of compensation you use in your everyday life for your shortcomings work. You obviously have insecurity about your sexuality and feel to brag about it like a teen constantly. You re over investing sexuality because your under investing other parts of your life. As long as you re over investing parts of your life and under ivnesting others you re going to be frustrated no matter what you do to hide the under ivnestments and underdevelopments.

Merry christmas and happy new year.

You spelled investing wrong several times...I would suggest you invest more into sentence formation and spelling...

[Firemuscle]

Here's the situation.

My GF wants to cook Christmas dinner at her house, which is a nice place, but it isn't that big. it's a split level with two bedrooms upstairs and the living room/dining room and kitchen downstairs. plus she has a young daughter so their are fucking toys everywhere

i have a 4 bedroom house that is fucking HUGE. tremendous kitchen, dining room and a great room that can easily seat 20 people with the master and 3 brs upstairs.

problem is she is being stubborn as fuck and insisting that we do it at her place because "I'm italian...I always cook and have Christmas at my place...it's my tradition.'  I have family coming in, as does she...and it's going to be uncomfortable and cramped...quite frankly i'm thinking of telling her FUCK YOU and just having my family at my house in comfort. But i love the girl and she is just trying to be a good hostess and have a nice holiday too...she's coming from a good place with this, she is just not thinking logically (surprise surprise )

What say ye.....getbiggers ?

 Sounds like a stupid, petty little problem.

 Sounds like an episode of friends or Seinfeld.

 Get a life, you queer.

[StickStickly]

Here's the situation.

My GF wants to cook Christmas dinner at her house, which is a nice place, but it isn't that big. it's a split level with two bedrooms upstairs and the living room/dining room and kitchen downstairs. plus she has a young daughter so their are fucking toys everywhere

i have a 4 bedroom house that is fucking HUGE. tremendous kitchen, dining room and a great room that can easily seat 20 people with the master and 3 brs upstairs.

problem is she is being stubborn as fuck and insisting that we do it at her place because "I'm italian...I always cook and have Christmas at my place...it's my tradition.'  I have family coming in, as does she...and it's going to be uncomfortable and cramped...quite frankly i'm thinking of telling her FUCK YOU and just having my family at my house in comfort. But i love the girl and she is just trying to be a good hostess and have a nice holiday too...she's coming from a good place with this, she is just not thinking logically (surprise surprise )

What say ye.....getbiggers ?

The fact that yall are arguing over a meaningless holiday tells me that this relationship isnt going to last. You should pick and choose your fights. Let her have her holiday. Atleast you can tell her i told ya soo if something goes wrong.

[Natural Man]

You spelled investing wrong several times...I would suggest you invest more into sentence formation and spelling...

I speak three languages and english is not my mother tong, fucktard.

Merry xmas and happy new year to you too btw.

[Palpatine Q]

the sooner you hurt a child psychologically or physically, the deeper are the sequels. Go back with your wife and daughter before it's too late and when you can still prevent a lot of bad stuff to happen.

You re not fooling anyone but people who are even less mature than you with your internet persona you use to make yourself feel better about your real life shortcomings. The first step to get better is to admit something is going wrong, not convincing yourself everything is fine when it's not, when in fact you re hurting the development of another human being who s counting on you for her survival.

You re basically living like a 17 y/o at the moment. Looks like someone is stuck in time. Even if you have a job it doesnt mean you re mature, or independant or completely autonomous psychologically speaking.

I guess you got abandonned by your own father which is why you reproduce the schema / scenario. Somehow it's not your fault. But once you become conscious of what you re reproducing, you become responsible for what you re going to do now and later in the future.

Yes..... i'm the first person in the history of the world to get divorced and meet someone new....I'm in uncharted waters here 

[tbombz]

Just go along with it until tomorrow night, then an accident will happen and her stove, oven, microwave, some vital piece of her cooking equipment will break for some odd reason, cough cough, and then y'all will be forced to use your place.

[Parker]

The fact that yall are arguing over a meaningless holiday tells me that this relationship isnt going to last. You should pick and choose your fights. Let her have her holiday. Atleast you can tell her i told ya soo if something goes wrong.

Holiday get togethers are a big deal, while where to have it may seem petty, sometimes it goes beyond that. For instance, if you have a big family, and part of the family wants to have it at someone's house because it is bigger, yet the person who has the house never stated that they want dinner or family over...it creates tension, and obligations

or if there is "family competition", ie, my house is bigger and I want to show off...

There are many more examples, depending on the family dynamic...

[Palpatine Q]

LOL @ my personal hater club

I posted this little scenario knowing you little shitstains would pull out your tampons and start typing furiously....you did not dissapoint  

Epic jealousy over me having a nice well rounded existence and sharing a little drama with my getbig peeps.....I guess when you spend your life alone and bitter, and you can't even make friends on a lousy message board..... i can see how this would irritate you  

[Palpatine Q]

Holiday get togethers are a big deal, while where to have it may seem petty, sometimes it goes beyond that. For instance, if you have a big family, and part of the family wants to have it at someone's house because it is bigger, yet the person who has the house never stated that they want dinner or family over...it creates tension, and obligations

or if there is "family competition", ie, my house is bigger and I want to show off...

There are many more examples, depending on the family dynamic...

to normal people like you and me they are....antisocial misfits can't relate

[Marty Champions]

will your girl stay mad at you if you make her go your way

[lesaucer]

option D.

[Les Grossman]

LOL @ my personal hater club
I posted this little scenario knowing you little shitstains would pull out your tampons and start typing furiously....you did not dissapoint  
Epic jealousy over me having a nice well rounded existence and sharing a little drama with my getbig peeps.....I guess when you spend your life alone and bitter, and you can't even make friends on a lousy message board..... i can see how this would irritate you  

Life's too short to worry about the small stuff. Have dinner at her house. Go there, have a good time and enjoy it. Let her be queen for a day. Put that bargaining chip in your pocket and save it for a rainy day.

'Tis the season to be jolly, let it go.

Trust me, things could be a lot worse.

[Firemuscle]

Life's too short to worry about the small stuff. Have dinner at her house. Go there, have a good time and enjoy it. Let her be queen for a day. Put that bargaining chip in your pocket and save it for a rainy day.

'Tis the season to be jolly, let it go.

Trust me, things could be a lot worse.

 Exactly. Not a big fucking deal.

 Groink's a bitch.

[Alex23]

to normal people like you and me they are....antisocial misfits can't relate

LOL exactly...  mine is being a Gestapo caunt too... she's always last fucking minute then run around melting at T minus 24hr.... every fucking time... then she crashes exhausted the day after... so I lose no matter what...

Alex: "What time can you be ready to leave tomorow?" (Alex asking but buffering at least 1.5hr)
Crazy wife: "I DONT KNOW!!!!!!!"
Alex: "well is it 9AM or 9PM....?"
Crazy wife: "ɂȾɀȱɀȬɻɿɿɮɯ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" (Ebonics?)
Alex: "Well anything I can do to help get you ready?"

Knowing to well she's gonna say "get out of my fucking way"....

Anyone in SD county up for brew at Churchill's in San Marcos?

[Palpatine Q]

Uberman is the biggest piece of shit on the entire board. Worst human being no doubt.

He's actually funny to me....he tries SO HARD to get a rise out of me it makes me laugh

[Palpatine Q]

Exactly. Not a big fucking deal.

 Groink's a bitch.

enjoy your holiday with an STD infested prostitute who doesn't care whether you live or die.  

[Firemuscle]

enjoy your holiday with an STD infested prostitute who doesn't care whether you live or die.  

 Actually I was with a chick like that last week. For holiday i'll be with my family.

 You drug addled fagggot.

[Palpatine Q]

Actually I was with a chick like that last week. For holiday i'll be with my family.

 You drug addled fagggot.

they couldn't ditch you...huh? 

[Alex23]

enjoy your holiday with an STD infested prostitute who doesn't care whether you live or die. 

I think you hit the nail bro...

All these little social misfits who would be shit scarred to address us in real life, their gift from us is to "allow" them to "interact" with us and feel that little glimpse of "sense of superiority"

[Les Grossman]

ask her for anal as a tradeoff, its all about fair game in a relationship...

Maybe she doesn't own a strap-on?

[Alex23]

option D.

It never gets old because it's true

[Firemuscle]

It never gets old because it's true

 If you keep on trying to be cool. Maybe it'll actually happen someday.

[Palpatine Q]

I think you hit the nail bro...

All these little social misfits who would be shit scarred to address us in real life, their gift from us is to "allow" them to "interact" with us and feel that little glimpse of "sense of superiority"

Indeed.....and then  "push the envelope" and try to make us mad by saying things they would never say to another person face to face  under any circumstance......so predictable, so lame

[TacoBell]

I havent read through the thread yet, which page has the GF's naked pics?

[Firemuscle]

Indeed.....and then  "push the envelope" and try to make us mad by saying things they would never say to another person face to face  under any circumstance......so predictable, so lame

 You and your "alpha male" crew are living a delusional life. You all think you're regulators, but you ain't regulating shit.

 You're just as bad as Team Nasser.

 That is all......