stop training to failure. stay at least 2 reps shy of failure every set. never ever go to the point of failure. lift heavy. very heavy. never go to failure. focus on the basics, use good form, master the basics using heavy weight. never go to failure. use HEAVY WEIGHT, GOOD FORM. never go to failure. bench press, dead lifts, shoulder press, deadlifts, some kind of squat, barbell rows, dumbell side laterals or upright rows, dumbell or barbell curls, some kind of tricep movement. calves/hams/abs. all heavy weight. all good form. hit every muscle every 2-4 days. dont go to failure. increase weight every couple workouts.