You couldn't be more wrong...let me put this is bbing terms for you. Kevin Levrone, your favorite bber---everyone I have talked to from his area down here has said that he is cool dude who helps people. Not one person has said that he is a asshole. Now, many people over the yrs have said Flex was a asshole---does this mean Flex was a Alpha and Levrone wasn't?
You don't have to a asshole to be an Alpha---in fact many people become assholes because ta a extreme reaction of what they used to be---"yes" men. Or nice guys. Some are assholes, because they are scared to be taken advantage of. And there are many ways a "alpha" can get his way without being a asshole---it has been said many times that Arnold has "charisma", this is his winning formula. One can also used one's spirituality to become an "alpha", there are many was to a singular goal...to think otherwise, shows that the exit ramp has been closed to The Path.
Alpha males are not always assholes, but they are most definitely the guys who march to their own drum. That is what defines an alpha-the leader whom others follow.
It is not really an attitude that makes them assholes in the first place- it is the fact that they make their own decisions, others (and their feelings) be damned.
For example, an alpha in a "relationship" with some girl (meaning to get constant pussy he has to pretend to care what the girl thinks- complete fallacy IMO) sees a hot piece of ass and instinctually goes after it. A girl will say "omg what an asshole!" Sorry girly, that is called BIOLOGY. An alpha will never miss the chance to spread some seed. 100 years from now his children and grandchildren will actually exist, unlike the weaker mens seed who currently run around on this world.
If you want to breed, and you were born to do it, then do it! FUck the world IMO. 200 years from now, no one will really give a fuck if you cheated or not, but your grandchildren will exist won't they? Sounds like winning to me.