Jessica Paxson Putnum leaves Peter....

[Natural Man]

Fuck this shit.

I want love. True love. I want to find a man that won't cheat on me. I want to get married, have a kid, the whole sha-fucking-bang.

And I don't look anywhere near as hot as Jessica.  

Is there any hope for us ordinary girls?

I can cook a delicious meal, I keep my place spotless, and I suck a mean cock.

Is it inevitable that I will get cheated on? Or are there some good ones left.

Be honest boys.

Date someone your age. Not older or younger.  Do not date a man who's parents are divorced and whose mostly listening to his father as his main influence, as most of these fathers tell their sons women are evil/whores etc. Date a guy who comes from a stable family. He will reproduce what he learnt =a stable , caring family.
Do not date a guy who spend his life watching TV or consum porn.
Date a guy who s into sports, if he s not into lifting weights teach him, and who has a good stable job he enjoys.
Take care of your looks as much as you can and practice sport.
Have your own friends, and do not wait for a guy who looks or acts like he comes straight from a soap or movie.
Get a TALKATIVE GUY.
Get to know your chosen one's father, as odds are very high he will become exactly like his father the older he gets.

Good luck finding this guy nowadays.

[Earl1972]

alpha has nothing to do with it Earl. Every guy is like that. But me 

yeah every guy is like that

the difference is the alpha gets it, the beta (most guys) doesn't

E

[Natural Man]

My standards? What's that?

Seriously...I tend to be attracted to the alpha male type. I like a guy that can take care of a girl emotionally, finacially, mentally and physically. Don't get me wrong...I have a full time job and can pay all my bills but I like men to be the "breadwinners".

I like old fashioned....just as long as I can retain my independance. It almost contradicts things but not quite.

Any of you studs willing to put a ring on my finger?

i didnt read this at first. Ok seems like you have 0 chance to find a good man then.

A very simple question tho; did your mother and father divorce?

[BikiniSlut]

Hmmm......I'm normal. Not religious, melodramtic (except on Getbig of course), good looking....not hot but a solid good looking....earn a good income, above average shape and body, and sweet as fuck.

Jessica probably got cheated on because

a) Peter thinks he's so much better than he is and thought he could do better (which he can't) OR

b) She's a religious nut

[Natural Man]

maybe jessica is all about teasing guys all day long but is a dead fish in bed.

As for you ''bikini slut'' (   ), men dont give a fuck if you earn a good income, your place is in the kitchen, in the gym, and in kids sleeping room. Sometimes you can go visit one or two good old reliable friends to socialize, and maybe your parents, but that's about it. You re suposed to have enough time to take care of the house,kids and most importantly your man.
Also wether you work 20 hour s a week at the local walmart or are a business executive doesnt matter the least to men. Actually i dont know any man who enjoys his woman earns more than him or sacrify time spent with him and/or kids to focus on a ''career''. Women are not suposed to have a career.

Some women get it right, and accept their condition. They re called happy women.

[The_Leafy_Bug]

maybe jessica is all about teasing guys all day long but is a dead fish in bed.

As for you ''bikini slut'' (   ), men dont give a fuck if you earn a good income, your place is in the kitchen, in the gym, and in kids sleeping room. Sometimes you can go visit one or two good old reliable friends to socialize, and maybe your parents, but that's about it. You re suposed to have enough time to take care of the house and kids.
Also wether you work 20 hour s a week at the local walmart or are a business executive doesnt matter the least to men. Actually i dont know any man who enjoys his woman earns more than him or sacrify time spent with him and/or kids to focus on a ''career''. Women are not suposed to have a career.

Some women get it right, and accept their condition. They re called happy women.

Hahahah you are so fucked in the head. Are you going to go on another God rant?

[BikiniSlut]

So this JESS DYBA.......this is the homewrecker?

[Howard]

On Monday 18th July 2011, @JessFit said:


Dear friends,

Instead of answering individual messages or posts, it is with a heavy heart that I am addressing the fact that you may have heard (or will be hearing) that Peter and I are in the process of finalizing our divorce. I would never feel the need to explain something so personal if we didn’t have so many great supporters that I feel obligated to.

I wanted to make a single statement to all of our incredible friends and supporters.

My obligation lies in the fact that Peter and I have openly professed our faith and I cannot let those that know that we made a vow, promise, and covenant before God think that we gave up or that it just didn’t work out… That is far from the truth.

Without going into detail, I will say that over an extended period of our marriage there were inappropriate relationships between my husband and other women. Recently a full blown adulterous affair was committed and he continues to pursue that, instead of our marriage.

I feel the need to state the obvious…I have been far from a perfect wife and take ownership of the fact that I have a lot of things that I need to work on, but biblically none would have been reasons, or excuses for an affair or a divorce.

I have fought for my marriage because I love my husband; believe that marriage is for life, and that God blesses that union. There comes a point, though, when one has to let go. I was given no choice when things became so unhealthy.

I trust that God is working through this very difficult time in my life. I know this because I received a word from Him that not only comforted me, but possibly changed my life forever. I will leave you with that word:

*I was told by the pastor that married Peter and I (Pastor Michael Wenger http://www.strongholdministries.com) that the Lord spoke to him and told him that I should take a pen and piece of paper and write, not think about what I was writing but let the Holy Spirit guide me. He said that God would speak to me.

I was nervous about doing this, but I took his word and began to write…I started off feeling cautious and over thinking things, but all of a sudden my hand started to fly over the paper and before I knew it I was done writing, but I had no clue what I had just written.
This is what I wrote:

"March on.
You are a soldier and warrior of God and you will lead others and be an inspiration.
You have SO much more to give and you have been held back.
Gifts have been given to you and you must serve.
I am God.
Trust
Trust"

You may not believe in God, but I know in my heart, mind, soul, and the very depth of my being that this was a direct message from God. He said, “I am God”!!!

As Pastor Mike said, “some people go their whole lives without hearing God in such an amazing way, but the God of the universe was gracious enough to speak to you in this miraculous way".

This will forever change me and I know He is watching over me. I hope and pray my story will touch your hearts and you will consider getting to know this amazing and powerful God that is comforting and walking me through one of the hardest times in my life.

I ask for your prayers and thank you for all of your love and support.

In Him,

Jessica

Nice couple, sad to see they broke up. I am not real big on this God and jesus crap, but Jessica seems like a decent , lovely woman and I still have a lot of respect for Peter P. Hey, he made a mistake and screwed around...it happens.
Having said that, I am pretty clueless why any guy would screw around on Jessica.
NOBODY in any relationship is perfect, sometimes ya gotta ride out the bad times and carry on. Sometimes your heart says move on.

[Howard]

The real question is...how many times would you go to church to bang Jessica?  Would you pretend to be a devout Christian just to hit that?

I would...I'd be willing to go to church with her 7...possibly 8 times...before wanting my Sundays back.  If it isn't going to happen after that long...it isn't going to happen at all...

As hot as Jessica is, I wouldn't claim to be a devout christain just to have sex with her. Why?
1. I suspect Jessica is quite sincere about her faith. When you lie about something that key to someone's belief system it creates some bad feelings after the truth comes out.

2. By being a moral, ethical NON christain , it helps prove my belief that one can be a decent , moral person without going to church or being a member of an organized religion.

[Howard]

I have a pretty face, nice ass and a decent set of tits.

Jessica has a pretty face, fantastic ass and phenomenal implants.

Does annoying #girl mean religious fanatic? Because that I'm not. And I highly suspect that Jessica is.

This sounds corny but I am my wife's best friend and think she is quite hot and sexy .
THAT is the key, ya gotta develop that closeness over time and enjoy a good sex life along the way.
I don't respect or care about religion myself

[Flexb]

Jessica's implants are average. Nothing exceptional there

[Natural Man]

Hahahah you are so fucked in the head. Are you going to go on another God rant?

this coming from a teen with no life who live in his mom 's basement and use steroids. Please.

[kh300]

just saw this

you "ladies" need to understand that the "alpha" has and always will have MULTIPLE PARTNERS

it has been this way for all species since the dawn of time, why is that so hard for you to understand?  how many examples of legit alphas (tiger woods, arnold, bill clinton) cheating does it take to get it through your heads?  how many politicians have to be busted for cheating?  how many bosses or ceo's do you have to hear about banging the secretary?

saying you want an "alpha" to be loyal is like a guy saying he wants a stripper to only take her clothes off for him

E

Cheating is not alpha. Cheating is a bitch move for weak men. Multiple partners in one thing, cheating on your wife is another.

If you need multiple partners, then good for you, be a fucking man and stay single. Only a punk ass bitch makes a promise he doesnt keep. Men arnt liars and punks. did they not teach you that in your 'how to be an alpha' handbook?

[The Abdominal Snoman]

All I read was you can suck a mean cock. Pretty sure if you want to get inside the mind of a male, there you go. Brutal honesty. If you aren't fat, you can find a good man no doubt about it.

Actually sucking a mean cock of a male only gets you into the mind of an unconscious thinking male. Most conscious thinking males understand that the only women who can truly suck a mean cock are in fact mudshark whores.

Fact is that if a woman wants to get into the mind of a male, she needs to be very bad at sex and tell her male friend that she's not experienced.  If he stays around, he will want to teach you things. And as soon as he thinks he can teach her things, then she has his mind.

[The Abdominal Snoman]

How can anyone on the planet take Putnam seriously with that cross eye? No offence but come on. Its no wonder he has to have his own business because there is no business owner on the planet that would hire him unless they were playing some kind of drinking game. And i'm also going to throw out there that I believe that this Putnam creature must have pictures of someone in the Hierarchy. There's no way anyone with a back like that makes it past the top 10 at the national level. No offence but come on. This cross eye bastard must have pictures and in the end it will mean the end of him. Guys like Jewbacca are protected. A blond haired crossed bastard with a teenage girls back is fucked.

[Howard]

This pic is the best one, and makes me wonder if she squirts...

She is smokin' hot but while I am sur she believes her faith, I wonder what the typical "church lady" thinks of her posing like this? hehe

[gh15]

just wanted to say i endorse this message too. Find a good motherlike girl who ll love you as your mother did love you (well, if your mother actually loved you) and teach her to become your own private whore in bed (but keep respecting her sincerely, and talk talk talk, dont keep anythign hidden, COMMUNICATE everything you think, this is the only way to overcome difficulties and find out how to solve problems in the interest of everyone; what we want is a woman who s both a whore in bed, yet is a good wife and life companion) this way she ll love you more but still will stay loyal to you and only you. Even if she s reluctant at first, in the long run she ll thank you for helping her to mature and become a more balanced individual. Most of the times good girls need to unlearn what have been taught to them about sex, or have psychological blocks that you must unblock first. But it only works if you truly love them and really invest your energy in bettering them. They ll teach you one thing or two about maturing as a man too, in return. This is how it is suposed to work. As gh said it, a woman who s been raised to become a whore will always be a cheating, lying whore, she wont change. She will pretend to be a good girl, but will never be. And a good girl can become a real whore (and it gets better as they age), yet still stay a good girl in all other aspects of life, and especially the most important one; becoming a mother.

Be realistic and balanced in the way you ll hunt for the loved one. She's as important as you. Do not not put her on pedestral, but do not put yourself on a pedestral either. It's about building one with two. Pick women the same age as you (not younger or older), from the same social class, the same generation, and who dont know what life is about. Teach her in the the first times, then learn together for the rest of your life.If you do not cheat on a good girl, she ll never cheat on you, as simple as that. Now with a whore... She ll cheat on you whatever you do.

On a side note; do not leave your highschool love cause it's often the truest of them all. Only people who get rich beyond belief get corrupt and betray their first and only love. Those who dont get rich stay with them and become the happiest men ever.


Also, very important; stop watching porn at all cost and ASAP, as it will takes months if not years before the damages done to your brain/perception of women and reality will be functionnal again. When surfing the net, block all porn pictures, ads full of almost naked whores (with adblock) as it conditions you over time to look for whores and miss the good girls. And throw your tv in the trash bin. And read.

The social cost of pornography;

http://www.internetsafety101.org/upload/file/Social%20Costs%20of%20Pornography%20Report.pdf

maybe your best posting on getbig ever,, very good,, i agree with all but the porn thing....cant change it lol already addict lol

gh15 approved

[BIG ACH]

Disgusted you keep saying that her involvement in the industry had a lot to do with their marriage's collapse, and if she had put their marriage before her involvement in the industry then things would've been different.

My question is, Really?  Is the industry REALLY that bad?  Can you elaborate more on what you mean by her involvement in the industry led to this?

Do you think its like this in ALL professional sports? or is this mainly  a problem with just Bodybuilding?


Thanks dude!

[gh15]

what do you mean what involvemtn,, the industry of bodybuild is show off big time,, you think we build muscle to be strong?? we build muscle to show them off!! do you really think anyone of us take hgh and insulina in those consistancy to be strong and chop woods? you got 175lb fella in gyms that out lift us and we just give them compliments and think good good break your back even more and get nothing out of it lol ,, we are arrogant assholes! ,, we dont care..iif its not on our body visible to the eye! it does not exsist ,,bodybuilders learn it when they become serious...its not enough to only have muscle...to be thick and huge...it is THE CONDITION who get you attention ,, it is when the muscle is lean that give you the looks and the stares....

inregard to her...same thing...when you are in the cult..and make money in the cult,, everywhere you go there are bodybuilders...we all look the fuckin same ,, all of us use the same shit ! yes some weight less some more...but over all same balonie,, she like it! ...she would fuck it! ,, she has fucked it!,,her insides want it,, she like muscle! she like cocks.,, if she didnt...she woudnt be in fitness world....do you really think girls would work in this if they were good girls? do you think strippers are good girls? all an act! all a fuckin act!

where did chiwawi turn when problem happen? oh jesus all mighty!

where did naturalo whatever i cant even think of name ,,lets just say all fake naturalos jeff and all the rest of those loonateek sick fellas...where do they turn when things go bad? you got it right pupils...they turn tooooooooo jesus all mighty THE LORD!

this is the common thing to this fucktards...

and where did jess the whore turn to? yessssss

all together now...

the lord our savior ,,he can undo the drugs ,, and he can undo the love of cocks ,, and he can undo eveyrthing ...until jimmy and eric call at 3 am and ask to come over because she need her medication.... ( to the dumb among you medication = cock )

gh15 approved

[Figo]

maybe Peter "saw" the other girl "had his back", unlike Jessie

[mass243]

Hmmm......I'm normal. Not religious, melodramtic (except on Getbig of course), good looking....not hot but a solid good looking....earn a good income, above average shape and body, and sweet as fuck.

Jessica probably got cheated on because

a) Peter thinks he's so much better than he is and thought he could do better (which he can't) OR

b) She's a religious nut

No.

You will die alone slut.
Men will cum in you until you're 35. After that, it's  just smelly old farts wanting to pay for blowjobs for you.
You will never have a marriage. That's for sure.

(If you really were a female which you're not)

[pellius]

Hmmm......I'm normal. Not religious, melodramtic (except on Getbig of course), good looking....not hot but a solid good looking....earn a good income, above average shape and body, and sweet as fuck.

Jessica probably got cheated on because

a) Peter thinks he's so much better than he is and thought he could do better (which he can't) OR

b) She's a religious nut

LOL @ "sweet as fuck"

[pellius]

this coming from a teen with no life who live in his mom 's basement and use steroids. Please.

He's not a teen!

[MAXX]

Some paths are highlighted with markers easily leading you to a point or destination.  Others are unclear, uneven, and often have obstacles.  As life unwinds and the journey continues I realize more than ever, life is about choices.  It's not always fun or easy but we know this is true.  Some choices you never imagined making.  Things become murky; they can become unclear, but as a Christian I know God's Word IS very clear.

It's with remorse and a heavy heart that I've brought pain and anguish to someone who loves me deeply.  I acknowledge I'm a sinner.  I'm a proud man who is humbly pursuing the Lord.  I have confidence that nothing can separate us from the love of the Lord.  Romans 8:28-30 "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son... And those whom He predestined He also called, and those whom He called He also justified, and those whom He justified He also glorified.

There’s many sides to the equation and two sides two every story; often the accounts differ based on who's version you hear.  This isn't that or intended to shift guilt or blame.  I recognize my need to become a better man and I need to be broken to do so.

I appreciate everyone's prayers and support during this time and hope that even when looking at this insanely emotional situation that Christ's love and gracecan be displayed.  I'm thankful for His mercy.  The cross is the ultimate example of sin being used for God's glory. May this prove to be a story of redemption and Christ is made known.

lol

[smoothasf]

Bikinislut actually a girl? It talks like a guy.