Jessica Paxson Putnum leaves Peter....

[MAXX]

Bikinislut actually a girl? It talks like a guy.

it's some homo pretending to be a girl

[Benny B]

it's some homo pretending to be a girl

[StanZoLOL]

She is smokin' hot but while I am sur she believes her faith, I wonder what the typical "church lady" thinks of her posing like this? hehe

if she truly "believed her faith", she WOULDN'T pose like that you silly old cun't

[tonymctones]

Why not C U N T?

I"m a woman. It comes naturally. Don't try and change what is instinctual to me.

lol so being a insecure, whiney slut comes natural to you?

and you wonder why guys go around your back and cheat?

if this idiocy comes natural to you and you use that as a crutch to indulge it then why do you ask questions about something that many believe comes natural to men?

seems to me you answered your own idiotic question here darling

[DroppingPlates]

if she truly "believed her faith", she WOULDN'T pose like that you silly old cun't

Oh yes she will, because, as long as she's uttering religious BS, her god forgives all her sins. That's why so many Americans are bible huggers.

[The_Leafy_Bug]

this coming from a teen with no life who live in his mom 's basement and use steroids. Please.

You think i'd be using drugs in the comfort of my own home? I had a strict upbringing. Your posts are becoming weaker over time.

[Stavios]

just wanted to say i endorse this message too. Find a good motherlike girl who ll love you as your mother did love you (well, if your mother actually loved you) and teach her to become your own private whore in bed (but keep respecting her sincerely, and talk talk talk, dont keep anythign hidden, COMMUNICATE everything you think, this is the only way to overcome difficulties and find out how to solve problems in the interest of everyone; what we want is a woman who s both a whore in bed, yet is a good wife and life companion) this way she ll love you more but still will stay loyal to you and only you. Even if she s reluctant at first, in the long run she ll thank you for helping her to mature and become a more balanced individual. Most of the times good girls need to unlearn what have been taught to them about sex, or have psychological blocks that you must unblock first. But it only works if you truly love them and really invest your energy in bettering them. They ll teach you one thing or two about maturing as a man too, in return. This is how it is suposed to work. As gh said it, a woman who s been raised to become a whore will always be a cheating, lying whore, she wont change. She will pretend to be a good girl, but will never be. And a good girl can become a real whore (and it gets better as they age), yet still stay a good girl in all other aspects of life, and especially the most important one; becoming a mother.

Be realistic and balanced in the way you ll hunt for the loved one. She's as important as you. Do not not put her on pedestral, but do not put yourself on a pedestral either. It's about building one with two. Pick women the same age as you (not younger or older), from the same social class, the same generation, and who dont know what life is about. Teach her in the the first times, then learn together for the rest of your life.If you do not cheat on a good girl, she ll never cheat on you, as simple as that. Now with a whore... She ll cheat on you whatever you do.

On a side note; do not leave your highschool love cause it's often the truest of them all. Only people who get rich beyond belief get corrupt and betray their first and only love. Those who dont get rich stay with them and become the happiest men ever.


Also, very important; stop watching porn at all cost and ASAP, as it will takes months if not years before the damages done to your brain/perception of women and reality will be functionnal again. When surfing the net, block all porn pictures, ads full of almost naked whores (with adblock) as it conditions you over time to look for whores and miss the good girls. And throw your tv in the trash bin. And read.

The social cost of pornography;

http://www.internetsafety101.org/upload/file/Social%20Costs%20of%20Pornography%20Report.pdf

that is your best post ever

[Cleanest Natural]

unterman again offering his opinion without anyone asking for it 

[Stavios]

unterman again offering his opinion without anyone asking for it 

I like him, he is spot on most of the time

I said "most" 

[Disgusted]

Disgusted you keep saying that her involvement in the industry had a lot to do with their marriage's collapse, and if she had put their marriage before her involvement in the industry then things would've been different.

My question is, Really?  Is the industry REALLY that bad?  Can you elaborate more on what you mean by her involvement in the industry led to this?

Do you think its like this in ALL professional sports? or is this mainly  a problem with just Bodybuilding?


Thanks dude!

Have you ever dated or been around a figure competitor? I have trained a ton of these girls over the years and I can tell you that 99% of them are extremely obsessive about everything in their lives. Also been around the judges and other trainers. Without gettin into all the drama I can tell you that if you want to have a happy marriage NEVER date one of  these girls. At least wait until they are done competing IF you really feel the need to get serious with one of them. I have seen so many marriages and relationships end over all the crap that these girls do and put themselves through.

[Secret Stack]

Have you ever dated or been around a figure competitor? I have trained a ton of these girls over the years and I can tell you that 99% of them are extremely obsessive about everything in their lives. Also been around the judges and other trainers. Without gettin into all the drama I can tell you that if you want to have a happy marriage NEVER date one of  these girls. At least wait until they are done competing IF you really feel the need to get serious with one of them. I have seen so many marriages and relationships end over all the crap that these girls do and put themselves through.

Oh, c'mon...

maybe start off like this: "there was this one girl...."

 

[smoothasf]

No porn? Are you f u c k I ng nuts!

[njanvi]

She is smokin' hot but while I am sur she believes her faith, I wonder what the typical "church lady" thinks of her posing like this? hehe

Wonder if her Pastor will put this on the church bulletin

[Earl1972]

Cheating is not alpha. Cheating is a bitch move for weak men. Multiple partners in one thing, cheating on your wife is another.

If you need multiple partners, then good for you, be a fucking man and stay single. Only a punk ass bitch makes a promise he doesnt keep. Men arnt liars and punks. did they not teach you that in your 'how to be an alpha' handbook?

politicians need to come off as "family men" to get votes

tiger needed a wife to appear "wholesome" to endorsers

maybe guys like arnold wanted a family with one special girl, but still desired other women that threw themselves at him on a daily basis

understand now?

E

[BIG ACH]

Have you ever dated or been around a figure competitor? I have trained a ton of these girls over the years and I can tell you that 99% of them are extremely obsessive about everything in their lives. Also been around the judges and other trainers. Without gettin into all the drama I can tell you that if you want to have a happy marriage NEVER date one of  these girls. At least wait until they are done competing IF you really feel the need to get serious with one of them. I have seen so many marriages and relationships end over all the crap that these girls do and put themselves through.

Yes I've been around many, never dated any of them, and I married my high school sweetheart LOL

But him cheating on her isn't as a result of her competing?  or is it?

[Internet Tough Guy]

Ben Rapelisburger.

[StanZoLOL]

Yes I've been around many, never dated any of them, and I married my high school sweetheart LOL

But him cheating on her isn't as a result of her competing?  or is it?

She's probably natural since switching to bikini = less/no gear = less sex drive.

[GHGut]

On Monday 18th July 2011, @JessFit said:


Dear friends,

Instead of answering individual messages or posts, it is with a heavy heart that I am addressing the fact that you may have heard (or will be hearing) that Peter and I are in the process of finalizing our divorce. I would never feel the need to explain something so personal if we didn’t have so many great supporters that I feel obligated to.

I wanted to make a single statement to all of our incredible friends and supporters.

My obligation lies in the fact that Peter and I have openly professed our faith and I cannot let those that know that we made a vow, promise, and covenant before God think that we gave up or that it just didn’t work out… That is far from the truth.

Without going into detail, I will say that over an extended period of our marriage there were inappropriate relationships between my husband and other women. Recently a full blown adulterous affair was committed and he continues to pursue that, instead of our marriage.

I feel the need to state the obvious…I have been far from a perfect wife and take ownership of the fact that I have a lot of things that I need to work on, but biblically none would have been reasons, or excuses for an affair or a divorce.

I have fought for my marriage because I love my husband; believe that marriage is for life, and that God blesses that union. There comes a point, though, when one has to let go. I was given no choice when things became so unhealthy.

I trust that God is working through this very difficult time in my life. I know this because I received a word from Him that not only comforted me, but possibly changed my life forever. I will leave you with that word:

*I was told by the pastor that married Peter and I (Pastor Michael Wenger http://www.strongholdministries.com) that the Lord spoke to him and told him that I should take a pen and piece of paper and write, not think about what I was writing but let the Holy Spirit guide me. He said that God would speak to me.

I was nervous about doing this, but I took his word and began to write…I started off feeling cautious and over thinking things, but all of a sudden my hand started to fly over the paper and before I knew it I was done writing, but I had no clue what I had just written.
This is what I wrote:

"March on.
You are a soldier and warrior of God and you will lead others and be an inspiration.
You have SO much more to give and you have been held back.
Gifts have been given to you and you must serve.
I am God.
Trust
Trust"

You may not believe in God, but I know in my heart, mind, soul, and the very depth of my being that this was a direct message from God. He said, “I am God”!!!

As Pastor Mike said, “some people go their whole lives without hearing God in such an amazing way, but the God of the universe was gracious enough to speak to you in this miraculous way".

This will forever change me and I know He is watching over me. I hope and pray my story will touch your hearts and you will consider getting to know this amazing and powerful God that is comforting and walking me through one of the hardest times in my life.

I ask for your prayers and thank you for all of your love and support.

In Him,

Jessica

This girl is nuts. I love her!

[Mclovin]

I met Jessica a few times when I used to workout at the same gym as her. She is super hot in person and was always very friendly as well.

[Nails]

I guess the lord blessed him with keeping the dogs after the divorce


http://twitter.com/#!/jessfit

 @JessFit 
Jessica Paxson
Another vry tough day. About 2 say goodbye 2 my sweet boxer boys Puncher and Pricey. My heart is breaking.

[Mclovin]

I guess the lord blessed him with keeping the dogs after the divorce


http://twitter.com/#!/jessfit

 @JessFit 
Jessica Paxson
Another vry tough day. About 2 say goodbye 2 my sweet boxer boys Puncher and Pricey. My heart is breaking.

That is actually very sad

[Parker]

I guess the lord blessed him with keeping the dogs after the divorce


http://twitter.com/#!/jessfit

 @JessFit 
Jessica Paxson
Another vry tough day. About 2 say goodbye 2 my sweet boxer boys Puncher and Pricey. My heart is breaking.

Hmmm, i guess they have the dogs to represent kids---as he was/is sterile and her test levels are higher than a 40 yr old man's...good thing they never had kids (What a good Christian couple is supposed to do.)

[newmom]

That is actually very sad

This.

[DK II]

ahahaah, they should make a reality soap style TV-show of this, mixed up with training and shower scenes from Jessica. 

[tweeter]

How do you decide who gets to keep dogs when you get divorced? Is that actually determined in court?