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Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
« Reply #125 on: September 23, 2011, 12:13:32 PM »
I have had my heart smashed to bits several times and have had it with the whole deal. My last relationship was two years ago. Her and I were together 10 years. She cheated and played games and that was that.

I dated this one girl in the late '90s who I was TOTALLY head over heels for. Never felt that way before or since. Crazy for this chick. Everything she said was perfect; she looked perfect (to me), etc. Then over the course of a season or two I found out she was completely psychotic and basically lived a split life. Crushed me, dead.

I'd like to believe in romantic love, but I just do not any longer.

Not ONCE have I ever cheated on a girl. Hell, with that 10-year gal I lived alone in another country for a few years. Had all sorts of chances to cheat. Never did.

In the end she treated me like just some piece of shit who never mattered.

Fuck it.  

I will explain this idea 100%

There is a dicotomy in every woman, every woman loves two things: power and sex.

However to them power is what they make you do in order to have sex with them, so in other words power = how crazy u get when they don't have sex with you.

So this woman had power over you and so she kept the relationship going, but when she needed to get fucked she went somewhere else... she couldn't come to you for sex, then her power is gone, see?

Nothing about being strong with them or whatever, it's a gene that gets activated by certain conditions in your environment such as women sucking your dick and accepting a wad of spit into their mouths with a smile, or it doesn't and you forever stay a beggar, never a chooser. No disrespect, but that's how it is, you the happiness of accepting a woman's will into your mind, the price for this happiness is being deceived, if you want to be a chooser there's courage required, it isn't free, treating a woman like the dog she is takes courage plane and simple

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Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
« Reply #126 on: September 23, 2011, 12:14:15 PM »
I know right, what is it a test or competition. No.. your just fucking other bitches and being unfaithful not "cheating".

we here at Getbig love semantics, don't we?

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« Reply #127 on: September 23, 2011, 12:15:52 PM »
Thanks dude you made me feel good. You not only cheated once but several times in the relationship, you also say you were adicted to pills.

You have a pretty consistent mark of a douchebag. Sorry dude it's the truth. Cheating on your girl don't make you a bad person, but it's behavior that shitty people are great at. No matter how long ago this happened unless you've made some very fundamental changes, (finding god, quitting drugs, or stopping cheating DOES NOT COUNT) your still a peace of shit. Sorry and know crying and having emotions does not make you a good person, everyone thinks there a good person, it's being aware of the results of your actions that makes you have way descent. Cheating for you, is most likely just the tip of the iceberg of how your an asshole.

 

lol @ this, this is how cowards react, this is the will of women that inhabits your brain reactiving negatively, in reality this notion that a woman's will is sacred is a lie, women love to be disciplined with pain and sorrow, simply takes courage to push out a woman's will out of your head and fill it with your own

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« Reply #128 on: September 23, 2011, 12:20:30 PM »
lol @ this, this is how cowards react, this is the will of women that inhabits your brain reactiving negatively, in reality this notion that a woman's will is sacred is a lie, women love to be disciplined with pain and sorrow, simply takes courage to push out a woman's will out of your head and fill it with your own

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Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
« Reply #129 on: September 23, 2011, 04:10:11 PM »
Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together
Wow...that is disturbing. Lol. Can you say "stalker"? 

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #130 on: September 23, 2011, 04:11:49 PM »

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #131 on: September 23, 2011, 05:02:55 PM »
Ok so she cheats on you and you know that she cheats on you. Now you know that she has had another man's penis in her mouth and you're going to take her back and kiss her. I don't know...thats kinda like kissing his penis when you kiss her which is kinda gay...  :-\

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« Reply #132 on: September 23, 2011, 05:04:09 PM »
Ok so she cheats on you and you know that she cheats on you. Now you know that she has had another man's penis in her mouth and you're going to take her back and kiss her. I don't know...thats kinda like kissing his penis when you kiss her which is kinda gay...  :-\

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« Reply #133 on: September 23, 2011, 05:09:51 PM »
HA seriously though. If your girl sucks another man off and you take her back she has no respect for you period. Heck I'd say you have no respect for yourself but in this day and age it wouldn't surprise me when men shop in the women's section for clothes now and carry their woman's purses for them and shit like that.

How could you even look at her the same way after some shit like? Love? A woman who loves you wouldn't stoop so low as to do something like that. A girl who does this is a ho...plain and simple.



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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #134 on: September 23, 2011, 05:14:25 PM »
HA seriously though. If your girl sucks another man off and you take her back she has no respect for you period. Heck I'd say you have no respect for yourself but in this day and age it wouldn't surprise me when men shop in the women's section for clothes now and carry their woman's purses for them and shit like that.

How could you even look at her the same way after some shit like? Love? A woman who loves you wouldn't stoop so low as to do something like that. A girl who does this is a ho...plain and simple.




Do you want me to be serious or something, I mean I don't know if you are serious, but you are a virgin ok, it doesn't matter if you've had sex because it hasn't had the effect it should have

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« Reply #135 on: September 23, 2011, 06:36:53 PM »
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it
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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #136 on: September 23, 2011, 06:39:39 PM »
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it
Aren't you the guy that jacked off his buddy?
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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« Reply #137 on: September 23, 2011, 06:40:51 PM »
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it

My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power

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« Reply #138 on: September 23, 2011, 06:46:48 PM »
And listen... do you think I joke when I talk about the dichotomy of women's love for power and her love for sex? Do you think I'm bullshitting? You understand if you let a woman's will inhabit your mind, she will then look for another man to inhabit hers, because that's what women really want to happen they are DOGS, they function best with a man owner... if you fall in love with a woman and she doesn't fuck around on you, you got lucky, it's like making a bad play in poker and hitting your flush, it's a bad move, it's a losing move, you gotta count on being lucky

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #139 on: September 23, 2011, 06:57:48 PM »
Aren't you the guy that jacked off his buddy?

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #140 on: September 23, 2011, 07:19:04 PM »
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power

looks like we have something in common. My mom kicked me out when I was 17 I was a junior in hs at the time really getting shitty grades. I just hated school, waste of time to me and I couldnt stand being around a bunch of slow mexicans all day. Just a huge insult to flin, Im not bragging but Im just telling it the way it was. School was a total insult to me.

One day she comes home, calls me up while Im smoking with a couple friends and tells me all my shit is on the front lawn. She found orals, , some pot , a shitload of test amps, proviron,  I think I had some deca in there too. It wasnt so much the gear I doubt she knew what the fuck  "omnadren"  was. My guess is   it was the needles , thats a sight that would make any mother loose her head.  over a  year later here I am supporting myself on the east coast.  My dad helped me  out until I got my feet on the ground.  Thank god my dad's jewishness was with him and  was there to support me, it didnt do a thing for my mom. You would never guess in a million years she is Jewish, she totally takes advantage of my dad and his money just a very cold person.  My mom said if I stayed then she would leave my father with all the money. I couldn't do that to him.  So yeah I know what your saying about women . Although I still love her cause she is my mom, I will always hate the bitch
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« Reply #141 on: September 23, 2011, 08:07:58 PM »
looks like we have something in common. My mom kicked me out when I was 17 I was a junior in hs at the time really getting shitty grades. I just hated school, waste of time to me and I couldnt stand being around a bunch of slow mexicans all day. Just a huge insult to flin, Im not bragging but Im just telling it the way it was. School was a total insult to me.

One day she comes home, calls me up while Im smoking with a couple friends and tells me all my shit is on the front lawn. She found orals, , some pot , a shitload of test amps, proviron,  I think I had some deca in there too. It wasnt so much the gear I doubt she knew what the fuck  "omnadren"  was. My guess is   it was the needles , thats a sight that would make any mother loose her head.  over a  year later here I am supporting myself on the east coast.  My dad helped me  out until I got my feet on the ground.  Thank god my dad's jewishness was with him and  was there to support me, it didnt do a thing for my mom. You would never guess in a million years she is Jewish, she totally takes advantage of my dad and his money just a very cold person.  My mom said if I stayed then she would leave my father with all the money. I couldn't do that to him.  So yeah I know what your saying about women . Although I still love her cause she is my mom, I will always hate the bitch


have some self esteem for chrissake

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #142 on: September 23, 2011, 09:08:16 PM »
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power
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« Reply #143 on: September 23, 2011, 09:27:35 PM »
You're welcome.. ;D

50 THINGS A MAN SHOULD THINK ABOUT HIS WOMAN   Author Unknown.

1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a woman's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a woman's character, let her go.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change her or yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Don't let a woman push you into a relationship you don’t want to be in.
8. A woman wants to be with a man she can be proud of at all times. Don’t be a fool.
9. It takes a second to lose her trust, and a lifetime to gain it back.
10. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
12. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
13. Avoid women who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Don’t be with a mean-spirited person. Being “mad at the time” is not a good excuse.
16. Be with a woman you admire and trust.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let her figure things out (but don't wait for her, move on).
18. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If she causes any of them...flee.
19. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
20. Don't let her place rules on you that she is not willing to follow herself -- double-standard.
21. Don’t worry about what your friends say, think about how you feel.
22. Be with someone who shows kindness... to everyone.
23. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make her into a goddess. She is a woman, nothing more, nothing less.
25. Don’t be superficial, remember 25 years from now its not going to matter “who’s cuter”.
26. Actions speak louder than words. Don't play games.
27. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
28. Just because she says she loves you, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
29. Love is a verb.
30. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
31. All women are NOT bitches.
32. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
33. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone else.
34. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
35. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing attractive about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
36. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
37. Never become your woman's "therapist".
38. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions.
39. Be with a woman who respects herself.
40. Give her space...let her go out with the girls, don't pressure her to spend time with you, You can't force a woman to hang out with you.
41. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
42. Never co-sign for a woman or let her mess-up your credit.
43. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. Find someone you can talk to.
44. When it's time to let go; let go.
45. Good women should be treated like good women.
45. Good women do want good men.
46. You can't make a wh**e into a housewife.
47. Never date a girl who looks fake or acts fake.
48. If you want out, get out. Don’t be complacent or lazy.
49. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
50. There is someone out there worthy to be in your life. Let out the trash, so she can come in

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Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
« Reply #144 on: September 23, 2011, 09:52:21 PM »
weird, most girls do anything to avoid blow job duty
where do you find these girl pure natural strenght lol

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #145 on: September 23, 2011, 10:07:04 PM »
lmao @ 13.

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #146 on: September 24, 2011, 12:46:33 AM »
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power
So, she kicked you out for a reason. Her house (as the parent), her rules.
Our mothers are the first women we have a relationship with, when that is strained, our perception of women is skewed.
I have a jobin which most (98%) are liars, cheats, and cheaters. Both the men and women, and they continually do it...many times the women "look" nice, but they have no admirable qualities, and they date men with no admirable qualities (just like their fathers, and the women are just like the guys mothers). So, with this being said, do you date women with no real admirable qualities? Do they only have good "surface" qualities?

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #147 on: September 24, 2011, 05:48:01 AM »
it got to be americano mothers,, this is not how international mothers act,, especilay nto jew mothers,, they would feed spoon their son til they are 50 year old with soup,, they will complain he dont eat enough ,, they will always stand for their kids,, they will always blame everyone for anything done wrong beside their kid because their kid is best,,

i told you before americano parents are fucked up,, not all some are ok but most of them just ..well thats how they were raised,, its shitty life ,, sad for whomoever need to go through it ,, it get you strong though but it also get you nasty fucked up person ,,

again you need to look around you at what happening,, human being is at the lowest of the lowest culturally ,, and your parents are part of it,, it is a big problem what happened to americnaa society ,, big big problem

i dont think its recoverable as of the next 10-20 years,, maybe im wrong ,, i hope im wrong,,

when the only fella on americano tv i like to watch is don imus...it tell you something on the americano society ,, the americano society is fake shit balonie that is really really got to the buttom of the buttom now day ,, don imus keep it real but aside from him really everything ishorrid and catastrophic ,,that include the mams descriptions you just put here,, they are part of it all

a jew mom to treat her kid like this? blood mother?? JEW mohters? jew mother will let herself starve! for her boy or girl to have clothes and warm soup in and on their body,,

the storys you tell here are horrid and very sad,, it show how low th esociety got last 15 years,, it wasnt like that back in the 70s and 80s ,,it went catasrophic in the mid 90s and out of control in the 2000s,,

very sad

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #148 on: September 24, 2011, 05:59:08 AM »
Americano, no, born and raised in another country,

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Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
« Reply #149 on: September 24, 2011, 06:04:39 AM »
You're welcome.. ;D

50 THINGS A MAN SHOULD THINK ABOUT HIS WOMAN   Author Unknown.

1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a woman's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a woman's character, let her go.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change her or yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Don't let a woman push you into a relationship you don’t want to be in.
8. A woman wants to be with a man she can be proud of at all times. Don’t be a fool.
9. It takes a second to lose her trust, and a lifetime to gain it back.
10. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
12. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
13. Avoid women who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Don’t be with a mean-spirited person. Being “mad at the time” is not a good excuse.
16. Be with a woman you admire and trust.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let her figure things out (but don't wait for her, move on).
18. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If she causes any of them...flee.
19. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
20. Don't let her place rules on you that she is not willing to follow herself -- double-standard.
21. Don’t worry about what your friends say, think about how you feel.
22. Be with someone who shows kindness... to everyone.
23. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make her into a goddess. She is a woman, nothing more, nothing less.
25. Don’t be superficial, remember 25 years from now its not going to matter “who’s cuter”.
26. Actions speak louder than words. Don't play games.
27. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
28. Just because she says she loves you, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
29. Love is a verb.
30. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
31. All women are NOT bitches.
32. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
33. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone else.
34. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
35. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing attractive about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
36. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
37. Never become your woman's "therapist".
38. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions.
39. Be with a woman who respects herself.
40. Give her space...let her go out with the girls, don't pressure her to spend time with you, You can't force a woman to hang out with you.
41. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
42. Never co-sign for a woman or let her mess-up your credit.
43. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. Find someone you can talk to.
44. When it's time to let go; let go.
45. Good women should be treated like good women.
45. Good women do want good men.
46. You can't make a wh**e into a housewife.
47. Never date a girl who looks fake or acts fake.
48. If you want out, get out. Don’t be complacent or lazy.
49. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
50. There is someone out there worthy to be in your life. Let out the trash, so she can come in


very good ones!