before coming to getbig i was always really uneasy reading bbing message boards. i constantly wondered "are... are these guys for real?" when they would go on about how hardcore they were in the gym, how much they loved lifting weights, how awesome they were at preparing chicken and rice, what great genetics they had, etc. i felt like the only "normal person" in a room full of crazy meatheads.
i also avoided any steroid boards or discussions about steroids, which wasn't really that hard considering there were more than enough people who wanted to talk my ear off about the latest training techniques and supplements...
coming here was a breath of fresh air in some ways. it also made me much less trusting in general. i imagine most people go through a period in their life where they learn to doubt before they trust. some learn as children, when abused by their parents; some in highschool, when they fall out with their longtime friends; some in the work world, when they realize they've been getting screwed over by their coworkers; some not until they find their wife cheating on them. well, i learned at getbig, i guess, when i finally realized all the "natural bodybuilders" that had made me feel so pathetic were, well, far from natural.