Apply85, sometimes you sound like a twisted, Bizarro version of me...other times, I think yo' are reading my mind. And Kh300 is correct, so is Super Natural...
What we are really seeing is the the same ol' game played out again and again, this time men are beginning to realize, that it is women who hold the keys to the kingdom, not men---which is what we were told, but it was never explained that covertly, your ass needs "permission" to enter.
And as such, men do all the stupid things to gan acceptance---tattoos, hairstyles, lift weights, expensive cars that they cannot afford, consult PU artists, meanwhile being in a world that rewards imagery over substance---and ultimately, people hate faking, that is why both men and women are miserable.
Spiritually we have fucked up...instead of taking people for who they are, we (men and women) take people for who they "present" themselves to be and what they can do for us in the short term...
Short term, men today want the ass...short term for women, security and to be seen with the cool guy. And sex---fast, hard, and quick...because we have become addicted to the endorphin rush, but like any addict, your spirit becomes effed, as you really have no spiritually connection to that person, and that is what we all need...that connection. This is what truly makes us human.
And this breakdown is what really leads to the schism between men and women today. We desire each other based upon the physical imagery that we present, but never getting to know the person, mentally or physically---yet want the other person to accept us for who we truly are.