what do I do. Kid isn't mine.

[apply85]

was to young to kno of this n I guess one big thing I'm takin from this forum is where they come from matters. She was never a slutty girl. Only other guy is her ex her first love n fuck. So obv as a girl she's retarded with that.

but matter of fact her dad wasn't around. Her mother cared more about her bfs than she did her kids n got her kids taken away. Always bf to next bf n didn't want to be alone. N eventually kids my gf was in a foster home. She was never a slut acted dressed etc only one other guy. But obv she is so messed up n doesn't want to be alone same time is so caught up in this whole first love first fuck bullshit n is never gonna let go in her mind.

am I safe to assume that's correct?

and yes my parents were separated n bad parents. But I was always pretty mature. Hence I'm here raising a kid n scared to walk out on it. Never did drugs in my life always been a very calm n colect person.

so now you know this kid isn't yours but u still don't understand that everything she told you was a lie, that includes her sexual past and everything else, find some strength for once

[lyquid]

Just a question tho. You told us you thought kid was yours from the beginning.

But are you being honnest here?

I dont know, maybe you knew kid wasnt yours from the beginning, told her you would stay with her for ever, would raise it as if he would be your own kid...and finally changed your mind... and are actually bullshiting us?

lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...

I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..

truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me

[apply85]

lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...

I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..

truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me

if there's no doubt it's yours why is she saying there's no doubt it's yours? You said earlier the timing was suspicious

[Raymondo]

So what you're saying is that you suspected it couldn't be yours because when you were fucking her you were on the juice which made you think you were near-impotent?

Matey... do as runningmom says. Get a paternity test immediately.

[Natural Man]

if there's no doubt it's yours why is she saying there's no doubt it's yours? You said earlier the timing was suspicious

I tell you, this guy will turn out to be just another asshole who s trying to convince himself and others that it's right to abandon his own kid. Walking in the steps of his own father who abandonned him when he was a kid.

If it's his kid, it's his kid, period. Why leave her and the kid? Because of what he told us about the letter she wrote to that ex ? It makes less and less sense as the thread goes. If it's your kid man the fuck up, raise him and keep your bitch in check and make her love you.

Is there a need to read the thread's title again;

Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.

[lyquid]

srsly fuck off man here.

password billetlog that's his email he gave my best friend his email n password. sthe emails were sent in october first email.. He said he doesn't check his email n obv seen it replied than she replied 2 days ago!!!! This is when I found out yesterday tho. Read the fuckin email look at the dates. If you read ur girl saying that shit ud be heart broken to.

...

You re becoming less and less convincing ...

If it's yours, you stay with her/him and keep raising him while keeping her on check you worthless piece of shit. You have no excuses to leave if its yours.

What kind of fucked liar are you yourself? Considering you come from a dysfunctional family yourself, and that your own father might have abandonned you, you re clearely conditionned to reproduce this behavior, and it looks like it's just what you re potentially attempting to do, while bullshiting us and even yourself.

Frigging mental cases i swear.

[dustin]

Don't sweat uberman's rants. Just take care of yourself and do something to occupy your mind in the meanwhile. Hit the gym or do whatever else makes you happy. If you're feeling a bit depressed then maybe do something you normally wouldn't do. Whatever keeps your mind busy.

[newmom]

lol.... No even gonna ask why ur asking this. I'm very jealous guy if I knew she was preg by aother guy no way...

I was with lotsa girls before n never got em preg. She got preg yes I was super suspicous... Why? Cuz I was o juice n never had a scare before... Was super sucipoius....... But I believed it was mine after time she always said no doubt its mine..

truat me I wudnt be attached to this kod n brag to everyone how good looking baby I made n how gorgeous n she's what I made. Cuz now I feel like a complete fuckin fool trust me

I was told kids probably weren't possible. Nugget was conceived at nationals and he was on so much gear so that throws the theory out the window. Like I said before, I doubt she knows for sure who the child's father is.

[wes]

it wouldnt surprise me if you ruined a family or two yourself, based on your comments on these questions on here.

You sound like the pefect example of a man in his 50s who focused his whole life on his little muscles and ego, ruined a family, and is trying to fit with the young boys on the internet cause nobody cares about him in real life anymore as he burnt all the bridges with his family members in the past.

Basically a bad man, a loser, pretending to be a wise old man - on the internet-, like there are many nowadays.

But i guess you simply reproduced what your own father did to you, without having a clue about what you were doing before figuring it out once it was alrdy too late.

Animals abandon their offsprings, not humans. Humans who do, arent humans, and they reap what they sow.

Brutal assumptions !!  LOL 

I love how you make up your own scenarios about people when you have no clue what said person is even like in real life.

Sigmund Freud you ain`t ! 

[newmom]

I could be wrong, but now I'm starting to think we're feeding a troll

[lyquid]

I tell you, this guy will turn out to be just another asshole who s trying to convince himself and others that it's right to abandon his own kid. Walking in the steps of his own father who abandonned him when he was a kid.

If it's his kid, it's his kid, period. Why leave her and the kid? Because of what he told us about the letter she wrote to that ex ? It makes less and less sense as the thread goes. If it's your kid man the fuck up, raise him and keep your bitch in check and make her love you.

bro  she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.

I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.

[lyquid]

I could be wrong, but now I'm starting to think we're feeding a troll

log on his email. Read the dates urself. Ill video tape the whore calling herself a cheater n that getbig thinks she's  wrthless to if you want

[Natural Man]

bro  she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.

I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.

Exactly what i said. Now you turned the whole thread into "kid is mine, woman cheated on me twice, i want to abandon both of them, oh by the way, i come from a dysfunctionnal family and my own father abandonned me when i was a kid".

What's next? You ll tell us you re the one who actually cheated on her and that she didnt really cheat on you?


Oh man.

[El Diablo Blanco]

bro  she's cheated twice and I'm still in this fuckin place with her with the kid. You don't kno how many hear breakin emails I've read of her not loving me n she only ever has loved him n only ever will and I'm a mistake.. Read it yesterday and 2 yrs ago same shit same guy.

I deserve to be unhappy forever with a whore who doesn't love her husband n make a kid see a unhealthly relationship? Hows that fair... If I was heartless I wudda left. I'm still here.

You need to just walk away.  Time will heal your wounds.  To be honest , you need to move away and start over, new city, new job, new life.  There are 4 billion women in this world.  I'm sure you can find another that will make you happy.

[apply85]

uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.

Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you

[lyquid]

Exactly what i said. Now you turned the whole thread into "kid is mine, woman cheated on me twice, i want to abandon both of them, oh by the way, i come from a dysfunctionnal family and my own father abandonned me when i was a kid".

What's next? You ll tell us you re the one who actually cheated on her and that she didnt really cheat on you?


Oh man.

bro I find out one day ago a kid is not mine. Obviously I'm still caling the kid mine by fuckin habbit. You don't stop lovin ur fuckin kid in one day after you loved it for a yr. It'll take time to let go.

I posted the email but it didn't show up must be blocked. Pm me for his email n password . The emails were sent over amonth ago n one 2 days ago. Read all the shit she's said... Not trolling anyone n I can prove anything easily...

[Palpatine Q]

Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom"  ....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig  

and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too

[newmom]

log on his email. Read the dates urself. Ill video tape the whore calling herself a cheater n that getbig thinks she's  wrthless to if you want

I'm good, I thank you though.

Just see if the child is yours. If she is, file to get the child NOW. If not, get your damn name off the certificate.

[Borracho]

What a fucking whore bro.

[newmom]

and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too

cute again eh?

[lyquid]

uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.

Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you

thanks man. No idea why I'm being fuckin questioed.

ill take a vid n upload it. Showing a women feeling like complete shit n admiting she's a bitch and make her saygetbig.com if uwant lol

[Raymondo]

I'm not beating on anyone, mate. In fact, I spent twenty minutes to make one of the very few constructive posts here when everyone else is just parroting the same old cliches.

I think the OP's mind is in significant turmoil and there's some confusion and some contradictions, I'm sure as days go by things will become clearer in his head.

[apply85]

nah just post nakey pics of her

[johnnynoname]

Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom"  ....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig  

and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too

Groink,

I don't know if you were CC'd on the memo but everyone on this forum is a expert in Psychoanalysis and contributing Political Analysts for both the New York Times and the Washington Post.

Btw, Derek Anthony is a nominee to be Poet Laureate for the US

[Natural Man]

uberman and raymond u guys gotta understand it's a sensitive situation, he doesnt need u questioning him, he had a suspicion this kid isn't his and now his nightmare came true, he needs to find strength right now not get beaten up.

Make up for your past mistakes by being strong in the future, if the kid is yours and u want it, try to get custody and leave her to herself, steal away with the kid and start another life somewhere else with it and make sure to instil in the kid loyalty to you

No.

Kid needs both mother and father for a full psychological and physical development. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this now 7 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared immature young father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.

Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.