what do I do. Kid isn't mine.

[newmom]

I'm not beating on anyone, mate. In fact, I spent twenty minutes to make one of the very few constructive posts here when everyone else is just parroting the same old cliches.

I think the OP's mind is in significant turmoil and there's some confusion and some contradictions, I'm sure as days go by things will become clearer in his head.

if this is true, I agree it is. We're trying to give him solid advice. I been through family court, I worked briefly in a family law office. I'm trying here.

[QuakerOats]

Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom"  ....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig  

and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too

lol, exactly.

[kiwiol]

Uberman loves this thread, lol. Posts added to the uberman bible index.

[QuakerOats]

Uberman loves this thread, lol. Posts added to the uberman bible index.

No.

Kid needs both mother and father. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this 4 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.

Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.

[Natural Man]

Oh christ ...now apply85 is weighing in with his views on women too, as well as Uberman's "wisdom"  ....another monstrous clusterfuck of the virgins leading the blind here on getbig  

and yeah.....I'm thinking the OP is full of shit at this point too

You are in your 40s,

abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her

to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,

you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,


Please, seriously.



So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".

[lyquid]

do you want  the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.

do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..

would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?

No.

Kid needs both mother and father for a full psychological and physical development. But he needs them to better themselves while staying together. And this moron needs to man up. The way he bullshited us from the beginning to the end of this now 7 pages thread says a lot about the true nature of his character. It might turn out dude is just a scared immature young father of a one year kid who s lying to people to justify his desire to abandon them both. Also i wont even mention the fact he's attempting to find advises on a fucking bodybuilding related internet messageboard.

Still, it would be good news to hear that it's just a case of a little immature kid who never had a father figure, who s scared to man up, instead of the original story he told us was the truth. He would just have to man up and find guidance and with hard work he would be able to grow up and build a happy family where everyone is working on his weaknesses with the help of others, while bettering their strenghts in the interest of the whole society and mankind ultimately.

[johnnynoname]

I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run

It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk

but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.

seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick

[newmom]

do you want  the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.

do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..

would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?

UMMMMMMMMM HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you made a clear point. SHE WILL SAY WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I had someone I loved many years tell me he never loved me, cut my heart in half. Time heals wounds

[newmom]

I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run

It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk

but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.

seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick

PIP Rickson, we all knew it was you. It was a great change. OMG make sex with the ..... LMAO

[QuakerOats]

UMMMMMMMMM HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you made a clear point. SHE WILL SAY WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I had someone I loved many years tell me he never loved me, cut my heart in half. Time heals wounds

sorry to hear that, seriously.

[apply85]

kids get abandoned, it's how it works sometimes, the guys who get the most righteous about that shit are usually the ones who abandon families when it suits them

[Raymondo]

do you want  the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.

do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..

would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?

Calm down, mate. You have nothing to prove here, don't film your girlfriend, don't do anything impulsive.

[epic_alien]

ive read some good advice here, about how you should tie the loose ends up and get out. i can only wonder why this guy hasnt taken the advice. if he stays in this, its only going to get worse.

you have to leave now, the child doesnt know you, once you leave she will go back to the ex. guaranteed. he will take care of the child, as he is legally obligated to even if he is now married himself with other kids, he has to deal with it. not you!. so stop making yourself feel like your screwing the kid if you leave. its not yours.  for your future sanity, get out now.

but then i read your statement about you can have her do anything you want, cause you have her where you want her right now. i think your powertripping over that right now, and using that as a excuse to stay with her and that wont last long.. your just as fucked up as her, if you stay. cause once you do, your in the back seat again. where you always have been with her.

[newmom]

sorry to hear that, seriously.

quick, someone post uberman bible index. Thanks though. It's cool. I can say this, I'm a better person for going through that turmoil. Gave me strength and confidence.

[johnnynoname]

LOL @ "we all knew it was you"

when did you exactly know it was me?  When I would go on this forum and openly state that I ran Rickson or that other time when I was on here and would openly state I was RIckson?

[Natural Man]

I'll say this to the guy who runs the "uberman" gimmick: that is one hard gimmick to run

It's like, when I did Rickson Gracie, it was me just talking like my dad or one of my uncles would talk

but the dude who runs uberman types alot of stuff and has to copy and paste alot of shit as well.

seriously, kudos- that is a really labor intensive gimmick

Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
Also freudian psychanalysis  only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things. Philosophy, History, anthropology, ethology and biology too, while you re at it.

[wes]

You are in your 40s,

abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her

to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,

you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,


Please, seriously.



So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".

You sir are a complete and total fucking idiotic asshole who has probably never been near a woman other than your own mother.

[lyquid]

well this is real.. And I can prove it in a million ways.

and all I rly want here is to read the post first few pages to give me strength to realize this girl will never love me n I stop being so weak.

not a arugment on if this is real or not... What bullshit.

[johnnynoname]

Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
 Also freudian psychanalysis  only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things.

so, you're not a gimmick?

sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy

 

[newmom]

LOL @ "we all knew it was you"

when did you exactly know it was me?  When I would go on this forum and openly state that I ran Rickson or that other time when I was on here and would openly state I was RIckson?

chaos said so LOL.

[nder98]

[johnnynoname]

chaos said so LOL.

pw3nd

[newmom]

figures nder would chime in like fooker

so, you're not a gimmick?

sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy

 

legit LOL

[QuakerOats]

Or maybe im just a student in psychology who s into lifting weights and who come from a dysfunctionnal family himself?
 Also freudian psychanalysis  only represents 10% of what i ve studied so far. You should take a look at psychogenealogy, schema therapy among others things.

how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?

[wes]

so, you're not a gimmick?

sure ......and Derek Anthony got AIDS from eating pussy

 

LOL