Author Topic: can men and women be just friends...  (Read 26380 times)

jmt1

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1590
can men and women be just friends...
« on: December 09, 2011, 07:01:57 PM »
.

Nirvana

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 5121
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #1 on: December 09, 2011, 07:03:46 PM »
I keep dead animals as pets, so yeah why not?

MikMaq

  • Guest
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #2 on: December 09, 2011, 07:07:56 PM »
About half way someone points out how unbalanced it is, NO SHIT SHERLOCK!!!

Nirvana

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 5121
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #3 on: December 09, 2011, 07:09:14 PM »
we could be, but guys just want sex and hoes just want money.  Yall fuck it up for yuns selves.

TrueGrit

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15192
  • Big dude...all the way big dude.
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #4 on: December 09, 2011, 07:10:47 PM »
I have no problem being 'just friends' when they're ugly..
O

jmt1

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1590
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #5 on: December 09, 2011, 07:44:46 PM »
it shows just how naive women can be...sure the guy is gonna be your friend especially if he thinks it could lead to him getting some.

Schmoff

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 5223
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #6 on: December 09, 2011, 07:49:09 PM »
gay men can be friends with lesbian women


 :D

Stavios

  • Guest
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #7 on: December 09, 2011, 07:49:17 PM »
I have no problem being 'just friends' when they're ugly..

yeah but then, they like you more

outby43

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3474
  • Libertarians 2016
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #8 on: December 09, 2011, 07:50:41 PM »
yeah but then, they like you more

so true

Primemuscle

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 40727
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #9 on: December 09, 2011, 07:54:37 PM »
As long as there is no sexual tension, I think it is possible for men and women to be just friends. However, if there is no sexual tension then either one or both parties is not at all attractive or they are gay. Being married for forty-seven years, the sexual tension between my wife and me is pretty much a thing of the past. Maybe this explains why we are still best friends. Back in the day, when we were hot to trot, we weren't such good friends all of the time like now. Sometimes, yes we were friends and other times we were more lovers than friends. But then, this is just our experience.

Stavios

  • Guest
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #10 on: December 09, 2011, 07:58:37 PM »
As long as there is no sexual tension, I think it is possible for men and women to be just friends. However, if there is no sexual tension then either one or both parties is not at all attractive or they are gay. Being married for forty-seven years, the sexual tension between my wife and me is pretty much a thing of the past. Maybe this explains why we are still best friends. Back in the day, when we were hot to trot, we weren't such good friends all of the time like now. Sometimes, yes we were friends and other times we were more lovers than friends. But then, this is just our experience.

congrats for being married that long man

cool to see people sticking together that long

Jizzacked

  • Guest
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #11 on: December 09, 2011, 08:10:49 PM »
it always ends in disaster.  in the past,  I have been friends with women who did not fit my ideal... and I always ended up fucking them regardless in a moment of weakness.  the sex sucked, because I was not into them and was only following primal instinct.  it's hard to look a bitch in the face after that.... and then you never talk to them.

at least that's how it works out for me :D

booty

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 14912
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #12 on: December 09, 2011, 09:08:29 PM »
Most of my friends are female.  I've only got a handful of male friends.

aesthetics

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 2765
  • ~lil' cutey~
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #13 on: December 09, 2011, 09:21:06 PM »
i always preferred having female friends, i think mostly because i ended up sleeping with them eventually  ;D

dyslexic

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 7676
  • baddoggy
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #14 on: December 09, 2011, 09:28:32 PM »
As long as there is no sexual tension, I think it is possible for men and women to be just friends. However, if there is no sexual tension then either one or both parties is not at all attractive or they are gay. Being married for forty-seven years, the sexual tension between my wife and me is pretty much a thing of the past. Maybe this explains why we are still best friends. Back in the day, when we were hot to trot, we weren't such good friends all of the time like now. Sometimes, yes we were friends and other times we were more lovers than friends. But then, this is just our experience.


Truer words have never been spoken. Only the empirical data in a situation like this is available. No youngsters could possibly know what lack of "sexual tension" truly is ~ yes, you can still be very good friends, after all, you've been with eachother twice as long as most people even know eachother as  aquaintances.


(BTW, it is not just your experience) ~ you also more than likely have grown children who are now adults, and you are probably grandparents.

Schmoff

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 5223
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #15 on: December 09, 2011, 09:29:46 PM »
Most of my friends are female.  I've only got a handful of male friends.

can we be friends?

 :D

tbombz

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 19350
  • Psalms 150
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #16 on: December 09, 2011, 09:39:20 PM »
yes of course they can. even if theres sexual tension.

Nomad

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3457
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #17 on: December 09, 2011, 09:41:16 PM »
Ok, lets translate.

All the women said "Yes".

Translated to normalspeak or manspeak that means "NO FUCKING WAY BRO".
all drugs - TPPIIP

booty

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 14912
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #18 on: December 09, 2011, 09:48:37 PM »
can we be friends?

 :D
Yeah a long distance friend.   :D

tommywishbone

  • Competitors II
  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 20500
  • Biscuit
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #19 on: December 09, 2011, 09:51:03 PM »
Yes, but it's very difficult and very rare.
a

MAXX

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 16929
  • MAGA
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #20 on: December 09, 2011, 09:58:33 PM »
yep a straight guy is always in it for sex.  :D

WillGrant

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 21058
  • Ron is Watching
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #21 on: December 09, 2011, 10:53:36 PM »
Yes they can

Meso_z

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 17954
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #22 on: December 09, 2011, 10:59:09 PM »
Im your moms best friend.

Primemuscle

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 40727
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #23 on: December 09, 2011, 11:16:45 PM »

Truer words have never been spoken. Only the empirical data in a situation like this is available. No youngsters could possibly know what lack of "sexual tension" truly is ~ yes, you can still be very good friends, after all, you've been with eachother twice as long as most people even know eachother as  aquaintances.


(BTW, it is not just your experience) ~ you also more than likely have grown children who are now adults, and you are probably grandparents.

Yes we do have grown children (2) and grandchildren (4). I believe we passed something on to them too. Our daughter and her husband have said they are best friends. While my son and his wife haven't said this directly, they have been married for twenty-three years and seem to be as happy as the day they married, which means something. So, while we never verbalized or suggested how our son or daughter should live their lives, we must have inadvertently modeled what a longterm relationship can mean in a positive way.

Spicoli

  • Getbig III
  • ***
  • Posts: 436
  • People on luds should not drive
Re: can men and women be just friends...
« Reply #24 on: December 09, 2011, 11:43:03 PM »
NO!
Team Schering Oss NL