Why Do Men Cheat?

[_bruce_]

Men and women are meant to cheat - it's like the turnover of the ocean.
But well being of your offspring is top priority, so if the "dangling" harms the little one it's a no no.

[Natural Man]

Just because you can, doesnt mean you should, again. That's what differenciate human beings from animals. Animals cant anticipate the consequences of theirs actions as humans do.
God s words have been given to us so we can walk in His path to become just like Him. If you dont follow the principles that keep you on that path, you ll end a miserable animal no better than what we call "animals" without consciousness. Consciousness and education, knowledges, power, strenghts, beauty, can only be used to create and maintain, defend life if they are at the service of faith, at the service of God's words. Otherwise they ll be badly used and wasted.

We are nothing. And everything at the same time.

[Stavios]

if I would cheat on my current gf, I would feel so bad not only because of her but I feel I would also betray her family and they are all so cool toward me

it's just a matter of respect I think

[w8m8]

When I date a girl usually, I am SUPER attracted to her for like.. a month. Then I get bored pretty fast and after a few months I cheat

now, a getbigger once wrote here: I prefer learning to love a girl than learning to hate her.

it's kinda this way with my current girlfriend, because at the begginning I was like.. "blah..."
then after each passing week I am getting more attracted to her. I have been with her for a year now and we never have any fights and we laugh a lot.


I think I found love 

if I would cheat on my current gf, I would feel so bad not only because of her but I feel I would also betray her family and they are all so cool toward me

it's just a matter of respect I think

Goodonya Stavios

best wishes for you and your gf to have a great new year

[Slapper]

Men cheat because mother nature put us on this earth to multiply.

The more women the better the chance to advance one's own genes.

Monogamy is on the way out. I haven't checked the divorce rates or the rates of couples who decide to live together and not get married, but I bet they're pretty close to married couples rates.

There's no better feeling than walking out of a bar with a girl you like. That adrenaline rush makes it all worth it.

[Slapper]

You may be able to get Adriana Lima and end up marrying her but... I guarantee you that after a year or two she will not be that hot to you.

[gh15]

Why is Jock The Glide posting as GH15???   

why do 100s of others do it all over the boardings? and on here too,, and iget blame for al this postings too with things i never said

gh15 approved

[gh15]

So true. I was seeing "a perfect 10" for almost 2 years. I kinda tapered off after about 8 months or so. After doing everything you could possibly imagine to her crevasses the illusion was gone. Then I would find myself jerking off more to internet porn and less hot girls (even when we were having sex I was thinking of others). Eventually we were done and went separate ways. Now looking back I took her and her looks for granted and it sucks.

Thank god I took a ton of sexual photos of her because now I find myself jerking off to them today.

real honest fella,, i like!,, you can share her pictures with thunderdome any time lol

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[wes]

real honest fella,, i like!,, you can share her pictures with thunderdome any time lol

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LOL 

[MikMaq]

People cheat for two reasons. They're in a relationship that don't work, or they simply lack self control. It's all about ones ability for delayed gratification. If your weak minded your gonna cheat, not just on your partner, but at work, school, with the government etc. Thankfully in our society those who have a strong sense of order usually prosper while those that don't end up on jerry springer.


Anyhow as far as it's natural for a man to spread his seed this is only from the perspective of the narcissist. The reality is it's just as natural for the self interest of the group to override the interest of the individual, which is why every society in existence has social taboo's on cheating. Granted you can call it hypocritical that the group demands fairness while the individuals do not but like most things in life polar conflicts create balance.

[merrill1973]

the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,

rule of thumb

no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always

now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....

be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there

gh15 approved

This - absolutely.  

My ex was probably what you would consider an 8 or 9/10... stunning.. I still got bored after 3 years.... Thats when you have to work on it, keep it exciting.

[B_B_C]

Who are all these men cheating with?
with eachother?
Perhaps women who cheat are better at covering up than men?

[Vikingman]

I am married and I know more women who cheat then men-women are the new men-maybe years of oppression and broken families has caused this

[sean]

Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.

careful with that script. you might be chased down by some of the best manipulators out there. Remember, thats what their "advisers" tell them...

[dj181]

Who are all these men cheating with?
with eachother?
Perhaps women who cheat are better at covering up than men?

Whores

Preferably Ukrainian ones

[flinstones1]

[WillGrant]

Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people cheat

People who are adults and choose a partner to spend their life with should know it's never going to wonderful candlelight and roses for more than a minute

Communication is key in anything worthwhile

Expectations are more to blame than anything .. if you go into something expecting more then it's simple to get disappointed and go looking for more

Given the sexually charged atmosphere that is permeating the sensory paths humans face each day with music , adverts , and other media it's no wonder temptations are so plentiful

Anyone with a sense of self worth and pride would fix what they find wrong instead of being weak and running to the alternative that is front of them at the minute


as you say .. that thrill of fresh meat doesn't last and mostly begins a cycle of seeking more and more

QFT.. I put cheaters on the same level as rapists and pedo's, all deserve a bullet.. If you are going behind someones back that you have told you want to be with them and are there only one then you are scum...If you want to fuck others and are both not into the swinging lifestyle where you dont mind sharing then break up with them , being dishonest and showing zero respect and consideration to the person you tell you love really is the lowest of the low. 

[QuakerOats]

The adult, evolved mature version of teenage love is directly linked to the level of spirituality of an individual, to his/her faith. As is being able to build, maintain and perpetuate a family. Families were stronger and more stable in the past because they were religious. They also spawned happier, more mature and contributing individuals. Atheist families spawn lost, depressed, addicted and unable to contribute individuals who are a burden for the whole rest of society / the specie.

lol, another classic for the ubermensch bible.

[garebear]

The adult, evolved mature version of teenage love is directly linked to the level of spirituality of an individual, to his/her faith. As is being able to build, maintain and perpetuate a family. Families were stronger and more stable in the past because they were religious. They also spawned happier, more mature and contributing individuals. Atheist families spawn lost, depressed, addicted and unable to contribute individuals who are a burden for the whole rest of society / the specie.

You're a fvcking idiot and you're what's wrong with the human race.

Hope this helps.

[Doug_Steele]

 

[Stavios]

dude, that's your best post ever

i could look at tha gif all day

[RRKore]

Why do men cheat?  Well, according to the late, great Patrice Oneal, it's because men are like sport fishermen:

[indie-lad]

People cheat for two reasons. They're in a relationship that don't work, or they simply lack self control. It's all about ones ability for delayed gratification. If your weak minded your gonna cheat, not just on your partner, but at work, school, with the government etc. Thankfully in our society those who have a strong sense of order usually prosper while those that don't end up on jerry springer.


Anyhow as far as it's natural for a man to spread his seed this is only from the perspective of the narcissist. The reality is it's just as natural for the self interest of the group to override the interest of the individual, which is why every society in existence has social taboo's on cheating. Granted you can call it hypocritical that the group demands fairness while the individuals do not but like most things in life polar conflicts create balance.

I think it's all about the ego. We like to have a hot chick by our side and want all the others to be envious. And what guy doesn't like to gloat about his conquests to others...

[OptimusPrime1980]

well when i look at my life up untill now...
i have cheated on some of me ex girlfriends... 
but others i have not, nor felt the need to... they were exciting and kept the fire burning so to speak.
after a year or so, you have to work to keep the fire burning, and it´s not that hard!
and the girls i have not cheated on , also were my buddy´s... we could talk on every level, and they were cool as hell...
and you also have to have a partner that combines with you sexually, i LIKE sex.. and not every girl likes sex as much as men do.... just a fact... lol...
some girls just like it mommy and daddy style... well that will get boring ...
and vice versa as well offcourse...

a lot of people that are together do not COMBINE, they are together for the wrong reasons... be it financial reasons, or other interrests...
when you find someone that is fun, is your friend, has the type of looks that you like... and loves you for who you are.... and you feel the same..... no way will you cheat on somebody like that...
but today with this hopeless generation that is rare to find....

[gh15]

well when i look at my life up untill now...
i have cheated on some of me ex girlfriends... 
but others i have not, nor felt the need to... they were exciting and kept the fire burning so to speak.
after a year or so, you have to work to keep the fire burning, and it´s not that hard!
and the girls i have not cheated on , also were my buddy´s... we could talk on every level, and they were cool as hell...
and you also have to have a partner that combines with you sexually, i LIKE sex.. and not every girl likes sex as much as men do.... just a fact... lol...
some girls just like it mommy and daddy style... well that will get boring ...
and vice versa as well offcourse...

a lot of people that are together do not COMBINE, they are together for the wrong reasons... be it financial reasons, or other interrests...
when you find someone that is fun, is your friend, has the type of looks that you like... and loves you for who you are.... and you feel the same..... no way will you cheat on somebody like that...
but today with this hopeless generation that is rare to find....

vry good posting,, honest and real

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